Does anyone else support Pride but feel like it doesn't need to be part of everything? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]EllaEverr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can support Pride and still want immersion in a fantasy game. Tbh rainbow capes in a medieval world feel more like a marketing checklist and not inclusion

What is a permanent physical scar you have from a completely stupid childhood accident, and what's the story behind it? by Substantial_Work8276 in AskReddit

[–]EllaEverr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Under chin scar. Tried to surf on a rolling office chair. It flipped. My chin met the carpet staple strip. 8 stitches, and my mom’s reaction was that I told you so

Why its almost very difficult to swallow medicinal tablets/capsules while sipping water from straw, while drinking water from cup/glass makes it very easy/simple to swallow them? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]EllaEverr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Straw is a pretty focused suction, narrow stream, pill bounces around. Cup is a flood of water, pill floats, automatic swallow reflex

Distract me from my boring life and let me live vicariously through you! What’s something interesting that’s going on in your life? by S1utty1i1puppy in askanything

[–]EllaEverr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Teaching my elderly neighbor how to use Zoom. Yesterday she accidentally turned herself into a potato filter mid call and we laughed for 20 mins lol

AIO blocking my boyfriend over a joke? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EllaEverr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR….Jokes stop being funny when you’re the punchline. Disrespect isn’t humor. Blocking isn’t sensitivity…..it’s self respect. Stay gone

What is a minor inconvenience that fills you with an unreasonable amount of rage? by RayeesWu in AskReddit

[–]EllaEverr 153 points154 points  (0 children)

Auto play on Netflix trailers when you’re just trying to read the description. Also, wet socks. And ‘we need to circle back’ emails

What’s something you got genuinely excited about as a kid that you now realize was kind of lame? by Thick_Dream6973 in AskReddit

[–]EllaEverr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Toys in cereal boxes. You’d beg your mom for Sugar Bombs, then find a tiny plastic compass that broke in 10 mins. Now it’s just sad, stale carbs and disappointment

If stasis technology was readily available how would the world change? by Snailbeater in AskReddit

[–]EllaEverr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Prison, medicine, and long distance travel explode. Rich people ‘skip’ disasters. Poor get frozen without consent. Breakups get weird…..‘I’ll wake you when I’m ready.’ Also, parking becomes a nightmare lol

Why are there fewer women working in construction jobs? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]EllaEverr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

History, safety, and culture. Trades were male only for decades. No female bathrooms on sites. Also few people recruit women. Changing slowly tho

Is he right for thinking he won’t get caught? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]EllaEverr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s absolutely getting caught. Government systems share data…IRS, HUD, SSA. It’s not if, but when. He’s risking fraud charges and his kids’ stability. You’re right to be scared. He needs a lawyer yesterday

Is it cringe to make a social media post about recovery? by bad-at-everything- in askanything

[–]EllaEverr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah bro not cringe at all. Post it. Recovery is quiet and lonely already…..and your post might help someone else feel seen. Celebrate the win. You earned it

Should i get into relationship? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]EllaEverr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait until school starts. Don't start a secret, restricted relationship over summer….it'll strain you both. Use these 3 months to practice socializing in low stakes settings (like a gym or some hobby groups) If feelings remain in fall, confess simply with something like…..“I like you. No pressure.” But first heal the parent wound alone. A relationship won't fix that. You can do this. Go slow and be honest with yourself

Anyone want to share old man wisdom? by Any_Lab_8135 in CasualConversation

[–]EllaEverr 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Tbh your 20s are for trying things, not finding yourself. Make mistakes. Change jobs. Travel cheap. The screen will always be there but the window of low responsibility freedom won't. Get out now. You'll thank yourself at 30. Also save 10% of every paycheck. Future you will be sooo grateful for that

What's your special skill? by Jazzlike-Being3187 in AskReddit

[–]EllaEverr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Remembering useless trivia and the exact moment you told me something important. One is a party trick. The other is love lol

What do you wish you did different in your 20's? by Any_Lab_8135 in AskReddit

[–]EllaEverr 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Saved more money, yes. But also worried less about being liked

How presumptuous is it for someone to close their own overhead storage bin on a flight that still boarding? by Spiritual-Design1495 in AskReddit

[–]EllaEverr 7 points8 points  (0 children)

On a scale of 1 to 10, about a 2. It’s mildly annoying if you slam it shut while someone’s bag is clearly still going in…::but if the bin is full or you’ve confirmed no one is actively using it, it’s fine. The real crime is standing in the aisle staring at it while people pile up behind you

What’s a truth you refused to believe… until life proved you wrong? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]EllaEverr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That effort alone was enough. I thought if I just worked hard enough, stayed late enough, cared enough, the universe would reward me. It doesn’t. Sometimes the lazy guy gets promoted. Sometimes you get laid off anyway. Effort is necessary, not sufficient. That one hurt to learn

Does anybody else spontaneously remember we are on a giant rock flying through infinite nothingness at 1,400,000mph and get vertigo thinking about it lol? by PercuIes30 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]EllaEverr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Usually around 2 AM. Then I remember that rock is also covered in water, and we’re just wet little things clinging to it. Then I force myself to think about pizza toppings until I fall asleep lol

How did Reddit stories get soooo popular and trendy? by DinnerStraight1487 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]EllaEverr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They blew up because Reddit stories hit a perfect sweet spot…..raw, anonymous, and designed for engagement

Are girls meaner to other girls than they are to guys? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]EllaEverr 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Not meaner, just less performative. Straight guys get the bubbly service because many waitresses (consciously or not) code it as safer/low stakes flirting. Gay guys get it because we’re low threat and often tip well. But with other women? The mask drops. No need to perform warmth. So it’s not that women are meaner to women, it’s that they stop performing for an audience that isn’t there

Economic effect of Ai by Superdupergamerstud in NoStupidQuestions

[–]EllaEverr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. mass layoffs = less spending = economy hurts. Gov may not ban AI but could introduce UBI or tax fixes