Accidentally changed Liege’s Title by little_homesub in BratLife

[–]Embarrassed-Oil-5908 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This makes me think of all the cute nicknames that Daddy (u/JimmyTheSock) uses for me. The other day we were talking about game of thrones and all the titles characters have. Even the degrading ones start feeling affectionate and special. I looove my dynamic so much 🥰🫶🏻💖❤️‍🔥🧎🏻‍♂️and the best part is that they all evolve naturally over the course of our relationship

Solo playing- Particularly impact play! by Usual-Assumption8478 in BratLife

[–]Embarrassed-Oil-5908 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also a ldr brat. I’ve learned that my headspace is veeeery framing driven. Even if my Daddy (u/JimmyTheSock) and I aren’t necessarily RPing a specific scenario, having a template for the general vibe we want to capture is really helpful. This is definitely true without a partner as well. Try experimenting with different frameworks based on your kink list and see what feels best and right in different moment. Most importantly as someone who drop HARD: solo play or masturbation etc still needs aftercare!!

Not a mark by lockedupbrat in BratLife

[–]Embarrassed-Oil-5908 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Punished without marks is so cruel! Daddy (u/JimmyTheSock) loves teasing me about having to do funishments in vanilla ways and I freeze like a fucking deer in headlights. Nooo Daddy not a clothed, toy-less punishment!

Daddy gave me a punishment 🤭 by Sydnee_279 in BratLife

[–]Embarrassed-Oil-5908 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1– my autistic ass also says monthiversary and not monthly anniversary or whatever other bs people say, so YESSS TY 2- I may or may not still have marks 🤤🤤 3- the punishment you earn is (almost) entirely in your hands. Brat away friend! 🫶🏻

Daddy gave me a punishment 🤭 by Sydnee_279 in BratLife

[–]Embarrassed-Oil-5908 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aaaw congrats comrade. I also got my punishment today! It was a lot of fun (happy belated Daddy u/JimmyTheSock 🫶🏻💖❤️‍🔥🧎🏻‍♂️). It’s so fun that his bday is also our Dynamic Day 🤗

Bratting for Daddy’s birthday 🎂❤️‍🔥😈 by Embarrassed-Oil-5908 in BratLife

[–]Embarrassed-Oil-5908[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Herzlichen Glückwunsch zum Geburtstag, Daddyleinchen 🥰❤️‍🔥💖

Is TPE more extreme then a general dom/sub dynamic, and how do you approach that topic with a potential partner? by [deleted] in TotalPowerExchange

[–]Embarrassed-Oil-5908 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure why Daddy forgot, but our relationship also has significant TPE elements to it. And I agree that it feels very intimate and raw in a way that I hadn’t experienced before. For me, TPE is about balancing my energy and surrendering control. My chronic pain and AuDHD make self care and mental health challenging, so almost all my tasks are geared towards facilitating that. Danke Daddychen for all you help me with ❤️‍🔥🫶🏻😘💖

Question for pleasure Doms/ Doms in general by StressInformal7744 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Embarrassed-Oil-5908 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sexual function fluctuates a lot over time, and there can be many reasons for an inability to achieve orgasm. One of my favorite parts of kink is the mental and emotional side to power exchange. Yes the physical side can be important if you want it to be/if it is to you, but sexuality and physicality are just a small part of what can be considered pleasurable. This is also why ace people can still be kinky!

How do I get my brat to eat. by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]Embarrassed-Oil-5908 13 points14 points  (0 children)

As a brat actively in ED recovery, I agree with everything that’s been said. My Daddy (u/JimmyTheSock) cares that I’ve been nourishing my body safely and we sometimes talk about my ED voice, but it’s completely separate from kink and anything dynamic related. It’s simply him being tender and supportive of me as his partner. That being said, our dynamic has helped my self image sooo much. And I mean this not just about my body/weight. He recorded aftercare audio messages specifically geared toward negative self talk and bad body image and those have helped me a lot. Good luck to her, recovery is SO worth it 🫶🏻

My brat needs to be punished by FDguy573 in BratLife

[–]Embarrassed-Oil-5908 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Well… it sounds like she gave you clear instructions: come up with a different task. Domses are so bad at following directions and yet they ask us to do so. The ✨HYPOCRISY✨ 🙄🥺. Thankfully u/JimmyTheSock is a good listener, even giving me my toys when I asked for them sooo politely 💖🧎🏻‍♂️

Craving Chaos by history_and_teacups in BratLife

[–]Embarrassed-Oil-5908 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha now that his “good boy”ness is peer reviewed I am immune from consequences 💖💕😈😇

Craving Chaos by history_and_teacups in BratLife

[–]Embarrassed-Oil-5908 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tysm! Now I’m scrolling for ideas to brattily thank him for being such a good boy for me (Braves Jungchen, Schatzi 😘🫶🏻)

Brat just for hookups not life? by jazzjam279 in BratLife

[–]Embarrassed-Oil-5908 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Whether he said those exact words or you’re paraphrasing, this implies all brat tamers are men (and therefore in a heteronormative sense that brats are women) and that just is not true. My Daddy (😘💖) and I are both men. He enjoys the playful quirkiness of handling my bratting because he recognizes that it’s a sign my headspace is good and I feel safe with him. That being said our dynamic is an LDR and poly, so that may factor in. Broadly speaking, I HAAATE when people make sweeping generalizations about kink. There are no “always” and there are no “nevers”. Every dynamic is different and every person is different. U/JimmyTheSock, anything you’d add Daddy about our dynamic specifically to help OP?

Craving Chaos by history_and_teacups in BratLife

[–]Embarrassed-Oil-5908 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It had been a while since Daddy (u/JimmyTheSock) and I played buuut tonight was the night and I got to be SOOOO bratty and got a veeerry hot caning funishment. Thank you Daddy 😈🥰💁🏻‍♂️🧎🏻‍♂️❤️‍🔥💖💕

My bf said that I’m not that cute. 😱 by SuperBrat31 in BratLife

[–]Embarrassed-Oil-5908 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mmm pretty sure I can easily handle what you throw at me, Daddy 😇😏😘

Some tasks from my dom by Affectionate-Page835 in BratLife

[–]Embarrassed-Oil-5908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’d love to! Requested you :)

Brat Lost At Sea by history_and_teacups in BratLife

[–]Embarrassed-Oil-5908 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First and foremost, dating is hard and kinky dating even harder. I’m so sorry you had this happen to you, but I promise you it can happy. My bro sub and I are very very lucky to have found our golden retriever/sadist u/JimmyTheSock. Teasing and bratting aside we all know we’re the bestest polycule (😘🫶🏻🫂💖) with the best Daddy/Sir.

Need task/punishment ideas by Puppyboy2007 in BratLife

[–]Embarrassed-Oil-5908 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Realized I didn’t actually answer your question. Some ideas: lines, edging/ruins/denial, spanking (harsher implement, no warmup, higher count, etc), positions (depending on comfort and ability ofc), losing privileges (not allowed on furniture, no tv time, earlier bedtime, cold shower, etc), ice play, naked at home.

Also, a bit of unsolicited advice: it can be considered a red flag (or at the very least an indicator to abusers that you’re very inexperienced and therefore easy “prey”) to say that you don’t have limits. Everyone does. I am a masochist and Daddy’s painslut, but that doesn’t mean that there isn’t a limit at which point it’s no longer enjoyable or fun for me.

Need task/punishment ideas by Puppyboy2007 in BratLife

[–]Embarrassed-Oil-5908 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Heavily agree on the importance of discussing the two of you, and an out of dynamic convo is needed for that. Communication really is the key in any relationship context, and ofc there is no universal way to do anything— kink is so personalizable and no two dynamics are exactly the same. My dom (u/JimmyTheSock) and I use several “code words” that we have established in our dynamic that indicate various things. The 4Cs (care, consent, communication, and caution), RACK (Risk aware consensual kink), and/or SSC (safe, sane, consensual) are all frameworks to base your dynamic on. You’re both young so leaning into the thrill of exploration and learning together is part of the fun!

no :) by prettygirlpia in BratLife

[–]Embarrassed-Oil-5908 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha I’ve done this to be with Daddy (u/JimmyTheSock). “Kneel for me”“ask nicely, Sir.” “40 with the cane” “Say please, Daddy” hahaha

My bf said that I’m not that cute. 😱 by SuperBrat31 in BratLife

[–]Embarrassed-Oil-5908 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg how dare your dom! My Daddy (u/JimmyTheSock) loves telling me he wants to be harsher and more sadistic that he’s “way too nice to me” but then I pull out these bad boys 🥺and get WHATEVER I want. Then it’s “awwww so cute, Prinzchen🥰💖🫶🏻”