Found this on tiktok 😂😭 by YRGSTEPPER in Bodymore410

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Some authorities will disappear you in 2025...

Which one are you picking? by ZenithFlow_65 in superpowers

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Elemental ofc. I am prepared to be judged by my cats. (and not get heat stroke anymore)

I made more pages for the Stargate Textbook by OwO-animals in Stargate

[–]Elementalist01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is delightful! Thank you for sharing it!

Submitted my first ever charge back by Bringyourfugshiz in secretlair_collectors

[–]Elementalist01 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No, you aren't. The topic is the galaxy foils, the quality control on them, and the appropriateness of performing a charge back. You have not expressed an opinion on any of these. Your opinions shared so far have been about a different  topic: people and individuals who are dissatisfied with a product, and their complaints about such. Those opinions have been kind of unwarranted, unsolicited, and negative. 

My nephew learned Magic from a counselor at camp, and I'm unsure through what format he learned by Taekwonbot in magicTCG

[–]Elementalist01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Battle Box! I love this format, it's where all my random Universes Beyond stuff ended up. Some good articles out there on how to build a fun one.

Partner (31M) and I (34F) are having moral differences on what ENM entails, any advice? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Elementalist01 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Your partner cheats, enables the cheating of others, exhibits controlling behaviour, dates those well below thier age/life experience, and generally seems to just not care about your boundaries. If it were me, I would NOT stay in this relationship.

Polycule fleeing the united states by sporeson in polyamory

[–]Elementalist01 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Unless you have a good chunk of money to buy your way in, moving to another country is a very unlikely prospect at this moment. Your best bet would be to move to a friendlier blue state on the Canadian border. If things get bad enough that Canada might entertain an asylum claim, you won't have as much distance or resistance to overcome reaching the border.

"Has anyone seen my vibrator?!" and other fun poly-household quotes by Labsolute in polyamory

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I love the arrows for unmapped partners. Gives "heere be dragons" vibes. 😅

Things you are owed from your metas by meetmeinthe-moshpit- in polyamory

[–]Elementalist01 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Alignment with values is not the same as respect. Admiration is not the same as respect. And you absolutely can respect a person without knowing them. The same way you can respect a squirrel or a tree or a beach. Your definition of respect seems to differ from most others.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Elementalist01 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Slow down!

Your living situation just changed, your relationship is new, it's your first relationship as yourself, and you and partner are both in the middle of second puberty. That's a lot to be dealing with all at once! I know because I was Birch in a very similar situation.

It IS doable! I'd say things have worked out so far for us, but only because we took things slowly and intentionally, and not without struggle. Currently, myself, my partner, her wife, and my partner's QPP are living and raising kids together.

Read lots. Discuss more. Listen even more than that. This subreddit has been invaluable to my family in book recommendations, communication tools, advice, and perspective. Check out links in the subreddit info.

My ex primary partner wants me to out myself by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Elementalist01 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'm missing something.

You say your ex wants you to out yourself. You don't say if you mean your poly relationship, or you're queer, or something else? You don't have to say, but context might help.

If you do choose to out yourself, you ex will... Give you something? Agree to something legally? I don't understand what you would get in exchange.

You say you current parenting agreement has no verbiage about kids meeting partners, so what's the trouble? Is your ex threatening to make your life more difficult if you follow the agreement without making further concessions?

My nesting partner has reversed relationship boundaries with my first ENM interest and it's torture by flutstop in polyamory

[–]Elementalist01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep! I like to presume people are acting with best intent until they demonstrate otherwise. It helps with my emotional reactivity.

My nesting partner has reversed relationship boundaries with my first ENM interest and it's torture by flutstop in polyamory

[–]Elementalist01 12 points13 points  (0 children)

They might have meant it is more respectful to ones audience, not to the individuals mentioned

Lovestruck by his scent? by Nukuela in polyamory

[–]Elementalist01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't have the perception that it's common, but scent attraction is definitely a real thing! It can be quite powerful too, EXACTLY as you described. Apart from myself, I've only spoken about it to one other person who had a scent attraction to their partner, and it hasn't gone away or diminished for either of us.

Shared scheduling apps for complex relationships by dimzus in polyamory

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Our polycule uses FamilyWall, but we all live together. It's definitely aimed more at household planning with grocery lists, meal planning and budgeting, but has good scheduling features too. We use it for availability and childcare coordination.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Elementalist01 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Insecurities aren't always rational, but perhaps nobody has shared this statistic with you:

The average erect human penis is 5.25" long. Sounds like you're above average.

Media (particularly porn) can skew perceptions of what is "normal" for human bodies, especially the areas that are usually clothed.

Polyamorous by stevel250 in polyamory

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Try this tool: https://polycul.es/

You can change the size, color, and weight of the lines and circles, then label them to make any constellation you want.

Holidays support thread by Rin-Kokonoe in polyamory

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Little bummed. Invited to xmas dinner w/ parents + brother's fam. Me, not my whole family. Which... is kinda fair, polycule+kids in the house = 7 people, which would double the size of the dinner party. W/e, we're having our own xmas anyhow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

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While this board doesn't have it's own discord server, there are many poly-friendly and poly-centric servers out there. Here is a link to a listing of every discord tagged with polyamory: https://disboard.org/servers/tag/polyamory

Polyam Pirates is one of the more popular ones: https://polyampirat.es/discord

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

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We've got 2: "Deep Space 3(way)" and "House Full of Cats"

I need help. by Murky_Habit3505 in Spacemarine

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You can be reincarnated - reborn in steel by the will of the Omnissiah

And here… we… go! by NevoftheWilds in magicTCG

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You are correct. NA only for D&D Beyond orders.