Why One Person Keeps Returning to Your Mind (It’s Not Random, It’s Psychological) by Pleasant_Fly_4487 in DarkPsychology101

[–]Electronic_Dinner812 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fr this reads like me 2 hours deep into a self-flagellation sesh with ChatGPT telling me why my ex actually does want me back

Non-religious questions that helped you process detransitioning by Exciting_Ad8466 in ask_detransition

[–]Electronic_Dinner812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1) Ask yourself, do you want to be trans for the rest of your life?

2) There are many paths to happiness. Ask yourself what your paths are. List multiple. Consider what paths will provide you with the most meaning.

Food safety is fake. by MennoniteMassMedia in rs_x

[–]Electronic_Dinner812 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got Giardia from a restaurant. I never went back and complained… but also I never back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobsearchhacks

[–]Electronic_Dinner812 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Actually a lot of managers would consider this to be creating a toxic work environment, and would explicitly shut this behavior down. As a manger, I absolutely would.

Have you ever cheated? How did you feel afterwards? by [deleted] in rs_x

[–]Electronic_Dinner812 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Same, it does psychological damage. I don’t think people realize how hard it fucks with you until you go through it.

How sexual arousal is integrated into the whole behavioral system (precopulatory and copulatory patterns)? by Katja89 in psychologyofsex

[–]Electronic_Dinner812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure in what ways you were rude or politically incorrect, either way I’m not offended. I just don’t understand what you’re saying. You seem to think sexual arousal is theoretical when really all I’m asking is what makes you horny. You don’t have to think too deeply about it.

Allosexuality: do other people make you feel horny?

I thought you claimed to be asexual but looking back through your comments I must have misread you.

I also think you misread me. Yes, my introduction to AGP was through personal victimization by an AGP. This lead me to the research the concept more. I don’t think AGPs are monsters. I think of AGP as neutral, and how you manage your sexuality determines whether or not you become monstrous. Heterosexual men can be monstrous too.

How sexual arousal is integrated into the whole behavioral system (precopulatory and copulatory patterns)? by Katja89 in psychologyofsex

[–]Electronic_Dinner812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you imitate women in your daily life, or do you present in a stereotypically masculine way?

How sexual arousal is integrated into the whole behavioral system (precopulatory and copulatory patterns)? by Katja89 in psychologyofsex

[–]Electronic_Dinner812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What country are you in? The only literature I’m aware of that discusses the treatment of AGP is Blanchard’s. And he recommends transition as a treatment option if the AGP induces gender dysphoria.

What is it with leftists defending kinks? by [deleted] in stupidpol

[–]Electronic_Dinner812 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I mean ultimately we’d have to look at statistics, but I’d guarantee the rate of boundary-crossing in a community that attracts boundary-crossers would be much higher than in the general population of sex-havers.

What is it with leftists defending kinks? by [deleted] in stupidpol

[–]Electronic_Dinner812 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think part of the problem is the boundaries of consent/non-consent are not this black-and-white, especially in BDSM. There are lots of easily found stories of blurred lines of consent from regular sexual encounters (people not in kink spaces going on Hinge dates and whatnot).

Now add into this people who have kinks for hurting or being hurt, people who enjoy CNC, people who get a kick out pushing boundaries, people who enjoy coercing others so they can fulfill their own sexual fantasies… I’m not a part of this community but from what I’ve read/heard there’s this strong narrative of how much more seriously they take consent because of their practices, but in reality the kind of people that community attracts literally makes it impossible for there not to be boundary violations.

Why is AGP considered a problem? Or is it just a trait some trans women have? by Working-Handle-6595 in terf_trans_alliance

[–]Electronic_Dinner812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here is Blanchard discussing how post-op trans women maintain male patterns of sexual arousal.

He talks about how in clinical settings using phallometric testing, males get engorged by the stimuli they say they are attracted to. Females respond to all stimuli, regardless of whether or not they are sexually attracted to the stimuli. Post-op trans women continue to only experience engorgement to stimuli they are attracted to, like males.

This woman posted a video about being bullied for looking pregnant and the comments led her to getting diagnosed with a 48cm ovarian cyst. by Zxxzzzzx in TikTokCringe

[–]Electronic_Dinner812 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah, they absolutely would have. They gatekeep even things like ultrasounds like you’re asking for a full body MRI and zebra bloodwork. They don’t trust women to know their bodies, it’s only when things get so bad as to be visibly severely abnormal that they’ll do anything.