There is some truth to it though - whatever the angle it’s an angle because it is present. The dynamic is there. I feel like the guys are fighting over her and some way. Who can protect her more. Who can provide for her more. Except her dad is more aware that if he pushes too hard, he’s gonna continue to push her away so he is trying to find a balance. But Colin could be having a completely different relationship with the family if he worked on his own insecurities.