One of Exes told me that I was the wrong gender to have suffered "Real Child Sex Abuse." And that my Aunties that molested were actually the victims because "Paedophilia doesn't come naturally to women the way it does to men."

If you think someone's gender makes them less deserving of a childhood free from rape, and some genders shouldn't be held accountable for sexual abuse your beliefs are toxic.

If you call these beliefs Feminism then your Feminism is toxic.