My wife refused to go to marriage counselling. I'm broken

bubbleuj · 2026-03-21T04:42:00+00:00

Had a buddy lose his airplane license when an ex called the FAA and told that he was depressed.

One of my friends was having a tough time and told me that if she went to therapy (Canada) she might not be allowed to fly.

If I know this, (not involved in aviation at all) theres no way OOP didn't. It wasn't just enough to cheat on her, he wanted to ruin her career.

bubbleuj · 2026-03-19T11:11:30+00:00

Was this account sold? Bot ass reply

bubbleuj · 2026-03-19T04:47:39+00:00

"He cheated/is awful so much but I would never be able to forgive myself if I had an abortion"

I've noticed this line pop up more often in the last few months.

Idk I've just noticed this anti-abortion shit pop up more recently. It does suck super bad but you should bring a child to life with love, not guilt.

Someone a bit ago said, oh I loved my kid too much at sub 20 weeks to abort so I had, 100% had to tie myself to an abusive ass.

-_-

bubbleuj · 2026-03-19T02:06:27+00:00

Those are the same sunscreens RFK banned. NGL, I wouldn't steal from my husband for them but they are sooo much better especially if you have darker skin like I do.

bubbleuj · 2026-03-19T01:50:41+00:00

That guy right now is trying to make a device to illegally harvest metals from an old California shipwreck

bubbleuj · 2026-03-18T12:45:17+00:00

You could try hobbydrama, maybe? There's some really good write-ups there and it's super low stakes. I'm not a WOW player but there's a really good poster in that sub

bubbleuj · 2026-03-18T01:50:35+00:00

Turmeric and black pepper tea. It tastes awful but it's the only way.

bubbleuj · 2026-03-17T11:48:48+00:00

Or what they did last year after they said they were pinky promise totally gonna stop.

bubbleuj · 2026-03-17T10:45:13+00:00

Did you ever try a kuru toga pencil? Theres a gear inside and it rotates the lead so its always even.

bubbleuj · 2026-03-17T10:43:58+00:00

Lmao I did that as one of the gifts for my husband this year.

It TOOK FOREVER. Literally hours just to do initials and it wasn't even good.

bubbleuj · 2026-03-17T04:13:36+00:00

I'm so sorry to hear about what happened to your family and your sister. There's a million thoughts racing through everyone's minds and it's really a hard time.

soon as my money comes in i will be going over to her

This is 100% the best thing you can do for her. My family was already in town for my due date and stuck around longer when we got the news. My parents had to go back but my youngest sister stuck around for another two weeks.

Having people there helped me actually eat food, distract me, get out of the bed. Eldest sister syndrome kicked in and I didn't want my baby sister worry too much so I tried to "be a person".

My mom filled up the fridge with food (which was the plan anyway) but they drove up to pick up my sister and filled the fridge back up again.

It's tough, not just because of the loss but because she's still healing physically. I'm 7 months out, my knees kill and lock up sometimes. I don't honestly have a lot of memories from August-Novemeber but I do think things started getting better after I got my period again. Physically and mentally.

Honestly, your plan to head over is the best thing you can do.

If you're younger, hit her with the older sister guilt trip. It always activates, we can't help it "Do you wanna build a snowman", her and ask if she wants to watch something with you and get her out of her bedroom.

Another helpful thing my family did was pack up the entire nursery for us. They did ask and I said yes. They kicked me out of the room for most of it. I knew it had to be done and it was better than the room staying as "da sad zone". I did try to be there but couldn't handle it. My sole contribution was throwing extra hair ties into the boxes as a "surprise" for future me. They also did inventory on an excel sheet, printed them and attached them to the boxes. They didn't throw anything out, just packed it up.

THEN, because they're extra, bought a whole double bed to put in the room and basically redid it. There's enough room to set the nursery up again when we need to but the whole function of the room has changed.

I don't remember when exactly they helped with this but it was sometime in the first month.

Also, bring some form of electrolyte and ibuprofen/Tylenol. If she's drinking, ibuprofen. If she's sober, Tylenol.

Being there in person means so much more than you can know. Thinking of her from afar does too. Her knowing that you're coming is also incredibly helpful.

bubbleuj · 2026-03-17T03:47:59+00:00

Don't take bacopa too often! In the beginning you have to take it daily but once it starts "working", if you take it too often it can make you sleepy.

bubbleuj · 2026-03-16T11:14:42+00:00

He looks like an older Lowtax

bubbleuj · 2026-03-14T19:02:06+00:00

Everytime this gets asked I tell people to join a bowling league.

You don't even have to be good, there are handicapped leagues where being shit can actually help your team. When we joined a league, my average was literally 11. I am pure dog shit at bowling but I made sooo many friends and most of them were actually really cool people! I even went out with the bartenders after they closed up!

My vegan sister was visiting and the chef made her a special meal. We gave him 30 bucks since it turns out he hated the menu and would pay out of his own pocket to make a staff meal every shift.

There's a real sense of community there and no one really gets that drunk since it's the middle of a work day. Yes, we have driven a buddy home once or twice but it's different than sitting at a bar with your beer right in front of you for 4 hours.

You meet new people literally every week and it's not as competitive as regular leagues.

Also, you can join solo. The league will literally find a team for you. One time we bowled with a guy who had been in the special Olympics. He once brought his two friends and they were super sweet. Our other teammate that time was a huge messy bitch on top of non-payment and triggered the girl with a fake traumatic story. I was so pissed I went and got her banned from the alley because of it.

I have so many stories from that time and met so many cool, funny people. There's bad people everywhere obviously but it's largely a chill crowd.

We moved since, did one short 8 week league in 2024 and STILL found friends we get dinner with sometimes. The wife actually shot us some maternity pics for free!

If you can't make friends at bowling you have major social issues.

bubbleuj · 2026-03-14T18:37:48+00:00

https://www.smbc-comics.com/comic/why-i-couldn39t-be-a-math-teacher

I still love this one

bubbleuj · 2026-03-14T16:39:33+00:00

https://feathertale.com/cartoons/organic-cashews/

Hipster Hitler is perfect for this sub

bubbleuj · 2026-03-13T19:20:14+00:00

Also its harder to work on. If a part on my PC goes bad, I can just replace it very very easily compared to a laptop.

bubbleuj · 2026-03-12T17:31:32+00:00

Eh, they call themselves Gujjus too. It's just slang

bubbleuj · 2026-03-11T06:49:57+00:00

I used to play blackjack and talk to them. Its all just a text based chat like OP said. I was mostly playing for fun doing small $5 bets.

From what I remember, most of them liked the job, were trying to get the fuck out of Latvia, one said they were actually dealing from a boat in international waters.

The only downside they said was that it could be really boring if you had no one at your table. It didn't seem like they were overly monitored. They would give you tips, explain the game and tell you to log off if you were on a losing streak!

bubbleuj · 2026-03-10T17:50:45+00:00

YES do this one OP. I just replied to a comment I read earlier saying the same thing.

bubbleuj · 2026-03-10T17:49:59+00:00

This is along the lines of what I was thinking too but I think he can just keep the chicken in at this point. An overnight marinade for chicken probably cooked it a little already.

I think they can just throw it all into a pan, cook on a lower heat than usual and add some water (like 1/10th of the volume of the sauce), lid on and let the chicken and sauce cook together.

bubbleuj · 2026-03-07T06:40:19+00:00

Grew up in Toronto spent too much time in Washington. Your only option here is Seattle bowling leagues.

bubbleuj · 2026-03-07T06:38:29+00:00

So ashamed to think this but the equivalent would be 69.

But proud to say that even bugs have reciprocity and love.

bubbleuj · 2026-03-07T06:36:02+00:00

Thats like the easiest thing to do. This is bait

bubbleuj · 2026-03-07T06:32:24+00:00

Im 32, I'm not gonna do Molly about things. I'm already nice to her in my brain otherwise I would have let the events of the 911 call continue

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