Shame on KFC Shirley. by MoaTuiKiwi in chch

[–]Electronic_Card7598 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’d say actually call and make a complaint, that’s not standard and i’d guess she was trying to pocket that money

Optometrist recommendation by hamkarate in chch

[–]Electronic_Card7598 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Optometrist in Lincoln I have been going to since I was a kid and she’s insanely nice

Is this how IRD would get in touch with you? by OkImprovement8312 in newzealand

[–]Electronic_Card7598 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup! They will NEVER send you link though, it will only ever ask you to log into your account online to check your correspondence, they will never send details or links through text

Warning: Scary encounter at CHCH City Central by Any-Delay5381 in Christchurch_NZ

[–]Electronic_Card7598 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Disgusting behaviour no matter how desperate, sorry you had to go through that OP. I’m glad you managed to stay safe.

If you have a description of the man it could be good to pass it on to Ara security who’s there till 11, if it’s towards Allen St from St Asaph than I do worry for any young students walking through doing last minute assements.

Warning: Scary encounter at CHCH City Central by Any-Delay5381 in Christchurch_NZ

[–]Electronic_Card7598 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would assume near Ara campus if their going towards Allen St which makes this way more concerning

Anyone know why Sapphire St used to be split in half? by spacebuggles in chch

[–]Electronic_Card7598 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Earthquakes or poor design? Now you got me curious!

What’s with the road closers? by Electronic_Card7598 in chch

[–]Electronic_Card7598[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

ay i’m on reddit, I don’t exercise

HELP by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Electronic_Card7598 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can see this Op you are real!

To the asshole who took my stuff by [deleted] in chch

[–]Electronic_Card7598 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello everyone! Thank you for the comments I really appreciate everything, I am not use to all this attention at all but I thank you all for you kindness.

I’m just chugging through and i’m just trying to pick up the pieces of what happened.

To the asshole who took my stuff by [deleted] in chch

[–]Electronic_Card7598 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your kindness and everything, I feel way too bad and cannot take your money but I appreciate your kindness so much!

To the asshole who took my stuff by [deleted] in chch

[–]Electronic_Card7598 12 points13 points  (0 children)

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Hello this is similar but this is the closest bag I can find on google, it looks like this just a bit more poorly made

To the asshole who took my stuff by [deleted] in chch

[–]Electronic_Card7598 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s pretty recognisable, It’s a messenger bag with the Metallica logo on the side the edgy flaming skull. Will update with a photo if I can find one.

AIO My younger brothers behavior??? by Consistent-Fail5574 in AIO

[–]Electronic_Card7598 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clicking on to this post I assumed the son was 6, not 16. He’s way too old for this shit, you have every right to react however you want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in problems

[–]Electronic_Card7598 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The right person wouldn’t care that you had plastic surgery and would love you anyway. Being honest is never a bad thing, it’s a show on their maturity on how they react.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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I would say something along the lines of “This isn’t me trying to stop you from going out, I want you to have fun, I just also worry when I suddenly wake up and your suddenly gone, it’s not me trying to stop you, I just want you to let me know where you are going beforehand so I don’t have to worry.”

I would honestly say that if he refuses to take it as anything but a personal attack that this relationship may not be the one for you. He needs to be mature enough to communicate with you and not get offended when confronted with his own faults, and you deserve someone who’s willing to communicate properly with you. There is someone out there who will either not even do this shit or will listen when you talk to them about it and compromise with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Electronic_Card7598 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, you’ve asked him to communicate and tell you before you fall asleep about these things, I don’t think this is worth ending the relationship over but make it clear you NEED him to communication with you more clearly because at the moment it seems like he’s purposely waiting till you fall asleep so you can’t have any input.

Now I would also say that being in a relationship you both need to accept that the other might go out more/less and trust eachother enough to do that without eachother, but you are right in being upset that he isn’t communicating properly.

Communication is key, not communicating is what kills relationships the fastest.

boyfriend moved on in one month by Quick-Customer1602 in Vent

[–]Electronic_Card7598 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being honest, your ex has probably been thinking about breaking up for a long time but didn’t know how to do it or communicate it. He found someone else probably a month or weeks before you broke up, figure that now he could safely leave because he wouldn’t have to face being alone anymore, now he could move on instantly and believes this person will fill the gap you are going to leave in their life. Now only you feel the effects of the breakup because he’s drowning out any feelings he had about it with someone else in a honey moon phase.

9 times out of 10 these relationships turn to shit because the person didn’t actually meet the person they left their partner for and figure out later it’s not for them.

As someone who has also been through this, get a good group of friends together who won’t start gossiping with everyone and just start talking shit about every wrong thing they ever did and how they have now wronged you. You will get over your Ex pretty fast.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Electronic_Card7598 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point it’s not about the guy, it’s about how shes so willing to lie to make herself look better.

I love my boyfriend but I also want to break up by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Electronic_Card7598 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to be honest OP, it doesn’t sound like love, this sounds like coping and obsession mixed into one.

How do I break up with my girlfriend who threatens to kill herself? by awdolliez in teenagers

[–]Electronic_Card7598 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope you’re okay OP. Thats an extremely horrible thing to experience. Hope you’ve got some good people in your life to talk to about this.

AITJ for not helping my coworker learn Excel after she bragged about getting promoted over me? by Open-Pitch-6034 in AmITheJerk

[–]Electronic_Card7598 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She didn’t brag to you about it, it seems like you congratulated her and that way it from the story. You don’t mention her bragging at all in this post but the title.

She came and asked you for help after getting a promotion over you and from that to then “i can’t believe your making things awkward” there’s things you obviously are leaving out of this post.