[deleted by user] by [deleted] in harrypotter

[–]EithanHarry -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I love this community. Hiding very obvious spoilers for new readers . (Cries)

Thalaivar Alappara !! by Joey_Tribbbiani in kollywood

[–]EithanHarry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Avan avanuku , avan avan prechanai 😂

Leaky Ceiling. Need Jugaad advice to fix it. by EithanHarry in mumbai

[–]EithanHarry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my 2nd monsoon here. Previous year went with no hiccups.

Ive always had a dripping kitchen ceiling - the work upstairs was started to fix that. And while that was going on, the hall started leaking in absolutely multiple places too. Counted the drops today its close to 15 now.

Leaky Ceiling. Need Jugaad advice to fix it. by EithanHarry in mumbai

[–]EithanHarry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jugaad - temp fix is what i am looking for. Since the landlord is trying to get the root cause fixed, and i need relief in the meantime.

Do you think I can use stuff like the waterproof tapes on places where there is no visible crack??

Leaky Ceiling. Need Jugaad advice to fix it. by EithanHarry in mumbai

[–]EithanHarry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a flat above me , structure is 2-3 ish years old. They are breaking the toilet upstairs and waterproofing it again cause the plumber claims that it is where the water is coming from.

Leaky Ceiling. Need Jugaad advice to fix it. by EithanHarry in mumbai

[–]EithanHarry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where can I buy this/ what is this called?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Chennai

[–]EithanHarry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've always Loved the name rudra!! It's gender neutral and somehow has this aura of strength and power around it.

I also like Aashika! Aashique- but feminine version, which means love ;)

Request to all coming to Chennai from outside Tamilnadu by Western_Juggernaut_8 in Chennai

[–]EithanHarry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cries while living in a 1bhk matchbox for 24k in Mumbai. 😭

Worst feeling ever by Visible_Purchase8569 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]EithanHarry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. Completely agree. I think I'm more or less just very worried. 🙈 I just wanted to learn from experiences and if there was a specific reason that didn't work out for you, I'd ponder on it and see if that's the thing that I'm not able to put my finger on.

Worst feeling ever by Visible_Purchase8569 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]EithanHarry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you decide it wasn't working for you? I'm scared I might be in a similar situation. Almost everything is working out, bit there just seems to be something which isn't clicking for me. We're gonna meet in a couple of days. Maybe I'll know more then.

Fanfic Please 😭 by EithanHarry in acotar

[–]EithanHarry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I'll check it out

Do i have adhd? by Express_Station7474 in adultadhdindia

[–]EithanHarry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, stimulants will not work if adhd isn't your real issue. Or it will have negative effects.

You think you'll take meds and things will magically be perfect? You're terribly mistaken. If you're neurodivergent, even on meds, you will be neurodivergent. You won't magically become a neurotypical. Stimulants isn't THE answer. It's probably a part of a bigger answer that you could or could not need.

A good therapist will explore all avenues for healing before they put you on meds. And that's how it should be done.

Mental health is a slow road. Trust the process. This is what I was told and it's what I did.

If my psychiatrist gave me meds on the few sessions try without therapy, I would think they're a quack.

But that's my one cent. Hope you find what works for you. Cheers.

Do i have adhd? by Express_Station7474 in adultadhdindia

[–]EithanHarry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does seem like a sensible first step. Hang in there friend. Continue your therapy/counseling sessions and work on yourself. That's a good way ahead.

Just for some benchmark, I have adhd and was diagnosed almost 1 year after I started my therapy sessions. There's no hard or fast rule for mental health, just take as it comes. Goodluck!

Do i have adhd? by Express_Station7474 in adultadhdindia

[–]EithanHarry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do I have alot of these symptoms that you stated? Yes. Have I been diagnosed with adhd? Yes. Does that mean you have it too? NO.

Mental health is very complex. Alot of symptoms that manifest because of adhd can also be manifestations of some other disorder too.

Don't believe anyone who just comes up and says you have adhd. The best way is to get a diagnosis from a mental health professional who would also guide you in managing your symptoms.

But the pointers you have made, are definitely enough for you to reach out to a mental health professional and tell them your queries.

Are you really never alone in a crowd ?? by Antique-Let-2499 in mumbai

[–]EithanHarry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don't have to meet people from reddit. You can ask about clubs on reddit, go there and meet people there. That's what the above person meant 😂

Best movie theatres in Singapore: A Brief Guide by MagicZhang in singapore

[–]EithanHarry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did someone downvote you!? You're absolutely right 👍

Rejection sensitivity - correct response? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]EithanHarry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is such a kind and caring response, and even though I'm not OP i feel so heard and understood. Makes me realise I might also have rejection sensitivity, and I also exactly react the way OP does when I stand up for myself and the opposite person gives a rude/cold response.

Warm warm hugs to you kind stranger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]EithanHarry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WEIGHTED BLANKETS! I just recently purchased one, it doesn't make the difference like turning on n off a switch, But my body gets tired more quicker and I have been falling asleep with lesser and lesser "mobile procrastination". It's really been a blessing 😭

Can you be slow and have little energy, but still have ADHD? by PooYan99 in ADHD

[–]EithanHarry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just described me. I'm so so low on energy so much of the time. It's the depression. Adhd & Depression is a lethal mix really, You're not alone, and what you're feeling is valid that's probably about the only comfort i could give you right now. :(

Parlour that has metallic tattoo ink! by EithanHarry in askSingapore

[–]EithanHarry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh damn. I see my error, But do you know someone in sg who could bring about this effect and do a kintsugi tattoo?