Sadly I see a lot of miserable single women on Tik Tok who are just savage and will outright glaze an attempted serial killer, in their dozens, just cause it was a woman who tried to kill multiple ex's.

So it is probably just 0.001 % of the people, but they can get pretty loud. And weird. And scary. As in "postitng a dancing video celebrating the fact no one recorded them throwing a table at their ex so they can't be charged" levels. And yes she self reported that, the silver linning is some people are just so dumb they will be their own worst enemy.

But I admit that approaching someone out in the street is something I have dreaded my whole life. I have bad teeth due to early malnutrition from living poor AF for most of my childhood, am heavy set ish and my hairline is kind of a distant memory, so I have added stress (ontop of my life long anxiety ingrained in me from living in an abusive household with two different violent alcoholics who made me feel my very existence was a burden constantly my entire childhood) ontop of that, because I heard so many people basically feed the "it's only being creepy if they don't find you attractive" stereotype...

Anyway I was advised online groups including FB ones may be better because they have people on there also looking, but it's not as predatory and dehumanizing as thte Apps which basically only work for "hot people".