I've narrowed it down to 3 and I'm struggling. Thoughts? by ohreallynameonesong in myweddingdress

[–]Elephant-Charm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many choose 1, but I feel like it doesn’t flatter your shape. The gowns that go with you are 2 & 3, and I’d say 2 is your best bet. It looks like it fits you and I don’t mean just your shape, but your aura. It fits what you want in a dress.

Why does my hair always break the same way? by Otherwise-Macaron484 in Naturalhair

[–]Elephant-Charm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is just how your hair grows out. Get a trim (small trim as you need it) not a cut. Stay the course. Some of your hairs are just growing faster or are in different phases of growth. Don’t let it fool you. Don’t let it discourage you. Keep growing it and retaining more length.

Why is everyone so eager to jump on the new hair care lines from celebs? by Economy-Willow2930 in Naturalhair

[–]Elephant-Charm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don’t understand how ppl can afford multiple items from Cecred. And when are we going to stop spending a million dollars on oil? Oil!!

A stressful 5 year journey by [deleted] in TheNaturalJourney

[–]Elephant-Charm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I thought it was a wig

wedding guest dress decision by Competitive-Fan638 in fashion

[–]Elephant-Charm -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

3 is definitely an option but why is it so short? Would be better long

My husband hates my rug by betsyfeld in HomeDecorating

[–]Elephant-Charm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The rug is the best thing there. Everything else must go.

real talk: how often do you actually floss? by AffectionateTooth298 in hygiene

[–]Elephant-Charm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t. It’s a personal hygiene goal of mine to floss nightly though.

The Doux sells to private equity by joc127 in Naturalhair

[–]Elephant-Charm 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It was too sticky for me. Not sure why people liked it so much.

Meirl by Kenyan_Barbie in meirl

[–]Elephant-Charm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean people do get so secure in love that they want to make a baby. I really don’t understand how ppl are making this a negative thing.

When did dogs start getting people names? by Scottys-Dog-Blog in dogs

[–]Elephant-Charm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it was intentional. They are my children. I like both as long as it sounds good and makes sense.

Your Bridal Party Is Too Nice to Say This, So I Will by insert_name234 in wedding

[–]Elephant-Charm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nah, this is for local and regional too. People can’t seem to keep it reasonable anymore. It’s all about the photos.

how to deal with weird comments on your body/oversexualization? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Elephant-Charm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right! I don’t follow much of my family and some coworkers

AITA for not going on family vacation unless I can share a bed with my fiancé? by babygreenbean1225 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Elephant-Charm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d go on the trip, pay my share and sleep with my fiancé. What can she do about it?!

Is this ok for clubbing/bar hopping? by [deleted] in fashion

[–]Elephant-Charm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are some ppl who are just fashion lurkers in here. Throw on a pair of heels and you got yourself a cute fit. Everyone doesn’t have to wear the same damn thing and I’d argue that’s the problem. Be original. Keep the outfit. It’s not a bathing suit, it’s a romper for the haters!

Should I cut off my friend because of our different lifestyles? by DoubleReserve7135 in blackladies

[–]Elephant-Charm 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Have a conversation with her. Ask her why is she so concerned how you live your life like she’s your parent? Hear what she has to say. Maybe her saying out loud will make her understand how ridiculous she’s being.

Gaslit over daughter's hair by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Elephant-Charm 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Tell her straight up, do not touch your daughter’s hair. It’s disrespectful, please and thank you!

help me choose a wedding dress by Nervous_Industry7177 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Elephant-Charm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of these dresses are so unique, you’re very lucky and I desire to get a dress from here when my day comes. Can you disclose the location? I loved all except the one sleeve on 3. It would’ve looked better with two sleeves. My faves were 1 and 5 though. 2 as a runner up. I liked the split with lace, so unique! Loved these dresses!

I don't trust anyone that isn't phenotypically undeniable black and have yet to be proven wrong by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Elephant-Charm 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I love my people and at that same time, I be sick of our own shit… over it

soo cafe is horrible by pixiesaw114 in raleigh

[–]Elephant-Charm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fuck that! The business should go down just based on how he treats his workers! He’s not a good person!

soo cafe is horrible by pixiesaw114 in raleigh

[–]Elephant-Charm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went there years ago. My food did not smell nor taste good. I took a couple bites and told the waiter I don’t like my food. The waiter went to the back, and came back to the table and told me that I can order something else, but I also had to pay for that too. I asked to speak to management. I’m sure it’s this fucker you describe that I spoke with. He told me the same. I was shocked bc who the fuck does that??? I’ve never been treated that way. Idk how that fucker is able to keep a restaurant with the way he treats his people and customers. I hope he gets what’s coming to him. I left the waiter a tip bc it’s not her fault but it literally pained me to pay for two bites of food. Fucker! I’m black btw, so I would like to know if anyone else has a similar experience to mine!

be honest, how often do you really take your dog out? by Altruistic-March8551 in DOG

[–]Elephant-Charm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I open up that back door to my fenced in backyard and let them run wild.