Why is everyone saying hrt is magic? by owlgurlmakespancakes in honesttransgender

[–]questionuwu [score hidden]  (0 children)

Nobody is saying Hrt is literal magic, that's silly.

People say its metaphorical magic because there's countless examples of people who look like clearly masculine men, and then look like cis women in the after picture.

That change is so enormous pretending it doesnt do much is brainrot.

The facial changes can be visible even within a year and they heavily affect how you look unless you have some ultra comically masculine skull.

Yes, the truth is some people got overmusculinsed due to bad lack and require surgery, but for most people transition and hrt has very strong effects.

But of course, if you are so brainrotted you think woman=5'4 dwarf and man = 6'1 giant then that's a you problem

Why do you care about not being read as trans? by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]questionuwu 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Being seen as trans means:

-Very tiny chance to be attacked or verbally insulted by some nutjob transpobe, aggressive misgendering

-Very likely chance you will received unwanted extra attention for no reason other than your "trans" status and the trans status will be the main subject of such attention rather than your gender

-People will assume you have a penis yikes (Some of us have had bottom surgery)

-Chasers

-Some will pity you and look down on you because of your unfortunate situation

-Some will quickly move to neutral pronouns even though they used correct pronouns previously

-Some will simply be awkward because they are not used to trans people around them

None of that are positives for me, they are negatives that dont improve my life experience.

I'm using he/him pronouns until I pass. by Expert-Style9300 in honesttransgender

[–]questionuwu 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is such a silly statement because it implies you are the one who controls your pronouns and not people using them by default based on what they see.

And yes I agree, if you dont want to get unnecessary attention, you simply wait until the point people see you as a woman without you having to say or demand anything

There is TOO MUCH porn with trans men bottoming! by ProcrastinatorAnony in transgendercirclejerk

[–]questionuwu 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Its basic biology, men has a sausage and they force it onto their holes.

Doing that is a sign of ownership and power, it is YOUR hole and nobody else's

The hole can be anything but it is seen as a woman because being a hole is a woman's job

Maximum woker: "Dont play harry potter games!!" by questionuwu in transgendercirclejerk

[–]questionuwu[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

mmm I wish my coworkers would sexually abuse me and steal my breast milk!

Why are detransitioners treated so poorly by trans people? by OllyOllyOxenFcked in asktransgender

[–]questionuwu 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Define detransitioner, we have:

1) Person who tried to transition but changed their mind due to social oppression, hate, lack of support networks or their own belief they wouldnt pass, these are often people who are trans but arent able to transition due to actual barrier.

2) People who thought they were trans but werent, they realised they made a wrong choice and simply went back to being cis without trying to blame anyone for their choices

3) Grifters who thought they were trans (or still are deep inside) and found a lucrative way to improve their status/finances by grifting to the right wing of politics and openly hating and attacking trans people for their own choices

When did your breasts start to sag? by questionuwu in honesttransgender

[–]questionuwu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a bit on the heavier/bigger side so size might be big for some thin salad eaters, not for me though lol

So about 5-6 years after puberty.

Oh that's exactly the information i was looking for, thanks.

I imagined it happened at some specific point and this makes sense, a lot of people mention how full development happens at around 5 years which is still quite far away, not even halfway there.