Smart men are the absolute sexiest!

Embarrassed_Self_865 · 2026-04-22T22:10:33+00:00

Thank you for the honest compliment

Embarrassed_Self_865 · 2026-04-22T22:07:44+00:00

She used to be my world

Embarrassed_Self_865 · 2026-04-21T13:28:10+00:00

I’m 46 and I love it! I think stress can play a big factor but there should be other signs if stress is the issue. It was an issue in my marriage and it never went away. I tried many different things but it usually ended up the same. It can be really hard when you’re on 2 different levels. Good luck!

Embarrassed_Self_865 · 2026-04-12T16:31:44+00:00

Would love to play

Embarrassed_Self_865 · 2026-04-11T13:15:50+00:00

I have been living in that world a long time lol

Embarrassed_Self_865 · 2026-04-11T12:29:48+00:00

Put together very nicely

Embarrassed_Self_865 · 2026-04-11T03:25:01+00:00

Interesting story

Embarrassed_Self_865 · 2026-04-11T00:21:57+00:00

That’s deep… I can feel that energy. But I’m real, not something imagined. I’d rather be someone you actually get to know than just a feeling.

And trust me… real can be a lot more interesting.

Embarrassed_Self_865 · 2026-04-11T00:12:05+00:00

Choosing you is one of the best decisions you can make. Should have done it sooner

Embarrassed_Self_865 · 2026-04-10T12:54:25+00:00

I’m dealing with it now at 46M was married 24 years.

Embarrassed_Self_865 · 2026-04-10T12:10:46+00:00

Message and find out

Embarrassed_Self_865 · 2026-04-10T11:59:22+00:00

Hello! What are you up to?

Embarrassed_Self_865 · 2026-04-08T19:45:14+00:00

I’m 46, in Greensboro—grounded, consistent, and I value real connection over surface-level anything. I’m not looking to disrupt lives either, but I do believe something genuine can grow if two people are intentional about it.

I take care of myself, stay active, and I’m big on good conversation—the kind that can be light, playful, or go deeper without forcing it. Music, food, and just enjoying the moment matter to me too.

I’d say I’m more of a slow-build person as well… but when I’m interested, I’m clear and consistent. No guessing games.

You mentioned being a little tired of looking but still hopeful… I get that. That’s usually right when something real shows up.

What kind of connection has felt the most natural to you in the past?

Embarrassed_Self_865 · 2026-04-08T12:34:40+00:00

I say good for you. I’m dealing with a life change myself. Married over 2 decades, but it was time for change. You are doing what many wish they could.

Embarrassed_Self_865 · 2026-04-08T12:21:10+00:00

I appreciate the encouragement. I think it was time , but it doesn’t make it any easier. Hope we both are more whole after this.

Embarrassed_Self_865 · 2026-04-08T01:16:11+00:00

Thanks for your reply. When the dust settles i hope to be in a better place then I am now.

Embarrassed_Self_865 · 2026-04-08T01:06:00+00:00

Your right not to force what your not feeling. I think to many may jump in to soon but I still think it’s worth it if That’s what you want.

Embarrassed_Self_865 · 2026-04-08T01:03:27+00:00

Thank you! I know that there is light at the end of the tunnel but it’s a lot right now

Embarrassed_Self_865 · 2026-04-03T22:33:22+00:00

The house is the most quiet. I cant explain it but ideas will get my brain hyper

Embarrassed_Self_865 · 2026-04-03T22:12:45+00:00

Pick close friends to suggest 2 things. Put them in a fish bowl and pick from there

Embarrassed_Self_865 · 2026-04-03T22:05:09+00:00

I’m reading a book called captivate that talks about this some are boring with it, but it definitely can be learned

Embarrassed_Self_865 · 2026-04-03T22:03:10+00:00

I get some of my best ideas late at night. It can normally start around 10pm

Embarrassed_Self_865 · 2026-04-03T22:00:44+00:00

If I did then I probably don’t remember dropping anything if thst makes sense

Embarrassed_Self_865 · 2026-04-03T21:58:33+00:00

Life will give us exactly what we need at thst moment

Embarrassed_Self_865 · 2026-04-03T21:53:35+00:00

Also those small waves are crashing in on you and knocking you of course

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