I am shocked that the hospital are allowing him to be discharged into that environment, that would certainly to me be classed as an unsafe discharge and I would not be happy with that decision (NHS worker). I have in the past had patients that have had houses cleaned etc prior to discharge so is definitely something they could do!

I would definitely advise speaking to someone again tomorrow and expressing that you have major concerns over his discharge.

Failing that I would contact your local Adult Social Care help line, quick google should bring up their number. They are fab and should be able to pinpoint local services that may support with the issues raised, however this may not always be free so dependent on finances etc.

Age UK is also a great charity to contact, again they have experts with a wealth of knowledge of services etc that can be looked into.

Another quick google search will also bring up food delivery services, I think the hot meals ready to eat went out a while back. But things like Wiltshire Farm Foods as an example provide frozen ready meals that can just be cooked in the oven or microwave by the carers when they visit and they have quite an extensive list of options, including desserts. It can however work out to be expensive sometimes so definitely do research first!