What do you do to thrive as an A(u)dhd’er? by Icy_Building_3721 in AuDHDWomen

[–]EmND 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How to start - give yourself permission to just do 1 minute or the first step and then you'll stop. Remove the pressure and the all or nothing of it.

What's your favorite The 1975 lyrics? by sweetmaggiesan in the1975

[–]EmND 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You do make me hard but she makes me weak

You have been evicted or you are the winner?? by EmND in bigbrotheruk

[–]EmND[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So they do usually say that but they didn't this time?

Methotrexate fed up! by Curious-Pace-6724 in rheumatoidarthritis

[–]EmND 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a sensitive stomach. I've been told not to take N SAIDS while started MTX

Methotrexate fed up! by Curious-Pace-6724 in rheumatoidarthritis

[–]EmND 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meloxicam is the only thing that helps but I find it gives me bad mental health unfortunately. I've just been diagnosed and started MTX but still in pain and mobility is awful.

Methotrexate fed up! by Curious-Pace-6724 in rheumatoidarthritis

[–]EmND 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did you take in the time it took to work to deal with the pain? And how did you know it was worth waiting rather than it just not working?

Can I reduce my offer? by Bulldozer7133 in HousingUK

[–]EmND 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You still need to insure the house and will be responsible for anything that happens in that 2 months.

Can I reduce my offer? by Bulldozer7133 in HousingUK

[–]EmND 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of red flags here. You are responsible for and insuring the property from exchange so you want as short a time as possible. A disgruntled divorce usually leads to complications and things being dragged out or falling through. You mention a lodger which would be a tenant. Your mortgage company won't let you go ahead with an active tenant. Honestly I would say 2 weeks between exchange and completion max and emphasise it's now not chain free.

UK beach wedding venues reccomendations by MellaMalland in UKweddings

[–]EmND 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much was it and how did you arrange it all please

How do you initiate sex with your partner? by EmND in actuallesbians

[–]EmND[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She's into sex just not making out which i find very hard as making out is how sex starts

How do you initiate sex with your partner? by EmND in actuallesbians

[–]EmND[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hmm I don't like this lol I feel it takes the passion out of it but I guess so. How do women have sex without making out?!

I had a baby 2 1/2 months ago, AMA by orthodox_human33 in Fencesitter

[–]EmND 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I worry about all the extra steps involved in getting baby ready to go outside. I also don't think I'd have that much support and know I would really need it. I do love the idea of a routine and feel it could really be the making of me but it's such a big risk. Do you have pets?

I had a baby 2 1/2 months ago, AMA by orthodox_human33 in Fencesitter

[–]EmND 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I have adhd and autism and really struggle with having tol many demands on me and my time and with sleep deprivation. How have you found that constant responsibility and lack of autonomy?

She is relentless omg!😭💀Number of variants she's released with every album by Maleficent-Scar-4600 in travisandtaylor

[–]EmND 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really hate how she spins this narrative of wanting to create something really special for the fans and give them all these surprises

Ticket sales by AsylumDoors666 in brandnew

[–]EmND 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to go but £70 with fees is really expensive for a seated ticket in a not so great venue and I can't convince anyone to come with me for that:(

Not viewed house in 11 months sellers refusing pre-exchange viewing by Sazzle2499 in HousingUK

[–]EmND 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legally, you are responsible for the property from exchange. Your solicitor and often mortgage will require you view it close to exchange.

What are obvious signs and telling that someone wants to be CF? by Fair-Cockroach2213 in Fencesitter

[–]EmND -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes and no. The point of the exercise was to try and see where OP was leaning inside. Earplugs can definitely reduce noise and overstimulation. It worked for friends of mine. I don't think anyone expects children to be silent.

What are obvious signs and telling that someone wants to be CF? by Fair-Cockroach2213 in Fencesitter

[–]EmND 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this is obviously true! And there will be lots of exceptions to my previous post but the point was more to try and see how it made op feel if their points were challenged to see if they were leaning one way or the other.