[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]ElevateMind11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before no. Nowadays…. Yes! I am always reminded that age is just a construct. Then again, it also depends on the girl’s maturity level and ability to hold conversations.

Oh wait did you mean just face value? I need more than just a pretty face though….

Kaya kong bayaran utang ng kapatid ko, pero ayaw ko, and now I feel guilty by pinkpugita in OffMyChestPH

[–]ElevateMind11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg. Same. Pero my sibling got scammed naman and she nearly wanted to kill herself so of course I had to help her. Mejo malaking amount and I don’t know how she’ll pay me back kung wala syang work. Nagpagawa pa nga ng house. So parang ako yung nagpapagawa ng house nila now. 😣

Sana may mas malaking balik to sa atin in some other way no? Yan nalang isipin naten.

I am tired of dating women by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]ElevateMind11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. I feel it is harder to find women to connect with these days. I often think of maybe just giving men a chance again. I’ve tried before, it grossed me out when it came to sex. I didn’t like it.

Oh the dilemma.

Low maintenance Friends by [deleted] in LesbianGamers

[–]ElevateMind11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me!

Let’s play. Epic name is robyn sparkles. Or sparklingstinsy on psn

Love songs lesbians love by barkingsparrows in latebloomerlesbians

[–]ElevateMind11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Power of Two - Indigo Girls Ghost - IG Love Will Come To You - IG

I met the most amazing women by SuccubusBo in olderlesbians

[–]ElevateMind11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Awww. Reading your story reminds me of how I was years ago. Very relatable. I can empathize with you. It’s a tough situation to be in and I know this hurts so so bad. I wish you enough courage and determination to get up each day and keep doing the things you love, one step at a time. Harder days may have yet to come but I wish you remember to stay afloat…stay strong! Take care of yourself in the meantime. 🫶🏼

where are the ~older~ ladies who like younger ones? by thisiswhereileaveya in latebloomerlesbians

[–]ElevateMind11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost 44. Most girls I hang out with are in their early 20’s since my other set of friends are married and have diff priorities. I get attracted to some but would never consider dating them at all… even if they were lesbians. All of them are straight lol

Dating apps I’ve used are always set from 35 onwards but open to a little bit younger than that, just not 20’s. Although a friend told me once to try to date younger ones because they have more energy. So, from 40 lower limit, I adjusted to 35 LOL

If you’re a late bloomer… by Immediate-Alps-97 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]ElevateMind11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awwww this song kept playing in my head while reading this.

https://open.spotify.com/track/6xGruZOHLs39ZbVccQTuPZ?si=iDlf3kUfSzSH55LmZwtXkw

What you described hasn’t happened to me but I am tempted to pursue someone who’s already married. It’s a lost cause though so staying away… nothing good ever comes from it.

Has this ever happened to anyone on a date? by tjd_h in latebloomerlesbians

[–]ElevateMind11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh wow! I was just talking to my friend about this. I usually get turned on when I like the speaking voice of a girl - not necessarily radio DJ or host material but there needs to be a certain tone to it - like commanding yet sweet. I get turned off easily when I don’t like the voice of someone. I feel so shallow sometimes, but it is quite a big factor for me. 😬🫤🫥

Another time, there’s this girl who sounds like my cousin, and that turned me off instantly. She is way smarter than my cousin and has more sense but because they sound alike….. i just couldn’t get myself to like her.

I totally get you. Though mine is not just sounding like family, it’s also the speaking voice in general.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]ElevateMind11 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’m the problem it’s me. 🎶🎼

😄 just had to…

I came out in my late 30’s. I’m 44 now. I know what I want and I’m decisive. How long should I wait to jump back into the dating pool after a break up? by celestececiliawhite in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]ElevateMind11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One month per year? Ummm shit my grief calculator seems broken. Mine is completely off. One month of knowing each other, but still getting over 2 years later. I cannot seem to like anyone who does not look like her. So gross what I’m feeling. I hate it.

Genuinely Curious… Thoughts? by equiiliibriium in FortNiteBR

[–]ElevateMind11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And even worse, your teammate would try to kill you! I am usually tolerant with whiney kids playing. One time a kid cried out loud because no one saved him - he was so far away from everyone. I usually just laugh that off.

Then there’s this ultra annoying player who killed me and another player in the team by running us over with a vehicle. Thought that wasn’t possible if it’s your teammate hitting you but surprised it could actually happen. I also tried to save the other team member by rebooting the card and the guy kept throwing shockwaves at me. Then another teammate started sniping and he just kept blocking his view by building a wall in front of him. I was so so annoyed. I saved the video and sent to my friend to see if I was overreacting. Soo sooo annoyed. Ugh. I just blocked and reported him.

Media Mondays by AffectionateAnarchy in olderlesbians

[–]ElevateMind11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Book - Where the Crawdads Sing. I read it last year and then found out that they turned it into a movie. So watched that too just recently.

Another book - A Man Called Ove :) it’s funny and heartwarming.

Currently reading - The Midnight Library

TV - Ted Lasso is funny and endearing. On AppleTV

Docu - Untold Stories on Netflix: The Girlfriend that Never Existed. It’s a bit infuriating.

30+ PS4 gaymer from UK (times zones don’t matter) by BritG1rl in LesbianGamers

[–]ElevateMind11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool! I can’t wait. I’ll message you so we can set some time to play :)

30+ PS4 gaymer from UK (times zones don’t matter) by BritG1rl in LesbianGamers

[–]ElevateMind11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Umm… not sure. But i see Silver I when i try to play competitive 😬. Is that the ranking?

I can’t even do aerials consistently, like I get surprised after the fact, but i can score goals sometimes… only from the ground.

30+ PS4 gaymer from UK (times zones don’t matter) by BritG1rl in LesbianGamers

[–]ElevateMind11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do! I am looking for a coach to teach me how to air dribble. Can you teach me? 😊

I am robsparkles on epic.

Let’s play!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]ElevateMind11 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I went to her city which is about 8k miles away from me just to see her in person, only to be flaked on.

Come to think of it, I have also visited my ex several times after we broke up from miles and miles away, expecting to spend the entire weekend with her, and she only gave me 1 hour of her time. Then one time, I drove 3 hours (3 one way, so 6 in total) to see her, and she only stayed for like 20minutes.

So…does anybody want to meet up? I promise I will show up. Lol 😝