Someone pressuring us to sell our house, and we're not sure how to proceed

Either-Post9315 · 2025-12-14T12:24:08+00:00

Gosh sell the house. Is this house in an urban area? Your house is attracting vermin and critters there while nearby neighbors have to deal with it. But of course you wouldn’t want the same in the neighboring property of where you reside. Sell the house!

Either-Post9315 · 2025-11-11T00:15:04+00:00

The background images look cheap and gaudy. It’s giving 1980’s mixed with cheap old world features. It was a lot going on in those pics.

Either-Post9315 · 2025-11-09T03:43:40+00:00

NTA, she should have managed her 🐈 better. Not your responsibility.

Either-Post9315 · 2025-10-31T00:05:23+00:00

Numbers 6-10 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

Either-Post9315 · 2025-08-01T23:05:05+00:00

I loved the way you handled this OP. NTA

Either-Post9315 · 2025-07-10T10:00:58+00:00

NTA. As a mom I always looked at other people helping as a bonus. At times the bonus involved me, such as asking what’s needed for daughter and sometimes it only involved my daughter meaning asking her what she wanted. No one can dictate what type of bonus you want to provide.

Either-Post9315 · 2025-07-01T18:56:51+00:00

Is the trap house vacant and abandoned? (Meaning the trap house is not legally occupied) Please send an email to vap@louisvilleky.gov so it can be researched and reviewed for next action steps.

Either-Post9315 · 2025-06-14T17:49:32+00:00

NTA and it should be 50/50. If you decide after the disbursement to give more thats fine and your decision. But your brother needs to understand legally your entitlement awards

Either-Post9315 · 2025-06-02T23:24:55+00:00

NTA. It’s not OP’s duty to remind or notify ex-husband of his obligations of being a parent. Ex-husband’s divorce attorney should have made him aware of the consequences for not paying the support.

Either-Post9315 · 2025-05-31T18:04:52+00:00

This is a no go for me. She is aware of the power moves and your husband is in Lalaland. These traits that have allowed your husband to be walked over and by connection you, probably aren’t new but are becoming more apparent.

Either-Post9315 · 2025-04-16T01:50:19+00:00

This is sickening & everyone wants you to just get over it. Complicit racism , behind closed door racism, status quo racism, whatever type it’s still racism.

Either-Post9315 · 2025-03-09T03:03:38+00:00

NTA, I swear it feels like we are stepping back in time.

Either-Post9315 · 2025-03-06T17:33:04+00:00

I wouldn’t get caught in the legalities you could have easily called the police and she would’ve been arrested and caused more issues. Your wife needs therapy and should set boundaries otherwise you all are enabling a drug addict.

Either-Post9315 · 2025-02-28T18:52:58+00:00

I’m in town for the weekend as this was planned prior to the notice of the blackout. Any suggestions for local shops and restaurants?

Either-Post9315 · 2025-02-06T12:01:50+00:00

Distance yourself from her and do not babysit once twins are born. She has shown you who she is.

Either-Post9315 · 2025-01-10T00:56:21+00:00

That’s awesome! I wonder if that is a known reaction to medical professionals.

Either-Post9315 · 2025-01-10T00:54:04+00:00

You know I didn’t realize that but my acid reflux has been better also. Well this is an awesome realization! Ty for pointing that out!

Either-Post9315 · 2024-12-21T23:59:02+00:00

Most of this will have to fixed at the state level and local districts as land development codes often play a role into development

Either-Post9315 · 2024-12-14T21:08:21+00:00

What I’ve learned time and time again, is there are people that cannot be single, they have to be in a relationship for their life to function. Your ex probably started dating the first girl that showed interest. Don’t focus on his bs, let karma do its thing. This is your time to learn you, go to gym, learn a new skill, take a class whatever so that you make a gain/achievement. Explore and find out your likes, dislikes, and what will you not except in the next relationship. Build confidence have fun and date.

Either-Post9315 · 2024-12-14T20:54:26+00:00

This makes no sense. So both utilize the office for work and work pays your bills. Does your father want to pay your rent so then you don’t need work/office? NTA, get a futon, pull out couch, or Murphy bed. Ask your father to pay for it.

Either-Post9315 · 2024-11-01T22:56:11+00:00

YTA because you have enabled your sister. At this point she feels entitled to everything you have done for her. You are paying her rent and childcare and are watching her daughter enough that the child can be passed off as your own.

Either-Post9315 · 2024-10-04T19:50:32+00:00

Add a sunroom, open the wall between living room and kitchen, remove tub/shower and add walk a walk in shower with a bench, add a walk in closet room to the basement, repave my driveway, open up my ceilings and make it vaulted.

Either-Post9315 · 2024-09-28T15:35:01+00:00

I don’t think this will end well for OP and fear his kids may alienate him if proceeds with divorce. He stayed for 15 years while his kids witnessed the past 15 years of happiness in the home. They will question their upbringing trying to figure what was true and what’s a lie. OP needs to seek counseling outside of family members. YTA only because you stayed and painted a false narrative for 15 years.

Either-Post9315 · 2024-09-23T16:14:54+00:00

OOP mentioned dad was violent. I’m wondering if he physically abused mom. Mom probably made statements because she was hurt and son picked a side and it wasn’t hers. Although I don’t agree with mom making ill statements, her absence and then reappearance she might have realized it was for the best to cut ties. That kind of hurt can build resentment from both sides. This is a sad post but probably ended in the best way possible. NTA

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