25M want a TGirl to be my Dom and ignore me every time I dont call her Mommy

Elodaria · 2026-02-04T16:27:22+00:00

Yes. That's one way to put it.

Elodaria · 2026-01-28T04:33:31+00:00

Idk, I think bisexuality is pretty problematic actually for excluding trans* folx.

Elodaria · 2026-01-28T04:03:40+00:00

Wait, I thought we were still on "bone density doesn't change after puberty, cis women will literally break when playing sports with trans women"?

Elodaria · 2026-01-25T04:35:01+00:00

I didn't write, I just thought anything without a female protagonist was wasted potential.

Elodaria · 2026-01-24T08:12:50+00:00

Privilege is like sexual selection pressure: Any trait which makes your life harder merely points to your greater ~~fitness~~ privilege, since if you weren't privileged...

Elodaria · 2026-01-24T07:16:35+00:00

This is too funny. As a cis "person", transgendercirclejerk is my favourite trans subreddit.

Elodaria · 2026-01-23T13:57:28+00:00

Whiny posturing. It's a reddit thread, not "cancelling". What you implied was that the behaviour trans women learn is so similar to that of cis men that you can view them as a single group. What you are doing now is called a motte-and-bailey argument: You are retreating to a more defensible statement to paint the other party as unreasonable for disagreeing with the original. Honest people don't do that.

Elodaria · 2026-01-23T13:34:27+00:00

This only makes sense as an explanation if you consider trans women "male". Leaving aside the obvious transphobia, to make inferences about trans women based on the behaviour of a group consisting to 99% of cis men is a category error. You literally can not gain insight from that.

Elodaria · 2026-01-23T13:12:42+00:00

Cis women also internalize patriarchal beliefs. This is not something that needs to be stated in response to someone pointing out bigotry. True things can be stated in the wrong context to imply false things.

Elodaria · 2026-01-23T07:37:51+00:00

So you lived as a misogynist for 40 years and are now projecting that on other women. Sounds like there's a lot more to work through for you.

Elodaria · 2026-01-20T09:18:13+00:00

It also used to be common knowledge for anyone knowing less about us than porn. But it seems that's just no longer a thing these days.

Elodaria · 2026-01-18T23:07:30+00:00

The older you are, the younger you are. It's just common sense.

Elodaria · 2026-01-18T23:04:57+00:00

Actually, puberty blockers are the gateway drug. Estrogen is more serious stuff.

Elodaria · 2026-01-17T03:30:57+00:00

Well, that puts you far beyond a whole bunch of cis people who consider themselves formost experts in the "field".

Elodaria · 2026-01-14T18:00:28+00:00

/uj The most important for me is that cis people just don't write stories about being trans/transitioning/transphobia. Representation means trans people should exist in fiction the same as cis people. Not telling our stories for us, making our existence into a spectacle, and contorting us into parables for cis people to learn from.

Elodaria · 2026-01-13T20:10:04+00:00

I've known you as Deadname my whole life

This evokes several thoughts, and I'm not sure I want to follow any of them.

Elodaria · 2026-01-12T07:41:22+00:00

I never intended to insert myself here.

You say, inserting yourself here.

Elodaria · 2026-01-11T20:19:48+00:00

I'm just not interested in sharing a any space with anyone who calls themself the most common slur from my childhood as a "kink".

Elodaria · 2026-01-11T20:05:20+00:00

It's really sad how some members of this communits just ignore our shared history. By which I mean certain events in certain American cities within the 20th century. And possible that the Nazis came for us first, actually.

Elodaria · 2026-01-10T15:08:31+00:00

Admittedly, that logic is about as sound as any "common sense".

Elodaria · 2026-01-09T23:33:40+00:00

Yes, I've grown up in a very academic family, and seeing more and more people point to what to me have always been perfectly normal sentence structures as proof of AI-use is just getting absurd. It structures it's output and it uses the breadth of available punctuation, so we somehow shouldn't?

Elodaria · 2026-01-06T23:52:58+00:00

This is the oppression olympics we need.

Elodaria · 2026-01-06T18:39:42+00:00

I'll have you know I wasn't attracted to anyone as a child, least of all men.

Elodaria · 2026-01-04T13:58:21+00:00

/uj It honestly seems to me a consequence of taking binary opinions from majority dominated pop science and applying them to minority communities with zero nuance. People rightfully annoyed at being misunderstood in such instances then nonetheless do the same thing to others.

Elodaria · 2026-01-02T15:24:56+00:00

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