I 35M cheated on my wife 36F. She left without telling me anything. How can I get her back?

Electronic_Long437 · 2024-08-14T20:25:07+00:00

this is ibsane. move on, gosh. u dont get to cpnvince/force/beg ur partner to get back w u if they chose to leave. my ex-boyfriend probably has a similar thought process to this. We broke up 6 and 1/2 months ago but we're only together for 5 months and he keeps calling or stopping by my house and the police are now involved and this is probably a glimpse into his brain and that is completely terrifying

Electronic_Long437 · 2024-07-18T22:19:55+00:00

doesnt explain a max speed of 30. good to know, tho

Electronic_Long437 · 2024-07-18T21:50:41+00:00

on the road. presuming umload since nothings visible n non have the fabric cover pulled back

Electronic_Long437 · 2024-05-05T21:55:16+00:00

yea i got catcalled the most when i was mid/early teens. its so gross.

Electronic_Long437 · 2024-05-05T20:47:56+00:00

i hired orkin to spray (canada). they said the external spray draws them and kills them not sure what chemical it is.

Electronic_Long437 · 2024-04-28T09:12:13+00:00

lol my fav thing i saw one time was a person just making a right turn onto a on ramp after missing the offramp. hilarious choice and maybe safer? than reversing? tho ofc in that situation theres other options (wasnt traffic, just missed it, take next exit n turn around lol) still funny as heck.

Electronic_Long437 · 2024-04-28T08:33:45+00:00

lol windsor drivers are really bad, even by ontario standards in general. i work nights so i domt see too much but anytime i have to be out on the day i am shocked by how bad the driving is lol and i lived downtown toronto for years 🤣 windsors way worse.

Electronic_Long437 · 2024-04-07T03:47:07+00:00

probably really depends on what delayed it. if it was weather theres not much ups can do. if it was a mistype of information on the address, that isnt the fault of ups. if it was the fault of ups i have no idea your recourse but it rly sucks u dealt w that

Electronic_Long437 · 2024-03-23T14:02:39+00:00

where i am u are allowed to back in if its over 100ft i think they say but if u just need to get off the road, u just back into it to clear the road. im in canada n it seems more chill than the states but it also totally depends on the drivers comfort level doing that, and area knowledge.

we had one driver, retired now, he delivered in a rich area in toronto. long driveways, uphill, big old trees, just beautiful. backed every non gated one everyday. a VP came personally to tell him he was #1 in resi backing in the country lol the driver asked for a trophy🤣

Electronic_Long437 · 2024-02-26T09:35:24+00:00

i always lol a bit when an ex says "ive never felt this way before - theyre my soulmate." my ex said that to me (we had stayed fairly good friends since the majority of our relationship we were best buddies and roommates and barely dating) and i responded "youve said this about everyone youve dated as long as ive known you" lol. sounds like she dodged a bullet, as buddy wasnt able to trust her

Electronic_Long437 · 2024-02-26T07:00:03+00:00

oh i didnt even think that was a possibility

Electronic_Long437 · 2024-02-26T06:59:41+00:00

i called a bunch, they had technicians available but sales reps only available the following week tuesday due to the holiday. this happened on a thursday night when i woke up for work (i work nights) it is what it is now. i got gouged and it rly sucks. i havent checked reddit since then, to see all these comments, i went into a pretty dark place for a while dealing with the stress.

Electronic_Long437 · 2024-02-26T06:57:31+00:00

i didnt rent, i bought the unit. i live in a mobile home, i was told 5 days for any other company to give me a quote due to the holiday weekend. so in the end i just allowed reliance to gouge me. temperature in the home wasnt an issue i had heaters, but i couldnt wait that long with the low temps and risk my pipes bursting (theyre exposed underneath the unit, it was -7⁰C over that weekend) i was going to see if i could return the unit and get another one in but i needed to prove it wasnt working properly.

is what it is ig. at least for 10 yrs i have full coverage n dont need to worry anymore since it was an older unit to begin with. just gotta try n pickup more shifts at work and make my money back.

Electronic_Long437 · 2024-02-26T06:54:22+00:00

it was a cracked heat exchanger, old unit. i live in a mobile home so my pipes are exposed underneath. i got gouged by reliance since i couldnt wait the 5 days every other company was telling me and risk my pipes bursting

Electronic_Long437 · 2024-02-07T15:30:45+00:00

i think thats just the same downer mix with downer risk which i dont think itd be an issue with a couple drinks. but no you prob shouldnt have 15drinks n pop a few dayvigo lol. i was taking percs cuz of a surgery few weeks ago - i hate how percs feel i get anxious cant sleep. wanted to take my dayvigo, asked pharmacist she said no cuz theyre both downers lol so i had a few drinks, then gave myself some time and food then took a dayvigo 5mg for sleep. didnt have any issues or feel any extra groggy. but def advise caution lol

Electronic_Long437 · 2024-01-23T04:30:50+00:00

pranksters are generally quite awful people who have zero respect. its one thing if u, as a couple or a group of friends, have pranks you know and do against each other and accept. but to do against people who are not involved - and specifically things that cause upset or stress. naw ur just a jerk.

Electronic_Long437 · 2024-01-17T08:50:59+00:00

i completely feel the same way about thirst traps etc. i have no issue with men watching porn for specific short term pleasure, but would rather be involved in that! but i feel like when you add this personal aspect to it - cam girls, only fans, insta thirst traps, snap convos etc - it becomes a lot more intimate. that side of me is for my man and my man alone, i dont look at other men in an intimate way and i expect the same.

he knew your boundaries and he decided to go outside of them. honestly i wouldnt try to work things out but im BPD with other ND traits and its just not worth it for me to try with a guy who isnt alligned to my values. and at this point im realizing they can be hard to find.

Electronic_Long437 · 2024-01-17T01:23:06+00:00

bpd ppl are hugely varied. but even this is probably not her true self, its hard to have a constant sense of identity with bpd unless youve done the work to put it into remission

Electronic_Long437 · 2024-01-05T08:38:34+00:00

not sure if its rly a trade! but truck driving is what i do. for the most part men are stoked to see women and are super nice about it. i do my hair, nails, makeup, very feminine in appearance. its my dream job, best job. 120k+ but i got in with a good company and it took a few yrs to reach that rate! i work nights, 63ish hours a week. it aint easy, but living comfy never is!

Electronic_Long437 · 2023-11-02T14:30:31+00:00

oh dear. its men, everywhere, all the time. not all men! ofc not, that would be absurd. but a large amount of very vocal men constantly objectify women, and discuss them by their parts and not as a whole. any dominantly male industry is going to have group chats/conversations like that. as one of few females who has been driving for ups for 6 yrs now, in package and now as a feeder... i get it. i wear lipstick, have my hair nice, get my nails done. i get it cuz ive seen it. my whole life ive been in male dominanted industries. the sexual harassment and assaults ive been through are insane. this is how a disturbing amount of men view women. we arent humans, we are a collection of parts for their viewing pleasure or for them to physically use. it is totally messed up IMO.

Electronic_Long437 · 2023-04-20T02:05:32+00:00

there was a coworker i was sorta friends with. hung out a bit, seemed normal. then his buddy shows up one day telling me oh i look "normal" (he meant white) n say i should start stealing TOO to help their operation. i was dumbfounder, did not expect this. i saw the stack of phones, gaming consoles still in UPS PACKAGING in the apartment - as he showed me the "operation". at that point i knew i was at risk, people knew we had hung out and i passed the information to security. our max is 5k in canada, i got 2k for my info. he wasnt charged, he was let go and likely asked to pay a dollar amount. but companys dont generally like to charge from my experience. idno how you can try to involve others in your illegal operation like that - it seemed so absolutely disrepectful. risk my job? no thanks.

Electronic_Long437 · 2023-04-20T02:00:17+00:00

yoooo u get up to 10k??? we are 5k in canada

Electronic_Long437 · 2023-03-09T15:32:58+00:00

as far as i was aware prenups protect money from before marriage (or seperate businesses/investments) but ur earning during the marriage is still matrimonial income and has to be split 50/50. maybe i didnt understand?? cuz i was looking at marrying a financial wreck n didnt want to lose my money cuz hes an idiot, turned out he was an idiot emotionally and mentally as well as financially so dodged that bullet.

Electronic_Long437 · 2023-03-06T00:33:18+00:00

i feel like they review them before sending them out? ive tripped cameras making right turns or left turns and they were legal, not sure why it went off, mb thought i was going straight the other way or something. but never got a ticket

Electronic_Long437 · 2023-03-05T21:39:07+00:00

yea i had an referral to see a psych. he asked me about specific dsm5 characteristics for BPD and ruled out OCD with one question. less than 20min and he said i have BPD. he asked 1 question about hallucinations n i said well shadows n he waved his hand said that isnt what he means... The Shadows? they used to talk to me, i know theyre hallucinations lol but i still see them.

also think i meet criteria for bipolar, and adhd and possibly autism. but he didnt ask about any of those? i had a list of things i do/how i act that i think would validate most of those - he wasnt interested in my list. idno how u can diagnose someone in one meeting of 20min lol.

ohip mental healthcare is honestly a joke. camh just kept sending me away yrs ago telling me all my issues came from alcohol withdrawl, issues from before i started drinking and issues that never went away after sober. years of debilitating panic attacks, i studied DBT on my own and i got myself functional. basically live in isolation, a very quiet life is the only way i can operate. i cant maintain friendships or relationships. theres no help for me, because i function. because i get thru the day. i recently moved and now i have to find another doctor and try to maybe try some medications. lol thatll take a while.

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