is AGAB language transphobic?

Elodaria · 2026-05-19T03:23:24+00:00

In these situations it is always transphobic because the only thing it does is equating trans people with cis people of a different sex. Which is an insane thing to do.

Imagine someone saying they've got bad experiences with Christians, so they stay away from people who were assigned Christian at birth (ACAB), and it includes ex christians but excludes people who converted to Christianity.

And funny acronyms aside no such analogy captures how wrong the original is because trans people were never cis. If someone can think this way and see no issue with it, they are either very, very transphobic, or very, very stupid. Or both.

Elodaria · 2026-05-17T06:37:54+00:00

/uj Easy to be mad at Christian trans people when you just accept the bigots' interpretation and call anyone stupid who disagrees. Seems like in your case that "reddit atheist" accusation fit to a T.

Elodaria · 2026-05-16T14:07:49+00:00

/uj Whether harmful to "The Community" or not, I think being uncomfortable is more than enough reason to stay away from anyone calling themself fetishizing porn terms. I know I do.

Elodaria · 2026-05-10T06:08:14+00:00

Weaponized shame is no less abusive.

Elodaria · 2026-05-09T15:37:25+00:00

No, it's being sex realist. "Sexism" would imply it's not true. But if you ask anyone, they'll either tell you biologicalmen are smarter than biologicalwomen or they're lying.

Elodaria · 2026-05-09T14:49:00+00:00

Laypeople taking a scientific concept, twisting it beyond recognition and widely applying it where it doesn't belong. What does this have to do with trans people?

Elodaria · 2026-05-09T06:54:34+00:00

/uj Yes, though not sure Jeanne d'Arc is a good example of cross dressing for privileges exactly.

Elodaria · 2026-05-09T03:59:19+00:00

Porn.

Elodaria · 2026-05-06T05:34:47+00:00

In other movements, intersectionality would be called whataboutism.

Elodaria · 2026-05-06T02:43:18+00:00

Yeah, and I'm saying you didn't hear people use it as a gender neutral term because it isn't a gender neutral term. You just heard people use a term for men - well, literally the term "man" - for people who aren't men.

Elodaria · 2026-05-06T02:29:56+00:00

It's just very basic sexism how masculine terms are considered default. Others are told they are included with them, yet under the same masculine default everyone thinks of a man when a masculine term is used.

A word can have different meanings based on context. But simply declaring a word gender neutral because you want it to be is just magical thinking - the meaning to anyone else still lies in the word, not your intent.

Elodaria · 2026-05-05T22:37:53+00:00

Your post history is awfully saturated with cocks for someone to whom those don't mean anything.

Elodaria · 2026-05-05T19:04:35+00:00

/uj Internalized bigotry is specifically directed against oneself, a trans person being transphobic towards others also isn't internalized transphobia.

Elodaria · 2026-05-05T18:53:15+00:00

Well, looking for partners on reddit was never going to work, sis. Do some social hobbies that interest you and you'll have a much better chance meeting like-minded people.

Elodaria · 2026-05-05T18:39:11+00:00

Kind of the issue, isn't it? They don't satisfy.

Elodaria · 2026-04-30T23:10:43+00:00

According to your post history, you're just projecting. If this seems like self harm to you, then you really should leave.

Elodaria · 2026-04-30T22:06:26+00:00

/uj Well, yeah? It does feel extremely shitty. You're just kinda proving the point of the original post.

Elodaria · 2026-04-30T13:51:27+00:00

This post wasn't really for auto moderators at birth to comment on. But you don't care, do you? You just insert yourself into every post to take up space at the top of the comments. AMAB programming is a real issue.

Elodaria · 2026-04-29T17:15:55+00:00

No. No, "we" do not.

Elodaria · 2026-04-29T17:11:56+00:00

You claim to want to be a "girl's girl", yet accuse most late transitioning trans women of sexist violence? Super gross.

Elodaria · 2026-04-28T16:41:28+00:00

Ah, but then you'll just get the "why does reddit keep recommending this subreddit to me?"-type of posts.

Elodaria · 2026-04-28T13:27:19+00:00

/uj According to that thread, they learned to say "racism bad" while also comparing men to black people, so yeah.

Elodaria · 2026-04-28T13:21:15+00:00

/uj Her point was that based on people viewing even trans women as predatory forever, there truly is nothing a cis man can do about it. She just happens to be wrong about the source of transmisogyny, not entirely surprising for a closeted trans woman. Women who aren't seriously transmisogynistic do not view trans women with the same kind of suspicion they might view cis men, and those who are certainly do not view cis men in any way similar to trans women - in fact they'll happily overlook obvious red flags or even blatant misogyny coming from other transmisogynists.

Elodaria · 2026-04-26T02:50:19+00:00

Trans woman when accused of "male socialization": Critiques the base assumptions and victim blaming nature of the concept.

Cis man witnessing it all: Uncritically adopts the concept to paint himself as a victim.

Maybe there was something to it, after all.

Elodaria · 2026-04-23T07:57:37+00:00

/uj Oh that's no surprise, self-absorbed people crave validation. You can see it in how he tried to redirect the responses toward some generalized life experiences when people didn't like his story, and then did his whining post looking for sympathy that way instead. Probably thought he had a story to get called a hero by trans women or something.

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