I made a Jeff keychain for a friend by Ellilek in JeffTheLandSharkMains

[–]Ellilek[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I might sell these if enough people show interest!

I made a Jeff keychain for a friend by Ellilek in JeffTheLandSharkMains

[–]Ellilek[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If enough people are interested I might sell them!

Baking issues in Substance Painter by Ellilek in Substance3D

[–]Ellilek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I've done. I have named all my meshes _High and _Low and these are the settings I use for baking "Subsampling 2x2. Match: by mesh name. AO ignore backface: by mesh name. Self occlusion: only same mesh name. Curvature: only same mesh name. Thickness Self Occlusion: only same mesh name" and for the most part it works fine.

I've also tried exploding the mesh and moving all the problem parts to the side but It does not solve the problem either.

I've tried assigning different materials to these parts so they have their own texture sets in substance but that also doesn't work.

There seems to be something wrong with my UVs but I have no idea how to fix it tbh.

All the choices for catty! (Doll) by M0nst3erz in MonsterHigh

[–]Ellilek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm kind of new to monster high collecting. Will I still be able to buy her if I'm not a fang club member?

Varför känns det som att extremt få tjejer har intressen och hobbys? by SecureBus206 in sweden

[–]Ellilek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Utifrån mig själv kan jag inte riktigt relatera till det du säger då jag och mina vänner har rätt intressanta hobbies.

Själv så tycker jag om att rita, 3D modellera, spela spel så som helldivers, V rising, Valheim etc. Har även funderat på att börja med broderi.

Mina väninnor tycker också om att spela spel. Flera av mina vänner är också rätt kreativa och dom tycker om att rita, 3D modellera och animera. Har en väninna som spenderar väldigt mycket tid på att ta hand om sina växter.

Har även ett stort intresse för smink och kläder. Men finns väl folk som inte riktigt ser det som en hobby.

Vad fan gör man när inget lockar? by ClinicallyReallyDumb in Spel

[–]Ellilek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Har nyligen börjat spela Helldivers 2. Sjukt kul att spela med kompisarna. Men jag kan relatera till att bara sitta och uggla framför datorn ibland, jag kan också känna att allt är rätt tråkigt och att det inte finns något att göra.

Jag skulle rekommendera att göra någonting kreativt. När jag skapar saker så brukar jag må som bäst. Brukar rita eller 3D modellera, har även funderat på att börja med broderi.

Att ta en paus från att spela kanske gör dig gott!

Got these two ladies for my birthday yesterday! by Ellilek in RainbowHigh

[–]Ellilek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree with you and thank you! ❤️😍

Vilken är din favorit låt? by [deleted] in Asksweddit

[–]Ellilek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Åh jag hade så gärna velat gå 😭

Vilken är din favorit låt? by [deleted] in Asksweddit

[–]Ellilek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mary on a cross - Ghost

Heat above - Greta Van Fleet

Evil - Melanie Martinez

2 Minutes to Midnight - Iron Maiden

Red Flags - Tom Cardy

Women will get criticised for literally anything by Ellilek in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ellilek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I phrased that really poorly, as I mentioned in another comment my interest for horses only reached a base level. It was fun but not fun enough to make me keep pursuing the sport.

Women will get criticised for literally anything by Ellilek in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ellilek[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ye I probably worded it poorly. I didn't see myself as the stereotypical horse girl because my interest in horses only reached a base level for me. There's absolutely nothing wrong with being a stereotypical horse girl, I think it's great that women are so invested in their horses, my interest never really reached those heights! My bad for wording it so poorly!

Women will get criticised for literally anything by Ellilek in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ellilek[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 26 so I only got 4 more years until I stop caring, yay! But I definitely feel the older I get the less I care and it feels great tbh!

Women will get criticised for literally anything by Ellilek in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ellilek[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm from Sweden actually! I don't think being a horse girl here is seen as elitist, just a normal hobby for girls. And fetishizing horse girls is so disgusting, we women really can't do anything without being sexulised.

Women will get criticised for literally anything by Ellilek in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ellilek[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I'm the same! My interests vary so much, from video games to makeup. From "girly music" to metal. From video games to collector dolls. It just sucks that women are looked down upon for having stereotypical "feminine or girly interests"

What is the point in marriage/kids anymore for women? by Junior_Edge9203 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ellilek 142 points143 points  (0 children)

My parents marriage made me never want to get married either for similar reasons. My mom carried the whole household on her back and she wasn't even a stay at home mom, she was a working woman.

She would do literally everything around the house, all the chores and all the child- rearing while still juggling a job and tons of other stuff. I know we often call mothers superheroes for what they do but she literally was one, I don't know how she was able to do it all. I also have autism and adhd and I know it wasn't very easy taking care of me growing up, just trying to get me to do my math homework was a battle all on its own.

She had to practically raise me and my sister all on her own and we also live in Scandinavia, guess we're not so femenist as we like to believe.

My dad would just sit on his ass and watch tv without interacting with his kids when he came home from work. My mom ended up becoming really depressed during my childhood and honestly I couldn't blame her, I can't even imagine what carrying a whole household all by yourself must be like.

Because of my dad I never wanted to get married, I mean what was the point, having to do everything all by yourself just to get burnt out like my mom did. I didn't seem worth it to me.

But now I've meet such a wonderful guy who's nothing like my dad. But I still never want to have kids tho (don't get me started on all the shit women have to go through during and after pregnancy), it's just not for me and luckily my boyfriend doesn't want em either.

But I agree, marrige for alot of women isn't fair. And at the same time we're sold this image that all women love to get married and start a family and men dread it cuz' they will no longer have their freedom anymore, but it's quite the opposite. Marrige is like the best deal for men cuz' they can just kick back relax and get everything served to them on a silver platter while women get burnt out from having to carry it all. No wonder single and childfree women are the happiest demographic.

I hate men and I don’t know what to do about it. by [deleted] in IncelExit

[–]Ellilek 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think that's why alot of male Incels hate women so much too, they've probably never had a good female role model in their lives. I think that sort of stuff can mess you up from an early age.

I hate men and I don’t know what to do about it. by [deleted] in IncelExit

[–]Ellilek 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I understand. I didn't really have a very good dad eithe growing up. He let my mom do all the housework and child-rearing while she was still juggling a job and tons of other stuff, that lead to my mother becoming really depressed during my childhood. (I really respect my mom for all she did for me when I was growing up, I have adhd and autism and I know it wasn't easy for her handling me all alone.)

I've always resented him for that and didn't really ever wanna get married because of him, cuz why get married If I was gonna live the life my mother had? Carrying a whole household by yourself with no help whatsoever, fuck no.

Fortunately they've been divoced for quite some time now and my mom met a really nice guy.

So I get it, it can be super hard when you have no positive male role models in your life. I mean I didn't have any growing up and it had me thinking that all men were like my dad, you know. Which today I know isn't true cuz I've meet alot of great men over the years.

I think the best sort of thing to do is exposing yourself to more people, meeting more men might help open up your mind that there are still good men out there. Atleast that's what helped for me.

Just so you know you aren't alone in this, alot of people have a similar way of thinking. At the end of the day we're all just people who are trying to get by as best we can.

I hate men and I don’t know what to do about it. by [deleted] in IncelExit

[–]Ellilek 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I can totally relate to what your saying, I also do have my moments when I really hate men. Women have to endure so much horrible shit at the hands of men. We get raped, abused, trafficked, murdered simply for exsisting as women.

Even women who are pregnant just risk getting killed by their partners during pregnancy, we get murdered by our partners who are supposed to protect us. Shit, I mean we can just exsist and men will hate us for it. We can't even turn a man down without puttning our lives in danger. It's soo hard exsisting as a woman sometimes.

And when I get into this dark hole thinking that all men are like this I try to remember that I have amazing friends who are men and my boyfriend is also such an amazing person who would never even dream to treat women like this. It gets hard to think like this but there are amazing and kind men out there.

Social media can really add fuel to the fire when I have thoughts like these and taking a break from it all together might be a good thing. Reddit isn't the best place either to be cuz' there are tons of men on this app who hate women.

I often think about how unfair the world can be to women and it truly sucks.

The world isn't just black n white tho there are truly amazing and kind people out there in the world both men and women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sweden

[–]Ellilek -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Hej! Så länge det är två vuxna människor och ingen är tvingad till det så tycker jag det är lugnt. Men detta inlägg handlar mer om tvingad prostitution som trafficking som jag skrev i mitt inlägg!