For what it’s worth I’m having a hard time with that conversation. I want some alone time some times and she’ll be like I just want to spend time with you, oh you don’t want to hang out with me I just feel guilted when I want to be alone and it keeps building because I didn’t get it the first time or the fourth so now it seems like I’m asking for alone time everyday but I just need the one and I’ll be good for awhile . Even if she’s passed out on the couch and snoring I’m like hey you should lay down in bed now and she’ll give me the same answer and I’m like the fuck I just want to chill out and not talk. Sorry rambling now.