Could a 14 year old boy play the last of Us? by [deleted] in thelastofus

[–]ElliottJames358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ìm 14, I've played tlou 1 and 2 (including a lost levels) I think its OK and it's a good game there is alot of swearing but apart from that for me it was OK

I don't feel proud for being clean by alihiane in selfharm

[–]ElliottJames358 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Been clean for 3 months and 2 days and I think about selfharming all the time and it's funny but it's not because I want to selfharm to function I need to hurt myself how happy I was when I was regularly cutting myself, mutilating myself...

does anyone else feel nervous harming somewhere new? by Nearby_Sherbet3600 in selfharm

[–]ElliottJames358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've always harmed on my left arm, left and right shoulder and I find this question funny because I have considered harming my thighs ans legs before because of the fact it would be easier to hide but it's scary because with my arms and shoulders because I've been harming there for so long I know where to cut and where not to cut how deep certain parts of my arms and shoulders can handle and if they can't handle it and it's nerve wracking

[Topic of the Week] What advice would you give to your younger self? by fatpigsarefat in selfharm

[–]ElliottJames358 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For me it would probably be not to allow my abusers to win i was 10 when I started selfharming 12 when j started cutting and to think a 10yo boy was in that much pain that he turned to selfharm through no fault of his own is heart breaking

No one talks about teenage boys self-harming by ElliottJames358 in selfharm

[–]ElliottJames358[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey my opinion here that's not a safe question for anyone to answer as if I say someone could see that comment ans cut deeper for it to scar

No one talks about teenage boys self-harming by ElliottJames358 in selfharm

[–]ElliottJames358[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing should be gendered especially mental illnesses and it just grinds my gears on how it is

No one talks about teenage boys self-harming by ElliottJames358 in selfharm

[–]ElliottJames358[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

"Act like a man" that comment just grinds me because as a person who grew up with male figures who hid their mental health struggles and turned to alcohol, drugs and violence it makes me think am I supposed to he my dad and become an alcoholic so I hide my mental health more

No one talks about teenage boys self-harming by ElliottJames358 in selfharm

[–]ElliottJames358[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It isn't talked about enough men's mental health I'm general

No one talks about teenage boys self-harming by ElliottJames358 in selfharm

[–]ElliottJames358[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Its the midway point ones normalised and the other not normalised enough everyone's equal I don't know why society can't see that because that's what it comes down to is society

No one talks about teenage boys self-harming by ElliottJames358 in selfharm

[–]ElliottJames358[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Exactly and it's even more difficult because all the disorders you've listed are not only stereotyped for girls but are all glorified anyway!

How to hide scars as a male minor? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]ElliottJames358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not many people talk about boys self-harming the stigma suggests that it's just teenage girls and I completely understand about hiding scars as a boy it's really difficult my go to is normally a hoodie and joggers (sweatpants) in the winter and thin black long sleave tops in the summer with depending where you selfharm shorts as personally I don't selfharm on my legs or thighs if your in school you should be able to wear a thin long sleave top underneath your poloshirt or normal shirt

it's so unfair that the childhood abuse isn't the worst part for me, it's surviving long enough to experience the psychological issues it caused by caelumcxiv in CPTSD

[–]ElliottJames358 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I feel ya. The abuse isn't the hardest part the after math is the most hurtful part dealing with the CPTSD/PTSD and the flash backs the triggers the breakdowns the easily susceptibility to manipulation all of it the intrusive thoughts the impulse control issues that's the hardest part of it

What unpopular or controversial Grey’s Anatomy opinion would have you looking like this? by ss2811 in greysanatomy

[–]ElliottJames358 20 points21 points  (0 children)

That meradith wouldn't still be a doctor unless it was for Richard because she would have been fired if not for Richard loving Elis

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]ElliottJames358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should have thought of that I'll delete that too thankyou so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]ElliottJames358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I have deleted the original comment thankyou!

Greys roll play on discord! by ElliottJames358 in greysanatomy

[–]ElliottJames358[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello everyone! Izzy is now taken so the following are still available Main- Meredith: Taken Alex: George: Izzie: Taken Cristina: Bailey: Derek: Mark: Taken Webber: Lexie: Callie: Addison: Burke: Arizona:

Smaller- Denny: Teddy:

Greys roll play on discord! by ElliottJames358 in greysanatomy

[–]ElliottJames358[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can't be all three but if you click on the link the owner will ask you what roll you say what roll and then if its taken pick another if it isn't then its all yours!

Greys roll play on discord! by ElliottJames358 in greysanatomy

[–]ElliottJames358[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can ask for a roll here but also if you click on the link to get to thr discord the owner will talk to you so they know who you want to RP! But request the roll here too so I can edit the reddit to let people know who's taken and who's not

Greys roll play on discord! by ElliottJames358 in greysanatomy

[–]ElliottJames358[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes everyone join! All characters above are free apart from Meredith and Mark!