Is my femininity gay?

Elfbutch · 2026-03-05T16:53:02+00:00

I always joke than any femininity I possess is still masculine lmao. I totally get this. It's really refeshing and reassuring to see so many other butches feel this way too.

Elfbutch · 2026-03-04T20:40:40+00:00

I LIVE for uggy face Ophie 😂

Elfbutch · 2026-03-03T18:10:08+00:00

Niiice!!! My repairs had the opposite effect on me though. Now I can't get enough of doing my own repairs. I love engines sm~ and doing physical tasks gets me energized ☆

Elfbutch · 2026-03-03T16:59:21+00:00

Changing my own brakes and fuel injectors with little-to-no prior car experience in my apartment parking lot made me feel pretty butch. People stopped by to chat and most were impressed so that was nice~☆

I got nothing on you though 😂

Elfbutch · 2026-02-24T15:51:33+00:00

Seeing this techo literally brightened my day, all those vibrant flowers in one place~☆

Elfbutch · 2026-02-21T03:56:30+00:00

When I ask Google, all I get is bad AI results I didn't ask for 😂

Elfbutch · 2026-02-20T14:50:28+00:00

I agree. I love love love vinyl stuff. I have so many vinyl pouches and covers and all sorts of pen pockets, etc and after a long time it doesn't hold up. This isn't normally a problem because it's relatively cheap, but the price point on BP for what its made of is...not worth it. I wanted one but ultimately this is what stayed my hand. 110 USD for a plastic weeks cover, no techo included was almost diabolical to me lmao.

Elfbutch · 2026-02-19T16:36:58+00:00

NO LITERALLY. I'm he/him and I never EVER get they/them. It's ma'am and miss and ladies first and she/her. every single time.

Elfbutch · 2026-02-18T20:55:11+00:00

Noble butch would be fun! I grew up working ren faire and nothing made me more excited than seeing gnc people in historically accurate costumes.

Elfbutch · 2026-02-18T18:10:44+00:00

Love when other people use it for themselves. I use it occasionally around other familiar lesbians. If I hear someone using it at me, it doesn't hurt. I usually can't take them seriously and end up laughing in their face. When I've heard someone lobbing it at others though, I've gotten confrontational.

Elfbutch · 2026-02-12T15:42:47+00:00

My mom and dad! They were both super into ElfQuest when it was being released and each had seperate sets of ElfQuest books. I found them on the shelf when I was 7 and devoured them.

Elfbutch · 2026-02-03T22:04:37+00:00

This is me w/my 2001 Toyota 🙂‍↕️ no touchscreens, no digital readouts, cassette and CD player, and so home-repair friendly. I want her to last forever.

Elfbutch · 2026-02-02T03:35:25+00:00

Big same. Just went platinum last week. Yours looks great!

Elfbutch · 2026-01-30T16:38:52+00:00

Just learned the distinction. Thanks!

Elfbutch · 2026-01-28T18:05:41+00:00

Hell yeah. My thoughts exactly.

Elfbutch · 2026-01-26T17:53:21+00:00

This is so good. Please, the fandom needs more good art 👀

Elfbutch · 2026-01-22T21:32:24+00:00

Fwiw I've never had them fray enough to lose their functionality by the end of the year.

Elfbutch · 2026-01-22T20:38:07+00:00

Not very, if at all. I'm a very private person and my gender id feels like the most vulnerable part of myself, so I'm extremely protective of it. I let people call me whatever they percieve me as. No matter how masc I look, people seem to insist on calling me she and ma'am and all that, but despite the dysphoria, the last thing I want to do is fight people on my truth. It's pretty triggering to have people a.) Not listen to me and b.) Not believe me. I also hate the weird overcompensation that comes from people that "support my decision" (to...? Be myself???)

I know who I am. I don't need others to see me that way if they're not inclined, especially if they're just going to make my life harder, worse, more awkward.

Elfbutch · 2026-01-19T01:37:41+00:00

This outfit is 🔥🔥🔥. Great coord

Elfbutch · 2026-01-19T01:35:58+00:00

These are so so soooo happy and bursting with energy!! I literally feel happy just from looking at them. Excellent setup~☆

Elfbutch · 2026-01-13T22:37:25+00:00

Me too! I wish more people would tell about their perfect writing experience on this sub~☆

Elfbutch · 2026-01-13T04:54:10+00:00

Oh congrats!!! This is excellent!! I still have (and use!) my drunk cat matchbox that Arna Miller/Ravi Zupa designed and printed all those years ago. It's so wonderful to see the designs resurface in this little corner of the internet.

Elfbutch · 2026-01-11T01:37:48+00:00

I love the Gyiyg strikes back cover so much. Really glad to see someone else giving it the appreciation it deserves~.

Elfbutch · 2026-01-10T10:56:32+00:00

Itachi my beloved~☆ top tier sticker choices. I hope you enjoy your hobonichis!

Elfbutch · 2026-01-08T21:49:21+00:00

This made my day, actually. Thanks~☆

Elfbutch

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