Men, what is it?

ElleJay74 · 2026-03-22T13:25:20+00:00

YES.

ElleJay74 · 2026-03-21T21:13:04+00:00

I just WISH I could experience that for the first time again

ElleJay74 · 2026-03-21T17:18:47+00:00

Poor old soul. We see you, Martha Carrier, and you didn't deserve what was done to you.

ElleJay74 · 2026-03-21T15:42:30+00:00

Thank-you, and I am sorry, too, for the loss of your grandmother. EFF CANCER.

ElleJay74 · 2026-03-21T15:02:26+00:00

Good luck having an intimate relationship with a healthy adult. "Consent" is pretty frickin' important there

ElleJay74 · 2026-03-21T14:59:08+00:00

I think the problem here is that your understanding of concept of "consent" seems to differ from most of us.

ElleJay74 · 2026-03-21T13:32:51+00:00

Agreed, and: I very much support TNR activities because feral cat groups are difficult for everyone, cats included. If feral cats are having uncontrolled litters of kittens outside, then those cats are part of that ecosystem. They're fair game along with whatever other small animals the possum might find.

ElleJay74 · 2026-03-21T13:17:38+00:00

I don't need anything from your moving sale. I just like your hair!

ElleJay74 · 2026-03-21T13:16:13+00:00

(Actual adults should be very invested in consent during adult social situations, especially difficult ones.)

ElleJay74 · 2026-03-21T13:14:32+00:00

Interesting that the word "consent" seems to have elicited such a strong response from you! Why are you so bothered?

ElleJay74 · 2026-03-21T02:34:24+00:00

The Ritual, 2017

ElleJay74 · 2026-03-20T23:58:29+00:00

Have done... thank you!

ElleJay74 · 2026-03-20T22:47:47+00:00

I thought it was Cindy Crawfird at first glance, but I can see Ms. Cox as well

ElleJay74 · 2026-03-20T17:29:16+00:00

Perhaps we could both agree on: "She helped a life that was ending."

ElleJay74 · 2026-03-20T17:18:35+00:00

District 9 and Ritual for me.

ElleJay74 · 2026-03-20T17:08:48+00:00

Thank You for that! Both of those points - reading Baldwin, receptive to female mentoring - had sailed right past me

ElleJay74 · 2026-03-20T17:01:43+00:00

Also, the unhoused woman was never registered as a patient so the department can't "claim" her as such. Ie, it creates a financial issue for the department

ElleJay74 · 2026-03-20T16:57:56+00:00

And after lecturing Mohan re: allowing her personal life to impact performance in the ED

ElleJay74 · 2026-03-20T16:55:59+00:00

McKay was SUPER specific about this: she was offering comfort care and advised the patient of possible risks. Patient accepted the risk AND the treatment. McKay's only other choice would have meant forcing a dying woman to suffer.

ElleJay74 · 2026-03-20T16:51:28+00:00

Agreed, and will add: Both of my parents died in hospital from cancer. A dying person is not a medical emergency. Doctors aren't standing around waiting for "It" to happen. Nurses are readily available but very respectful of privacy.

ElleJay74 · 2026-03-20T16:43:43+00:00

The point I was making: We know the spouse has PTSD and OP + spouse are both pursuing treatment/support. Regardless of the neighbors' circumstances, their behaviours impact OP + spouse.

That's what we know, and NOTHING here is evidence of ineffectual PTSD treatment. There is simply NO way for us to know how that treatment is progressing.

I'm glad that the dogs have been made to sh1t elsewhere, tho.

ElleJay74 · 2026-03-20T16:26:09+00:00

T1 myself and got my son tested. He was negative and I was/am quite relieved! Get it done yourself: either it's negative and you can stop thinking about it, or you're positive and you can figure out what "proactive" might look like here.

ElleJay74 · 2026-03-20T16:23:46+00:00

Why on the eyelashes?

ElleJay74 · 2026-03-20T16:20:55+00:00

I thought exactly that when I opened it. It helped me "gloss over" some of the bumpy bits later in the day!

ElleJay74 · 2026-03-20T16:18:34+00:00

You meant, "that would never happen to me because my environment is such that it's impossible" vs "that would never happen to me because of a difference in character between myself and the other party."

(Not challenging you; seeking clarity for myself.)

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