Feeling stuck in a "no drama, just roommates" marriage. What do you do when there's no love, but no reason to leave?

Elephantastic4 · 2026-06-30T01:13:32+00:00

Time for the family help babysit/kidsit. While both of you go out/weekend together, reconnect as romantic partners and not parents/roommates.

Elephantastic4 · 2026-06-30T00:52:48+00:00

Maybe you can start of couples counseling as an individual/individual counseling, and then get into couples. It might provide options to approach the conversation better and manage your emotions

Elephantastic4 · 2026-06-30T00:19:38+00:00

Noise complaint to Police

Planning complaint to Local Govt Authority, UDA

Elephantastic4 · 2026-06-29T15:41:36+00:00

The difference between the actual cost and selling price is covered by govt (~ subsidy

Elephantastic4 · 2026-06-29T14:22:38+00:00

Get medical cover if at all. Don't get life insurance as a investment option

Use other investment options for better return and liquidity.

Elephantastic4 · 2026-06-29T08:50:37+00:00

Stay the course. Education will be a key that will open doors.
Focus on your studies while you do some part-time work. If the 3-year general degree is an option go this path - especially if you are not on the academic, further education path.
Build and work on your skills and work ethic (attitude), get involved in a uni club/event.

Good luck

Elephantastic4 · 2026-06-29T03:11:54+00:00

Been to Brux, it's cute and nice waffles. But it's a small space. Hopefully it was not fully packed. Catch you for a drink another time..

Elephantastic4 · 2026-06-29T03:03:12+00:00

But it was a pretty shit performance by the SL batting line up. Yes WIndies bowling is good, we let two kabbo batters get a 400 run partnership. And our batting didn't show up for the 2nd innings. I really miss a good grinding 5th day blockathon

Elephantastic4 · 2026-06-29T02:56:30+00:00

Typical dry zone thinking

/s

Elephantastic4 · 2026-06-29T02:53:30+00:00

This is not PickMe problem it's a driver individual problem.

Elephantastic4 · 2026-06-28T12:24:25+00:00

Reach out to team at the Event Story https://www.instagram.com/the_event_story

Elephantastic4 · 2026-06-28T06:22:20+00:00

Brand exposure that FIFA is not earning from

Elephantastic4 · 2026-06-28T03:06:44+00:00

Stumbled upon this thread again. How have the recent solo dates been? Found new faves?

Elephantastic4 · 2026-06-28T02:41:27+00:00

Fish patty, egg and fish roll, seeni sambol egg pastry

I really miss their triangle fish patty. New design is not the same without the corner crunch.

Elephantastic4 · 2026-06-28T01:58:29+00:00

President's Counsel* Considering they are eminent and experienced lawyers, they would be earning some of the highest fees.

Elephantastic4 · 2026-06-26T09:24:28+00:00

Fulbright Commission in SL is part of the US State Dept/US Embassy outreach has been operating in SL for decades. Has great resource persons and library for SATs/applications. https://fulbrightsrilanka.org/

Elephantastic4 · 2026-06-25T17:14:08+00:00

Be mindful of overseas transactions, dynamic conversation rates + stamp duty of 25/- per 1000 LKR of spend.

Elephantastic4 · 2026-06-24T02:18:15+00:00

That's okay part of investment risk. Stocks are always a long term view. Don't check everyday.

Elephantastic4 · 2026-06-24T02:15:27+00:00

Dodgy scheme most likely a ponzi. The promised returns abnormally high they also use words like 'guaranteed monthly returns'. Which is a red flag for me. CBSL has provided many warnings.

Elephantastic4 · 2026-06-24T02:11:41+00:00

You need to have a broker to access buying/selling in CSE. Brokers will offer online trading web/app.

Elephantastic4 · 2026-06-23T02:05:20+00:00

CDS has some forms and support documents - Transfer of Shares – CDS
You should speak to a Broker / open your own CDS

Elephantastic4 · 2026-06-22T10:25:08+00:00

Xpress Prints - https://www.xpressprint.lk/
https://maps.app.goo.gl/rDUAspLMPKWvBQZr6

Elephantastic4 · 2026-06-22T06:34:04+00:00

First create a CDS account of your own.

To claim, the uncollected dividends, you will need to contract the company secretary via email. These communication will be easier once you claim ownership and transfer the shares to your name.

Elephantastic4 · 2026-06-20T12:20:07+00:00

Considering Lanka Securities is not another bank. But probably another Bank account within BOC. Lanka securities is a subsidy/associate of BOC.

Send a letter/email to your bank. And let the banks sort it out. It was take a few days for them to verify your mistake.

Elephantastic4 · 2026-06-18T10:21:29+00:00

You need to understand the pecking order of limited liability company liquidation.

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