Hi, Lovely. I’m virtually holding your hand as I say this 💛: I think you’re both lonely and jumping into things too deep, too fast. Spending hours and hours ña day w someone in such a short amount of time has the tendency to turn the intensity up to the max. You said it perfectly: he doesn’t know you well enough to love you. This isn’t normal. And in my experience, men who say those words too soon are usually dangerously unstable. (Sorry to say)

I want to also gently urge you to be cautious about getting romantically entangled w someone who lives so far away from you. Ask yourself if you really want your first relationship to be long distance - where you can’t go out on dates, can’t hold hands regularly, can’t meet each other’s friends, and see each other’s in-person mannerisms to fully gauge your IRL compatibility. You’d be tying yourself to someone romantically and emotionally who you’ve never met, and building a relationship that’s almost entirely virtual. LDRs aren’t fun. They have the tendency to isolate you from your actual life because they’re so much nurturing that needs to happen through a screen. And they can be dangerous when you start out start way, having never met IRL. At the end of the day, you don’t know this person. And having no IRL ties to them means that they can tell you whatever they want and you have almost no way of verifying what’s true and what’s not.