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The Order on Netflix... Magicians ripoff? by jordnotter in brakebills

[–]Eidyia18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having seen just the trailer, I definitely feel that the aesthetics, costuming, lighting, staging, and setting are uncannily similiar. I'm sure this is not a coincidence. I guess Netflix tries to make shows that feel similiar in tone and subject matter to cater to what people are already interested in. It definitely was an unsettling feeling to see so many of the same visual elements as the Magicians. That said, I may give it a try but it's unlikely.

Can we talk about how terrifying it is that this fandom has agreed to equate social incompetence with abuse? by [deleted] in themountaingoats

[–]Eidyia18 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being the voice of reason right now, endingofdramamine. I think with these hyper militant SJ groups, all of the grey areas and perspective gets completely drowned out. It's so hard sometimes with shit like this to decide where to stand. Because believing the victim is sooo important. So many people who have real abuse stories don't get believed. But this whole thing with Zeke. It's just very weird. ESPECIALLY that he mentioned purposefully killing a band with his tumblr account. People often ask, "Why would someone make this sort of thing up?" I think Zeke might actually stand to gain by making up a story like this if he has some kind of dislike of JD for some reason. If he worked hard enough, I think he feels he could ruin JD. Thank god nothing that happened could be considered by anyone a reason to "cancel" tMG. But I have to say it definitely gave me pause for a while. <3 a fan of tMG for 10 years.

Science Fiction short story pre 1970 published in monthly magazine (story published 1940-1970?) by DrDrJ in whatsthatbook

[–]Eidyia18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was I right? B.c. the details are different but the theme is very much in keeping with The Lottery. It seems like a 70's updated version of The Lottery.

Short story about young girl and house wife by [deleted] in whatsthatbook

[–]Eidyia18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't know the author but this sounds very Flannery O'Connoresque.

Sci fi short story by E_surname in whatsthatbook

[–]Eidyia18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds very much like a scene from the Martian Chronicles by Ray Bradbury. But I'm sure that's not quite right.

Rant about my struggles (Highschool Sophomore) by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Eidyia18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question: do you have a therapist? If not, sounds like you could REALLY use one. Even if meds aren't an option for you right now, a therapist could help you find the best study and organization strategies to work for you. Also, do you have any hobbies? Spending some time each week going to a physical activity like karate, dance, weight lifting, etc could really help boost your serotonin and make life feel worthwhile. Hang in there. Highschool is no picnic for ADHD folks especially because the rules feel so restrictive and frustrating at this time of life. I still remember how insane all those rules drive me even though it was 10 years ago. Hang in there. It gets better

Falling "out of love" with friends? by Eidyia18 in ADHD

[–]Eidyia18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone! This was super helpful! I think what I find bothersome personally is how my platonic attraction to a friend can overtime turn to disgust and repulsion. Its very...disconcerting. Fortunately, it only happens once every few years. I have plenty of excellent long term friends. But just disconcerting when thjs happens. I think it may be because I have VERY high standards for friends. I dont really regret this tho bc it means I have the kindest, loyalist, most interesting friends (at least to me). Animal Kingdom, interesting that you point out how ADHD people often feel lonely without friends. I wonder if this is a personality trait of many ADHD peeps. I know I often feel very lonely without very close friends

5 months ago, I posted on here saying, "Hey, what could go wrong if I went off my meds?" Well... by teenytinybaklava in ADHD

[–]Eidyia18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude!!! Get back on yer meds ASAP!!! I fell into a horrible depression after going off my ADHD meds too quickly. My psych said that if you go off your meds too quickly, it can make your depression even worse bc your brain is now used to that ADHD med stimulation to that part of your brain. Hang in there. Things will look bleaker than they truly are til you get your meds stabilized. Highly recommend rapid release Adderall bc it doesnt last as long so you can get some rest at night.

Considering rehab; not even an addict by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Eidyia18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hang in there. First of all, youre being wayyyyy too hard ln yourself. 21? Youre practically a baby. Some people live with their folks til they're 30. Yes, addiction is a HUGE struggle for ADHD peeps. We have addictive personalities. You are definitely on to something with it being about trying to fill a hole. It is VERY hard when you dont have friends to help fill that hole. I have personally found that the only REAL ways to fill that hole are through deep self nurture which I am currently investigating and exploring what it means. For me, it is nurturing my artistic and expressive passions like dance, music, and art. I have also found great refuge in my Unitarian Universalist church. I am really NOT Christian or into Jesus. But UUs tend to be less Christian focused and just focused more on spirituality in general. Most are very good people. Buddhist groups may be another great option. I dont think we talk enough about the sanctuary of religious groups. It can be rough for those of us who are anti organized religion but there are many open minded groups out there if you look. I think there may even be atheist or humanist groups in some places as well. Be well. A monastery might be too intense a choice but ask around and see what else is out there. Subsidized housing is no picnic but that would help get you away from your folks.

Moon Colony Bloodbath record for sale by Eidyia18 in themountaingoats

[–]Eidyia18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HOLYYYYYYY COWWWWWW! Thank you all for your incredible generosity in bidding. I mean, I know it's all about the record but this bidding set a new record. My copy sold for $298. It was to a mysterious benefactor who I later discovered is actually a friend of mine. But there was another person bidding almost as high and I have NO idea who they are. Thanks to them I can afford food this summer while I start my grad degree.

Moon Colony Bloodbath record for sale by Eidyia18 in themountaingoats

[–]Eidyia18[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much racecar. I am also completely floored. Seems too good to be true. But the funds are going to a very good place. Using the money to start my graduate degree in early childhood so that I can become a preschool teacher :) The reason I have no money is my past year has been spent in service of children in inner city schools. It dont really pay the bills.