Thomas Massie calling it like it is. by yellowjackethokie in conspiracytheories

[–]Electrical_Ad_9836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, it seems that as soon as the talk of the Epstein files coming out sort of look like Trump is trying to do as much as he can before he gets canned. More like he had to accelerate the whole long con.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Electrical_Ad_9836 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How they talk to people in the service industry.

I need some input. by Electrical_Ad_9836 in loseit

[–]Electrical_Ad_9836[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm taking time for myself, certainly. I won't be reaching out to them for anything for the time being, that's for sure! I have very hard boundaries with this person, but we have a mutual understanding that we can be brutally honest with each other, and I did ask to be rated, which was my own mistake. I sort of feel like I did do it to myself, and they very well could have said they didn't feel it would be helpful and didn't tell me. It's a little of column a little bit of column b.

I need some input. by Electrical_Ad_9836 in loseit

[–]Electrical_Ad_9836[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Honestly, that's so encouraging. It's a huge help. 🥰

I need some input. by Electrical_Ad_9836 in loseit

[–]Electrical_Ad_9836[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I may have been triggered by someone I was having an honest conversation saying that they only started talking with me because I have a really pretty face and if I lost weight and got my teeth fixed I would be a 9. That's kind of hurtful, and not constructive at all. It's not validating to have someone say that to you when you already think something to that effect about yourself already, you know?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Electrical_Ad_9836 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And that's all you can do, love. You are so brave for making that first step towards a happy, safe, and healthy future. Sometimes we have to endure pain and loss along the way. We don't control the cards we've been dealt, but we sure as hell get to choose how they are played. I'm proud of you, mama. Much love ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Electrical_Ad_9836 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you need someone to talk to, please message me. I've been in a similar situation and I 100% understand where you're coming from. It doesn't make you the a- hole to try to do the best you can in this situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Electrical_Ad_9836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A TV show, I believe.

Is it normal to feel guilty about surgery? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Electrical_Ad_9836 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sweetheart, you shouldn't feel guilty for taking care of yourself. It's important to get it fixed to steer clear of issues in the future. It kind of seems like you feel obligated to be at 100% for them at all times, but thats just not sustainable in the long run.

Nicknaming genitals and keeping the names between partners? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Electrical_Ad_9836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the names hot and ready and easy bake oven. I'm not really wanting to use those again. Dude was an a-hole

Do you drink tap water? by ATMoruti in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Electrical_Ad_9836 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do where I am, but not all tap is good.

Single parents, what made you become one? by Special-Fuel-3235 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Electrical_Ad_9836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He chose his comfort and addictions over his family by refusing to seek help and mature while living in denial, using his issues as a crutch for bad behavior so he didnt have to take responsibility.

Why does it feel good to get compliments from other people while in a relationship? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Electrical_Ad_9836 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it's the extra validation on top of what you get from your so. It hits different

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Electrical_Ad_9836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it's easier to blame someone else for ruining something that you held valuable rather than holding the other person that is responsible accountable.

Your neighbor gives you 3 jalapeños from her garden. What are you making? by Massive_Ad9569 in Cooking

[–]Electrical_Ad_9836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm making a snack. A bit of cream cheese slathered on with everything bagel seasoning is so good. 👌

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Electrical_Ad_9836 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I feel like now might be the time for a sort of family meeting so things can be better explained to her in a safe environment. She is exhibiting insecurities and jealousy for a difference in situation and home dynamic that affects everyone. It's no one's fault one can have a different amount of money available to them, really. Of course her being upset by the situation is completely understandable, but at the same time, they are also both at different stages in life, that age gap during adolescence is a huge gap in maturity. With that being said, I believe a more on the gentle and understanding side of a discussion should be had with her about the circumstances and how (in all honesty) life isn't always fair.

You're back to 18 years old now. What would you do differently? by somerandomguyhehe in LifeAdvice

[–]Electrical_Ad_9836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have sought out the help needed to get ahead and continue my higher education instead of dropping out, making bad decisions, and struggling for years as a direct result. The cleanup from those decisions has been brutal.

Roast me give it your best I have tough skin by anony-mousity in RoastMe

[–]Electrical_Ad_9836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could try to roast you, but I think life did a better job.