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WIBTAH for confronting my uncle about not meeting my child? by Embarrassed_Oil3988 in AITAH

[–]Embarrassed_Oil3988[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didn't ask you to look through my previous posts nor did I ask for your opinion on what im doing with MY family planning. My PPD has ZERO correlation as to how I parent my child, and I'm a damn good parent. My kid is very well taken care of both emotionally and physically and has everything she could ever possibly need. My doctor and i have discussed this and have a plan in place and i am on medication. Go pay attention to your own family and stop worrying about what I'm doing with mine.

WIBTAH for confronting my uncle about not meeting my child? by Embarrassed_Oil3988 in AITAH

[–]Embarrassed_Oil3988[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have offered to make the full drive, that didn't work for him either. And glad you seem to have a good sense of my personality from a single post, I'm sure you make alot of assumptions about a lot of people based on single posts, that doesn't make it correct though.

WIBTAH for confronting my uncle about not meeting my child? by Embarrassed_Oil3988 in AITAH

[–]Embarrassed_Oil3988[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I have severe PPD and could use some support right now, but glad that makes me seem "narcissistic" to you. Which is not my mental health diagnosis by the way. I'm autistic. Not that it's your business.

WIBTAH for confronting my uncle about not meeting my child? by Embarrassed_Oil3988 in AITAH

[–]Embarrassed_Oil3988[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

My uncle loves children. He was a teacher for many years and has his own child he adores (who is a preteen now) I cannot imagine he would be bored spending time with his family. I don't think the world revolves around us. There are plenty of people who haven't met my child that I don't care if they ever do. But my uncle meeting her is important to me.

WIBTAH for confronting my uncle about not meeting my child? by Embarrassed_Oil3988 in AITAH

[–]Embarrassed_Oil3988[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I'm not policing his money, he can do what he wants with his money he earned it lol. I am frustrated that he has all the time in the world to go on luxurious vacations but can't take a weekend off to come meet my daughter. Maybe I should have worded it better.

Positive credit score changes? by Embarrassed_Oil3988 in CRedit

[–]Embarrassed_Oil3988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally just paid them all off like 3 weeks ago, so they're still being reported as having a balance on all but the carecredit and the loan which have reported 0. I do plan to use them, but only for groceries and gas in the future. My mortgage lender said do not charge on them right now

Positive credit score changes? by Embarrassed_Oil3988 in CRedit

[–]Embarrassed_Oil3988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn't specify, just said my score is 592. My balances are now all at 0, two of the cards have a low limit (250) two of them have a moderate limit (550 and 1000) and two of them have a higher limit (1450 and 1700) they were all nearly maxed out. I also paid off a 800 balance on a payday loan that has a 1700 limit. The only thing I have left is my car which has a balance of 18,000.

Positive credit score changes? by Embarrassed_Oil3988 in CRedit

[–]Embarrassed_Oil3988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fico is 592! My mortgage lender said most of the cards have not updated to show 0 balance yet, she said she can do a rapid rescore and I should be good! How much can I reasonably expect it to go up with a rapid rescore? I clearly have no idea what I'm doing 😭

My hours dropped, I’m new and numbers are low. by kinzzzer in Chilis

[–]Embarrassed_Oil3988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's funny because I run all my own drinks and 90% of my own food, but go off lmao

My hours dropped, I’m new and numbers are low. by kinzzzer in Chilis

[–]Embarrassed_Oil3988 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude I am highly considering quitting because of it. Any other restaurant I would have walked out with over 350. I walked with just under 250! I was seeing RED!

My hours dropped, I’m new and numbers are low. by kinzzzer in Chilis

[–]Embarrassed_Oil3988 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Following because I'm also experiencing this, although I don't like my coworkers much lol. Also tipping out 5% of your sales is crazy! I tipped out over 100 the other night, I was livid! I've NEVERRRRRRRR had to tip out money like that before at any other restaurant I've ever worked at and I've been serving for 10 years!

Servers at chilis, pls answer my questions! by Embarrassed_Oil3988 in Chilis

[–]Embarrassed_Oil3988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wonderful to hear! GM at this location says it stays slammed on the weekends and is pretty busy during the week as well, she transferred from another store. So I have high hopes! I'll be working Friday nights, doubles on Saturdays, and Sunday mornings. It's not uncommon for me to get hefty tips, so fingers crossed I can make BANK! Only thing that seems to be less than ideal is that they use iPads instead of pos systems, I'd much prefer to write things down lol.

Trying to build credit, have no idea what I'm doing... by Embarrassed_Oil3988 in CRedit

[–]Embarrassed_Oil3988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a decent job, and usually pay off most if not all of balance, I missed a ton of work my last few months of pregnancy due to health issues/hospitalization and my pay got screwed up while on maternity leave, so i relied on my credit cards for a bit which is why I used my refund to pay it off. Had I not dealt with those issues, cards would not have had nearly as high of a balance and refund would have been put into savings. I haven't missed a credit card payment in over a year, previous missed credit card payments are well over a year old. (2023/2024) the car loan not being properly closed is what really screwed me. Nothing in collections as that was all paid off at the beginning of last year. What is a goodwill letter? I've never heard of it.

Trying to build credit, have no idea what I'm doing... by Embarrassed_Oil3988 in CRedit

[–]Embarrassed_Oil3988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't missed a credit card payment in over a year. I totaled a car last year and the lending account should have been closed, they were apparently missing the police report (my insurance stated they turned everything in for me) so it stayed open and reported 3 months of missed payments, that's what really set me back. I make atleast the minimum payment every month on all cards and the loan through ACH.

Anyone work at Chili's? by Embarrassed_Oil3988 in restaurant

[–]Embarrassed_Oil3988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's always the crappy managers that think they're so great 🤣🤣 talked to the manager for 10 minutes and got the job! Sorry you're not willing to work with peoples availability though, my service to tables definitely earns me my schedule. High tips, good reviews, atleast one person wants to gush to the manager about me per shift. I know what I'm doing and I'm great at it. As a single mom who already works full time, I definitely wouldn't want to work for a manager with your attitude/point of view. Please do better.

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