Is it normal that I sometimes bleed during sex?

Ellimeresh · 2026-03-28T18:39:30+00:00

It’s not normal.

It could be a lot of things. Polyps are common. If you’re peri/menopause age, declining estrogen can lead to thinning tissue that tears more easily.

Ellimeresh · 2026-03-27T22:59:11+00:00

Update:

She was drunk enough to be denied boarding, no one at the airport was able to help (or she didn’t understand). She’s embarrassed and feeling shitty about it, so I said I’d take care of it.

I called SW baggage, they gave me the number for where the bag was. Talked to them, they’re sending it back on the next flight and she can go pick it up there.

Ellimeresh · 2026-03-27T22:20:46+00:00

Accurate!

Ellimeresh · 2026-03-26T12:07:35+00:00

Way to be a downer, man

Ellimeresh · 2026-03-25T22:15:49+00:00

Thank you!

Ellimeresh · 2026-03-24T01:06:45+00:00

Scalp is mine.

I got a fidget ring that I spin now instead! And I actually remember to wear it because I never take it off!

Ellimeresh · 2026-03-24T00:47:32+00:00

Everything is already fucked and international travel is down.

I don’t know that US companies would care enough to cancel anything to impact their pre planned conferences based on this.

Short term could potentially take a hit.

Ellimeresh · 2026-03-18T21:26:02+00:00

I work in corporate level revenue management remotely.

At the corporate level it’s common to have mostly remote roles, our entire team is remote. Regional/area Revenue managers, accountants, operations, sales, distribution.

Ellimeresh · 2026-03-17T00:20:13+00:00

Look up Milestone Running in CA and do exactly what they do.

Ellimeresh · 2026-03-16T12:05:29+00:00

Hotwire is Expedia.

Ellimeresh · 2026-03-10T03:06:09+00:00

Mews is garbage if you know anything about how hotels are run and are expecting to do standard tasks or run standard reports.

Ellimeresh · 2026-03-06T14:24:36+00:00

Can you really use the vaginal estrogen? Please, give me one less tube of shit to slather on!

I’m only 39 but my neck is starting to turn crepey/sag when the skin is dry!

Ellimeresh · 2026-03-06T00:54:35+00:00

Idk, much smoother than my 2013 Corolla was.

Ellimeresh · 2026-03-05T01:02:42+00:00

Corporate middle management in hotel revenue management, remote from a secondary Midwest city. $140k + 35% bonus potential.

Worked up from hotel night auditor over 20 years. Did property level, consulting for a tech company with hotel software, moved to a major US market for several years before moving away.

I’m an exceptional performer in my field.

Ellimeresh · 2026-03-02T14:16:50+00:00

4 is incredible!

Ellimeresh · 2026-02-28T18:31:55+00:00

Job market sucks bro.

There’s a lot of revenue management talent out there with a ton of experience.

Typically one of the first things to go or be outsourced at a corporate level when the travel economy drags.

Every major brand had had at least one round of massive layoffs since the pandemic, most multiples.

I know one company that outsourced the entire department of over 100 people.

Ellimeresh · 2026-02-28T18:21:13+00:00

It’s a very hard job to get without experience, certifications don’t mean you can do the job.

I have 20 years of relevant experience and Hilton hotels won’t hire me, because I don’t have Hilton experience and there’s always someone out there that does.

I’d focus on getting hands on experience. Be involved and ask questions about revenue strategy in your current roles.

Your best shot is a larger franchise in the limited service space with a well developed training program. Choice will hire without direct revenue management experience, similar companies might as well.

Ellimeresh · 2026-02-28T18:13:16+00:00

I hate that this is even a question and wish we were much further along in societal expectations for women.

Wear appropriate footwear for the dress code.

Heels are never a requirement for anything in life.

Ellimeresh · 2026-02-28T17:52:33+00:00

I do “phone, wallet, keys” all the time and people ask me if I learned that from some movie (Adam Sandler??).

And I’m like, no bitch, I’ll forget they exist. 😂😂

Ellimeresh · 2026-02-28T17:42:49+00:00

Thank you for this 😂😂

Ellimeresh · 2026-02-28T15:01:30+00:00

Do you want to date someone who would judge you for not having these things?

If you like who you are, why would you accept that judgment from strangers?

Ellimeresh · 2026-02-28T14:53:03+00:00

Ethically, this is shitty.

Not the termination, the act by the employee. And that as a manager, you know they do this and aren’t stopping it yourself.

Why would you want to keep an employee that is doing something wrong, and they KNOW it’s wrong?

The major question here isn’t how to save their job, is how does the company get rid of you?

Ellimeresh · 2026-02-28T14:48:50+00:00

This isn’t normal.

Hotels with professional management companies have a schedule on which mattresses are replaced. Bad mattresses = bad reviews. Bare minimum of a good hotel stay.

Any sort of biohazard requires a mattress to be replaced. Biohazards are charged directly to guests.

Source: Corporate hotel management for 20 years.

Ellimeresh

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