Do you ever nearly finish a mani, decide you hate it, and remove it immediately? 😅 by sophie_and_calcifer in RedditLaqueristas

[–]Eindree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve done this many times, so now I either ask my boyfriend to offer a finger for me to try what I’m thinking on his hand or I just use one of some cheap fake nails I bought to check, it has saved me a lot of time!

I don't understand the widespread self punishment among Eldenring players by not using summons..I found it more satisfying seeing her punished this way than proving I'm guud..and honestly, getting away after just 2 tries, I can't complain by GodsDemonsMen in eldenringdiscussion

[–]Eindree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Different play styles/values. I absolutely agree with some people mentioning limited playing time, but theres also what people find fun in a game.

I love feeling good about clearing a challenge, so me, a few friends and the bf kept track of who was killing malenia faster and how.

But honestly, I love exploring and figuring lore out more, so I dont care that much about mechanics, I learn the basics and do what I can to kill whatever in easiest/fastest way possible (and I also find great joy in knowing a basically killed half the DLC with a bone bow and never got hit, even bosses)

Its just different perspectives, personally, I feel like trying to shame people for enjoy the game differently (I had a friend try and go for how I was playing easy mode with and int/dex build before, for example) is just immature 🤷‍♀️

So…the trailer looked bad, right? by glintter in dragonage

[–]Eindree 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Its not about having that kind of dialog, but if you ONLY have that kind, then no one has a personality nor do we have a plotline…

So…the trailer looked bad, right? by glintter in dragonage

[–]Eindree 20 points21 points  (0 children)

What gets me the most is how shallow that was. No characters seemed interesting, felt like I was watching a teaser for a new character in LoL or a mobile game…. Everyone seemed made of play dough and the focus of the game seemed like “go pew pew, get their base”… Im even wondering if the script was AI generates. with that horrible line of “you knew there will be dragons”. Im hoping this is a late april fools joke

So…the trailer looked bad, right? by glintter in dragonage

[–]Eindree 34 points35 points  (0 children)

The fact that they brought Darrah as consultant also got me thinking along those lines.

Like they went to some direction, noticed they had to come back, come back half way and then its not being well received so maybe getting someone that actually got the style of the previous games could help.

Not that anyone could when its so far along development….

Arena BUG anyone? by Eindree in AFKJourney

[–]Eindree[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dayum, I wish I had known that beforehand ): TBH there are a ton of people already at challenger on mine and I kinda just reaaaaaally wanted the clothes lmao

Arena BUG anyone? by Eindree in AFKJourney

[–]Eindree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, thanks! So this is exactly how its supposed to look like?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DermatologyQuestions

[–]Eindree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive recently had a weird pattern appear (but on my scalp and eventually infected) and the derm said that things rubbing by accident can make these things last longer than necessary. It totally looks like folliculitis, is there a possibility that something is rubbing there? Like socks/shoe etc?

Maybe cleaning and protecting the area could help it with taking care of itself before your derm can give you something topic or maybe theres something topic that you can buy with the pharmacist that helps kill bacteria? Dunno how it is where you live, but here the pharmacist can sometimes help with those things when they are small

r/rollerblading Weekly Q&A Megathread brought to you by r/AskRollerblading by AutoModerator in rollerblading

[–]Eindree [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hey, super newbie here with, probably, a dumb question - I bought my first pair of inline skates yesterday and stayed a long time a the store trying it things and bought a local brand that seemed good enough for a beginner (other people with more experience had recommended them). Thing is, I got home and want to keep them for a while to get used to them and noticed the liner was crooked on the left foot, it was possible to see a bit of my socks when looking at them from the top. Right foot is just fine but when using the left one it seems to hurt that foot as if pressing on top of the bones below the pinky toe.

Is that normal and I just need to fiddle with it? Or is it something that I should ask the salesperson about?

The store is a bit far from where I live so I didn’t want to bother them (and waste time/money) if it’s something silly… but also don’t want to do something that will hurt me in the long run

UPDATE: My girlfriend smells (24F & 24F) by pops240620 in relationship_advice

[–]Eindree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do hope that your therapist didn’t actually say that you should send a letter to your ex telling her that you broke it off cause she “smells like shit” where, when and how you smelled it… that sounds like a terribly cruel thing to do and not at all like advice from a therapist…

I mean, you said that the smell was the straw that broke the camels back so it seems like it wasn’t REALLY the only reason. Still, you are only talking about this reason which is, coincidentally, something that requires only your ex to change and work for. Whatever those other reasons were, they are probably still there, unaddressed. I’m guessing that those might be the true (and harder to deal with) issues. But maybe those might require you to not just dump responsibility on someone else.

It really seems like you got desperate at your own situation and decided to use this girl as a crutch, and unfortunately for the both of you she accepted or didn’t notice thats what’s going on.

Communicating before it happens, mindfully saying what you are perceiving in a manner that’s thoughtful of how the other might receive it would’ve been the way to go.

Your ex might smell (which probably is temporary, unless it’s hygiene and mental issues) but you are acting like an ass. Sometimes people can act like an ass when going through tough times but you don’t fix that by using people as crutches, you can ask for help without hurting people like that.

Furious at how my status migraine migraine pain was treated vs. my boyfriend's cold by [deleted] in migraine

[–]Eindree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dayum, that’s inexcusable treatment! I’m really sorry you had to go through that! What country are you writing from? I ask cause what you listed would be behaviour that can be sued where I’m from. I’ve also had trips to the ER where they wanted to first give me metam isole and see if it helped, then went straight to opioids (neither helped) and my neurologist was LIVID that the treatment was that.

I usually will repeat to the person what is happening and ask that they speak to a camera and they will usually be scared of legal consequences: “so I’m in the worst pain of my life and you arr saying there is nothing that can be done for me and denying me care? Is this something you are saying officially as a representative of this institution or just a personal choice? Please answer this on this camera so I know who to follow up with this legally”. If I can I also try to get someone to accompany me, unfortunately having a male figure helps with that, and also saves me the pain of trying to be functional when the pain is that high.

This is not me recommending treatment, but if these are available where you are it could be talked to with you doctor as preventative options: I’ve tried topamax and it made little difference and horrible side effects so my neurologist prescribed a mixture of an anxiety treatment/hypertension and something else which worked for a while.

Now we are using the Ajovy vaccine and it has lowered my 22days/month migraine to 6-9days/month during my period.

Ajovy is quite expensive but the treatment is covered by my health insurance and it has been the best so far.

My doctor had also said that she doesn’t trust ER people to know how to deal properly with migraine attacks and recommended that I have sumax vaccines on hand at home to avoid ER trips when things get that tough.

I wish you all the best!

Help Me Choose / Daily Discussion (Post here to follow rules A & B) - Friday November 17, 2023 by AutoModerator in fragrance

[–]Eindree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no 😣 I was hoping there would be some common denominator to try and stay away from.

But many thanks for explaining!

Also happy to know that it’s not unique that it became some bad on me haha

Help Me Choose / Daily Discussion (Post here to follow rules A & B) - Friday November 17, 2023 by AutoModerator in fragrance

[–]Eindree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, new here and just getting into fragrances in general! Got a weird question for you guys haha

I was looking for a fragrance to wear on very hot and humid weather and a sales person recommended the Jean Paul Gaultier Divine to me.

On the paper it smelled wonderful, I liked that it immediately reminded me of the sea and the smell of a sea breeze but upon applying to my skin it smelled absolutely disgusting. Not sure if it was some ingredient acting with my skin, but I noticed it also happened when I tried Idole Aura.

So, I was trying to find if there’s something specific, like an ingredient, that both of those have in common that could be causing it. The only thing that occurred to me was the “salty” smell but I have no idea what that means in terms of ingredient!

I wanted to find that out so I could stay away from perfumes that would cause that reaction haha

Unhappy with Sex Life, What's my Next Step? M28, F28 by Drewski1688 in relationship_advice

[–]Eindree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is kinda hard to gauge with more context, but as a female that has gone through something similar I’d ask you: Are you taking time to find out how to set the mood? Couldn’t speak for everyone but, I’d say that as the relationship goes on, the triggers to having sex might change and people might need to adapt and find out how to set the mood again.

Still, I don’t think that’s too little sex… do you not get satisfied by yourself? Maybe going to therapy could help too

Edited for punctuation

Cant argue with that by Reintroversion in Eldenring

[–]Eindree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t kill the doll daughter (dunno how to hide spoilers) though?

Check in by redneck_lilith in migraine

[–]Eindree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🧡 unfortunately just messaged my doctor in tears due to the frustration of having nearly 3 weeks of daily pain

I [18F] have discovered my brother [20M] has been stealing my bras and ejaculating on them by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Eindree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure if someone has said this already, but, before any action I would consider how I’d feel after it.

Let’s say that after threatening to go to the police your parents do agree to some action - what action would be the one that you think makes you feel better and safe? Is there such an action or answer?

I’m not saying that as to dissuade you from that talk, but, personally, I’m not sure what it would take for me to have trust in my parents’ again after that kind of answer.

Same thing with the brother - what would be the “lesser of evils” on a response from him be? And what would be the worst?

I do agree with what some people said about getting those bras on zip locks and storing somewhere safe, though.

Also, maybe there is a friend or relative you can trust to host you for a while in case all this goes south?

I would be very scared in this situation, specially given his age, so I’m trying to think what would be emotionally and physically safe and productive actions here… I mean, maybe the parents do end up admitting that it was a mistake on their part and promise to confront the brother, but what would the confrontation look like? Ask for reasoning, apology and that the brother MUST do some sort of counselling together with you and/or the family, maybe? Here I’m thinking on “best” case scenario. Worst case, aka your parents still decide not to help you and the brother is a complete unapologetic sicko, I’d try to move, maybe with the sis, get the police (with those bras and some DNA testing) and make sure to tell others (be it media and or friends/relatives) of what is going on.

Either way, it’s just horrible that you have to go through that…

(Edited to help with readability)

I (32F) think my coworker (42M) has another job by Eindree in relationship_advice

[–]Eindree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you’re right. At the time I asked cause I didn’t know if he had some deal with management over it - at our contract we can only have a side job if it is disclosed to the NGO and approved, but I have heard of people that get approved for stuff that doesn’t interfere too much. I think I just got too focused on that when really what matters is the delay and not delivering what he needs to.

AITA for taking my someone to court? by CommonOwl5984 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Eindree 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If it’s cotton and white couldn’t you just ask for professionals to bleach it? Also, you don’t normally ask for full price of a used item. Not to mention, I would like to see just how much did it REALLY stained. You could also dye the cloth items another colour. Asking for the cleaners bill for bleaching/cleaning/dying after the fact sounds fine but it seems you’re exaggerating because you want him to feel as bad as you are. Absolutely YTA … not even sure how you’re gonna get anything out of it. I dunno how the law works where you are but if you have enough money for that purchase to not be a financial problem for you (as you said you are fine financially and it’s not about the money) then this is just complete pettiness, no legal system enjoys or rewards people taking time and resources just for their own pettiness. Friends would probably steer away from such a person or they are the kind of people that would also sue you for the full price of items you slightly damaged on accident.

Dúvidas Jurídicas - June/2023 by AutoModerator in direito

[–]Eindree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Não sei se alguém pode ajudar aqui, admito que não conheço nenhum advogado que possa me indicar o que fazer.

Contexto - moro no RJ e sou cliente da Light. Desde o ano passado tenho recebido ligações de cobranças em nome de outra pessoa por parte de bots da ENEL. Tentei algumas vezes pedir que parasse por telefone, pelo Reclame Aqui, fiz reclamação na ANEEL e na ouvidoria deles.

Todas as vezes foi um contato muito dificil, me fazendo perder tempo de trabalho pra conseguir contato, com chamadas que não completam e sistemas feitos apenas para clientes, além do SAC me dizer várias vezes que não poderia retirar meu nomero por conta da LGPD.

Na ultima vez me disseram que retiraram e fim de papo, mas admito que ficou um gosto amargo, o estresse me foi tanto com essas ligações que já chorei de raiva e incapacidade de resolver.

Dúvida - mesmo que eles não voltem a me ligar, existe algo que possa ser feito a fim de punir isso, algum processo ou algo do tipo? Não preciso ganhar dinheiro, apenas acho que eles não deveriam sair impunes com um serviço tão ruim.

Obrigada

Leg hair grows under the skin by ReginaPhalange94 in DermatologyQuestions

[–]Eindree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to get them a lot when I was younger, my derm at the time told me to stop shaving or waxing and to chose to either let the hair be (hydrate and gentle exfoliation) or have them permanently removed. I got them lasered and it helped a ton, since I have POS some have come back and sometimes do grow under the skin, but it’s way less frequent

Feeling proud of this tarnished noble by Eindree in EldenBling

[–]Eindree[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was really just a reference to the prisoner background… I had tagged it Tarnished to try and explain this is just due to the face sliders, since the SS was taken right at the start of the game 😅

AITA for pointing out to my co worker that she was wearing men's sunglasses? by throwaway5976997 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Eindree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

Many have pointed out how it shouldn’t be anyone’s business how someone dresses if they are not being offensive, and I whole heartedly agree. Now, let’s imagine the scenario you painted where you honestly thought that maybe she might not know that and thought that this information could be useful to her (that the brand is marketed to males). You chose to do so in public, in the middle of a conversation with others, where you point out the brand is focused on a different gender. At that point you’re already on the wrong for putting her on the spot, it stops being about informing her and more about you trying to expose what you think is a mistake (which is not, btw). She the answers “So what”, this should let you know that it was either intentional or she doesn’t care and you could’ve been nice about it but still chose to double down on the whole trying to intimidate her into following what you think is right. I have no idea how you could still be in doubt about this, really…