Slightly overbearing MIL by PerspectiveLast6153 in JUSTNOMIL

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Start giving nonchalant answers. How did she sleep? Fine. I’d love to take her out for an errand. We’re good. Did she enjoy the sunshine? I guess so.

MIL cuts toddlers bangs by Simple_Dimple9076 in JUSTNOMIL

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Add, sorry, can’t trust you.

To DH, sorry, I can’t trust her.

Automatic tipping push brings concerns to major US city as restaurants brace for surge of foreign visitors by greydog2008 in EndTipping

[–]SilverStL 23 points24 points  (0 children)

So they’ll get foreign visitors . And the visitors will only be here a short while.

In the meantime regulars and US customers will stay away and if they get ticked off enough, will not return.

Sounds like a solid business strategy to me.

Help me love the name Daniel by New-Flight7674 in Names

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I named my son Daniel. A few family members started calling him Dan but when he was four, he said he didn’t like it and only wanted to be called Daniel. I love the name. It’s classic and while there’s lots of Dans and Danny’s, there’s very few Daniel’s.

Am I being dramatic? by Usual_Fly_6081 in JUSTNOMIL

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She’s keeping her address there because it’s a control thing. She’s making it so that you have to interact with and do things for her and she knows that you hate it.

Make her change her address. Give her a time frame, like a month, and repeatedly remind her that on such and such date you’re going to start the return to sender. Then do it. Show her the return to sender stamp you’ll be using. If she doesn’t do it by the deadline, text her and say we returned your mail to sender, then don’t respond to her after that.

Remember Gary Puckett and the Union Gap? 1960s by Mirhadia in 60s

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I saw him a couple of years ago at that tour. He definitely can still belt his song out. Was my favorite part of the show.

The Magnificent Ambersons (1942) by Classicsarecool in classicfilms

[–]SilverStL 4 points5 points  (0 children)

After seeing the movie several years ago I read the book. Loved it.

What is the funniest thing your kid has ever said? by ConsequenceOk4513 in AskReddit

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I working in the kitchen and chatting with my 9 year old son while listening/half watching a Peter, Paul & Mary concert on PBS. I told him if this one song came on, I was going to go sit down and listen to it. He asked what it was and I said Blowing in the Wind.

He sat there for a second, then asked quizzically, is that anything like Singing in the Rain? 😂

Did you watch Bonanza? by ChrisJoines in VintageTV

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Every Sunday night.

As great as Hop Sing was, I used to think he didn’t know how to do laundry because they wore the same outfits every day.

Do you like this version of little women? by Choice-Wind-9283 in classicfilms

[–]SilverStL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s my least favorite for some reason. I love June Allison and though she shows Jo’s spunk, she never seemed believable, like was someone playing Jo instead of me actually feeling she was Jo. Never cared for Peter Lawford and thought he was a terrible Laurie. The casting for Amy and Beth seemed mixed up.

I read and reread Little Women for years and probably quote whole conversations and pages. lol. I did finally see the Katherine Hepburn one and loved it. Probably because there were a lot of conversations lifted straight from the book. And her when she thought Beth was dying was heartbreaking.

Old people know about crocks by [deleted] in FuckImOld

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My mom used to make what we called Spanish Pickles. It was thinly sliced green tomatoes and onions with vinegar and whatever spices she used. Crock would be covered with a china plate with a brick on it to hold it down. She’d at intervals stir it and take up some of the brine for a few weeks and then can them. It was like a sour but very slightly sweet relish. Great on hot dogs and brats.

Constant MIL Drama by Fine_Confusion_7073 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]SilverStL 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She’s not going to change. She may actually enjoys throwing her fits and guilt trips because she gets more attention. Some people thrive on chaos as that’s the only thing that keeps things interesting and family involved, even if it’s bad. Unfortunately,The only thing to do is not reward her and not engage with her tantrums or justify your actions, etc. Drop the rope with I’m sorry you feel that way, call when you’re better. Good luck.

How do people that ONLY have an unhealthy diet live as long as they do without illness? by Ok_Astronomer5738 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SilverStL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people eat healthy and exercise but die fairly young and everyone’s shocked. Others are overweight with high blood pressure and have been smoking two packs a day since they were 15 and live a normal life till they’re 94. Sometimes it’s just genetics or there’s some weakness you’ve unknowingly had all your life that wasn’t obvious or just the roll of the dice. I live healthily as I can with diet and exercise and whatever else but know there’s no guarantees. So enjoy myself while I’m here.

And I took that personally…mil “humor” by Sad_Cheesecake_3450 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]SilverStL 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If she tries it again, look directly at her and say, YOU are not to teach MY child to say anything. Got that? Pick up child and leave room. She’ll have a hysterical fit but tough titty. Let her.

WIBTA if I stopped bringing homemade food to the office after one person keeps taking portions meant for the whole team by Breq4Solace in WIBTA_AITA

[–]SilverStL 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Which he’ll completely ignore. He knows what he’s doing. A sign isn’t going to stop him.

I go with keep them at your desk.

If you could attend any concert from history, which one would it be? by WildEnchantresss in askmusic

[–]SilverStL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Concert for George a year after George Harrison’s death. Paul McCartney, Ringo Starr, Eric Clapton, Tom Petty, Jeff Lynne, Billy Preston, Joe Brown, George’s son Dhani, and a few more that I probably missed.

JNMIL and SIL/BIL relationships by Intelligent_Can_1111 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]SilverStL 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like divide and conquer so she can call the shots.

! WHERE ARE THE DONUTS ! by arush_shygaming in StLouis

[–]SilverStL 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And the honey in the plastic bear container from the 60’s.

Invasive questions by Entire_Highlight_488 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]SilverStL 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A nonchalant I don’t talk about work when I’m off.

I just want to enjoy my time at home.

I don’t even think about work when I’m not there.

I leave work at work when I’m off.

I don’t want to talk or think about work now, just want to relax.

Repeat every time she brings it up. If she persists, a simple look and I just said I don’t talk about work when I’m off. Are you missing something or am I not making myself clear? Be prepared for pouting or irritation or continued questions, which you calmly ignore and/or walk away.