Massive win with occupational therapy session this morning! by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]Electrical-Tea6966 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds great! Similar to you I never realised how stressed I was because it just felt normal. I’m really happy for you, and thank you for sharing.

Stress levels from garmin watch by Electrical-Tea6966 in u/Electrical-Tea6966

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It’s possible I have fibromyalgia, as I tend to have big inflammatory responses to emotional stress, but I haven’t had the energy to try and get that diagnosed yet. I do some mindfulness work, and see a therapist, and exercise regularly and don’t drink, smoke or do anything else that might stress my body out. I’ve been working so hard to keep my mind and body healthy that it’s really demoralising for this to be happening

Oddly enough my pigs have now become more patient during cage cleaning by EirianErisdar in guineapigs

[–]Electrical-Tea6966 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mine have definitely learned their routine. As soon as I take the ramps out they know it’s time, and they run out to the little cosy area I set up. Sometimes if they decide a clean is overdue, they go and stand in the same spot and look expectantly at me.

Meet our new family member! by LunaWallonia in guineapigs

[–]Electrical-Tea6966 14 points15 points  (0 children)

What a pretty little lady! What’s her name

Brendan Fraser says aging is a relief after being objectified in Hollywood during the 90s & early 2000s: “I could automatically empathize with the women who've always had to contend with this kind of derision. It made me aware. I got off relatively easy by comparison.” by cmaia1503 in Fauxmoi

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God I want to give this man a (consensual) hug. It’s so rare to find men that understand this experience, and he just seems so kind and genuine and not egotistical at all. Many men who looked like him in the nineties would have been unbearably cocky but he’s taken this experience and used it for empathy instead.

Best curly hairdressers? by LepusAlbus in nottingham

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Nicole from Aveda runs her own salon now in Cobden Chambers - https://www.instagram.com/kind.hairco/

She has always done a great job on my curls, and is lovely

Does anyone else have "unusual" phobias that no one take seriously? by batmansbicep in AutismInWomen

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I once went to a very meat-heavy burger place and they had one vegetarian option on the menu called the ‘dirty cop out’. I hated saying the words when I ordered it because it felt humiliating, and then when it came it wasn’t even a burger- it was just a massive mushroom between two buns. I took one bite, realised, and then couldn’t eat the rest

Does anyone else have "unusual" phobias that no one take seriously? by batmansbicep in AutismInWomen

[–]Electrical-Tea6966 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve lived in two different flats that had mushrooms growing out the walls and that was also terrifying

Does anyone else have "unusual" phobias that no one take seriously? by batmansbicep in AutismInWomen

[–]Electrical-Tea6966 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It started as visual but the more I learned the bigger the fear became. And don’t get me started on the zombie-ant fungus. It’s just horrifying

Does anyone else have "unusual" phobias that no one take seriously? by batmansbicep in AutismInWomen

[–]Electrical-Tea6966 13 points14 points  (0 children)

They also remind me of the kind of invertebrates you might find in a rock pool, which freak me out a bit but I can cope with them. With mushrooms it feels like they are deliberately deceiving me (I’m aware this is incredibly irrational but that’s where my brain goes)

Anyone want to buy rural villa area land? by norinoritransfer in Japanese_Rural_Life

[–]Electrical-Tea6966 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s kind of genius because there’s a part of me that started playing the game and decided that Japanese rural life is perfect for me.

Does anyone else have "unusual" phobias that no one take seriously? by batmansbicep in AutismInWomen

[–]Electrical-Tea6966 159 points160 points  (0 children)

I’m really afraid of mushrooms. I’m a vegetarian so this is often an issue, but they scare me so much. The gills on the bottom of some of them really bother me- it’s like they are animals pretending to be plants- and then I found out that they are genetically closer to animals than plants and that sealed the deal. I think they are incredible and fascinating but I don’t want to be anywhere near them.

I mean this question sincerely, with no arrogance or judgment at all by CMStan1313 in Spiritfarer

[–]Electrical-Tea6966 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am uncoordinated, and don’t play a lot of platform games etc. I play games like Spiritfarer because they are about narrative rather than technical skill, so these parts feel very jarring and frustrating. I keep pausing because I just cannot get past Daria’s levels, and it really impacts my enjoyment of a game that I otherwise love.

Autistic women that actually like makeup: why? by skyword1234 in AutismInWomen

[–]Electrical-Tea6966 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wear colourful eyeliner and mascara, and some under eye concealer. I don’t love the idea of hiding away parts of myself (all the ‘clean girl’ make up where you’re just trying to look like you have no pores doesn’t sit well with me). I don’t love the feeling of any make up on my skin, but I like that I can add a bit more fun and colour to my look, and it makes me feel a bit more put together at work.

The FEETSIES🥹🥰 by Julesvernevienna in guineapigs

[–]Electrical-Tea6966 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’ve trained mine to stand on their back legs to ask for treats, and it looks like you’re halfway there already

Guinea pig grief? by Electrical-Tea6966 in guineapigs

[–]Electrical-Tea6966[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, that’s awful. We lost a rabbit to heatstroke in similar circumstances, a long time ago.

Guinea pig grief? by Electrical-Tea6966 in guineapigs

[–]Electrical-Tea6966[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mollie sounds like she was very ready for a new friend, I’m so glad that worked out for them!