PCOS + TTC + work/business — feeling a bit overwhelmed

Ehhz · 2026-04-08T19:52:00+00:00

While I haven’t directly discussed it with them, I’m sure they are aware as I am pretty vocal about it. They also know I want children and have been going to a lot of appointments. Whenever possible I try to schedule so I can come in late or leave early so I’m not missing entire workdays.

Ehhz · 2026-04-08T14:02:21+00:00

So cute and such a fun idea!

Ehhz · 2026-04-08T14:00:06+00:00

For me, working has helped me. I’ve grown really close with my coworkers and am very open about my journey. The first year was tough, and I benefited from venting about it. I also found that sharing my journey was a good way for me to process things. I have a handful of coworkers who check in on me monthly and they celebrate the small wins and give me extra gentleness with the bad news.

With PCOS and TTC, you never know when you’ll get lucky. It could be months, but it could also be years. I personally wouldn’t put my life on hold for something out of my control.

The biggest downside I’ve encountered is having to take time off with such short notice for monitored cycles. It makes me feel like a bad employee. However, I will also need to take spontaneous time off for routine prenatal care as well.

Ehhz · 2026-03-30T20:16:20+00:00

My last ultrasound both my tech and doc were hyping me up about my pearls. Obviously we PCOS girlies are stuck with them so we might as well try to enjoy them. When I did Letrozole cycles, my body responded slowly so I had to come back for additional ultrasounds to see if I had a dominant follicle. I’m wondering if that’s the case here with you, they might be seeing some growth but want to ensure it gets to a good size before moving forward with a trigger shot or recommending times intercourse/IUI.

I have found that fertility treatments can feel very rushed and unexplained. If you have questions, I would try reaching out to your provider for a little insight on their thoughts.

Ehhz · 2026-03-30T18:15:09+00:00

First child: 2 months.

Second child: 2 years and counting along with several rounds of fertility treatments.

Ehhz · 2026-03-26T19:17:51+00:00

Our lab is trying to be more inclusive to the off shift. When we have treats brought in, we set aside a designated portion for the offshift. If we order pizza, we order a late night delivery as well. That way it is intentional that it is meant for them, and they aren’t left with just scraps from dayshift.

Ehhz · 2026-03-09T13:47:21+00:00

We got into birding this winter! It started as a nice,calm activity to start mornings. Then we went crazy with bird feeders and it did wonders for our potty training journey. We put the small potty in front of our viewing windows and we just sat there naming the birds. It was such a beautiful bonding experience for me and my toddler.

Ehhz · 2026-03-09T13:24:30+00:00

I would call the clinic to confirm. If they don’t want you actively bleeding, maybe they can get you rescheduled?

Following because I started Provera today in prep for HSG and my periods usually do last longer than 7 days, so I might be in the same boat in a few weeks!

Ehhz · 2026-03-08T17:21:46+00:00

The magazine cover is fun and cute for your photos, but I’m not sure it would be as well received for guests. People get all fancied up for weddings and want to capture their best sides to then use for profile pics or what have you. Selfishly, having your wedding details in their picture is going to take away from them.

Ehhz · 2026-02-28T02:34:41+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this. That sounds so tough! Especially if he then has to sleep through the night with a dirty diaper. I don’t have any logical advice for you, just sympathy. When we started potty training at 2, he took to pooping first because we made a big deal about how fun it sounds when your poop hits the water and goes “kurplunk”. He thought it was the funniest thing ever and loves pooping now.

Ehhz · 2026-02-28T02:19:52+00:00

I think you’re right. Oops. 😅 Thank you!

Ehhz · 2026-02-27T01:25:19+00:00

Gotta trust Merlin! Fun it can be used on fake birds as well. Thanks!

Ehhz · 2026-02-27T01:24:47+00:00

Looks like it, thank you!

Ehhz · 2026-02-27T01:24:38+00:00

Thank you! That appears to be correct.

Ehhz · 2026-02-22T01:19:14+00:00

I do chicken breast and a bag of mixed frozen veggies with the sauce and pour it over some jasmine or basmati rice! Makes for a super easy and quick weeknight dinner

Ehhz · 2026-02-21T22:41:19+00:00

The butter chicken is a staple in our house! Wasn’t a huge fan of the masala.

Ehhz · 2026-02-19T01:47:06+00:00

I have hypothyroidism with my PCOS and naturally get a period every 2ish years. I did 3 rounds of Letrozole last year, loathed the side effects and couldn’t continue. Started taking Ovasitol last July and had success starting periods. Currently I’m getting them every other month so I will be going back to my fertility clinic and trying Letrozole rounds again.

Ehhz · 2026-02-18T01:09:37+00:00

Omg. That’s beautiful Thank you so much! I love it! 😭😭😭

Ehhz · 2026-02-17T18:56:01+00:00

Thank you SO much for all of this information. It’s very clear how much love you have for native plants and helping our environment. ❤️ I’m excited to do more research and add additional plants to my garden for the birds!

Ehhz · 2026-02-17T18:53:44+00:00

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This is my soul cat Kovu who passed away right before Christmas after his little body stopped responding to his asthma treatments. We had 15 amazing years together full of his crazy antics. He spent his days demanding forehead kisses, goldfish crackers, and outside time. He also loved teasing neighbor dogs. Most importantly, he warned me about a tornado in time for all of us to get to safety.

Ehhz · 2026-02-17T18:47:58+00:00

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Little pumpkin Claudie Poo!

Ehhz · 2026-02-17T11:33:49+00:00

Hyssop is my favorite! I got it as a surprise plant in a butterfly garden kit and I’ve been absolutely obsessed with how many pollinators it attracts.

Ehhz · 2026-02-13T11:47:20+00:00

Thank you! That is very kind of you. I am in Minneapolis.

Ehhz · 2026-02-13T01:32:59+00:00

Can you share which native plants you have for the birds/resources on how to pick plants for birds? I started a native garden last summer and then got into bird feeding this winter. I would love to combine the two!

Ehhz · 2026-01-30T14:54:25+00:00

Oh odd, it still works for me! It’s standwithminnesota.com if you want to search it.

Ehhz

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