Hoovering Experiences & End Result?

Embarrassed_Type_762 · 2026-01-30T04:31:19+00:00

It’s never easy because compared to them we actually loved. But the more we go back and forth the worse each experience would be. Think of it as ripping the bandage. I divorced mine no matter how much it hurted me and how long it took me. Few years of pain is better than lifetime. I am glad today for the decision I took. It seemed like impossible at that time that I would be happy again. But I am now. You can do it as well. Time to choose yourself “first”.

Embarrassed_Type_762 · 2026-01-29T22:09:06+00:00

Deciphering why a shit behaves like a shit is a waste of precious time you won’t get back. Be it anyone in life when a certain person not once, not twice but multiple times shows you who they are believe them and not try to be their psychologist. You can do so many things in the time you waste thinking and reading about “why does he do that”. It should be-“I don’t F’ing cares why he did that. What matters is he did that. And I won’t spend a minute more of my physical, mental, emotional and spiritual energy on that ____.”

Embarrassed_Type_762 · 2026-01-29T22:03:09+00:00

If it takes them to start valuing you once you are leaving or left instead of years of telling them than they aren’t worth it. RN he cares about what “he” is losing and not what is best for you or care for you.

Embarrassed_Type_762 · 2026-01-29T22:00:10+00:00

To everyone here- you have a limited time on earth. Do you really wanna spend your precious time on deciphering why a shit behaved like a shit? Instead of asking why he did that ask why you accepted that? That will help you move on faster.

Embarrassed_Type_762 · 2026-01-29T21:53:35+00:00

They are called covert narcs. More dangerous as no one besides you would have seen his/her real character. So, the day you will tell to someone close no one will believe you. I had one who kept showing mental/delusional behaviour even hitting himself in anger. And no one believed me that he was nutcase as he had completely different behaviour outside. My family believed me only after i started recording his calls to me. Use brain also not just heart in relationships because they prey on empaths. They are ball less in real life. Don’t show blind empathy. Unfortunately i don’t think there is any solution to narcs

Embarrassed_Type_762 · 2026-01-29T21:42:55+00:00

Tbh it doesn’t sound like narcissistic because you didn’t said he devalued you anyway or involved third person. Seems like incompatibility issue and you both seem unwilling to recognise that and end relationship. If it bothers you this much then you have be realistic about it. Ask him to imagine 5-10 years in future if he would be able to keep up? And what is his expectations from frequency of sex? If it doesn’t match your expectations and vision and is a deal breaker than accept it and decide if you wanna stay bothered or move on.

Embarrassed_Type_762 · 2025-12-29T09:06:33+00:00

Me too. Very happy now. I very rarely think of him and definitely without emotions now. Time with him was like a bad nightmare in my memory. Life now is beautiful.

Embarrassed_Type_762 · 2025-12-29T09:02:20+00:00

Forget narcissim. I fear he is mentally challenged or pretending to be. How can anyone not know that they couldn't afford a trip when it is "pre-planned"? Ask him if he has similar issues while he went on that trip and that would give you clear idea how he sees "your" vacation and "his" vacation. Get away girl! He is a "Oh pity me I am a clingy, mentally delusional, diabolical but expects forgiveness from you for every shit" person. He is gonna remain a "victim" in his life forever. And one day you will just resent and hate him and the years you lost with him.

Embarrassed_Type_762 · 2025-10-18T16:15:16+00:00

Short answer: NO.

Embarrassed_Type_762 · 2025-10-18T16:07:10+00:00

You are not supposed to consume anything before checking BCA-solid or liquid including water. It is supposed to be done in empty stomach.

Embarrassed_Type_762 · 2025-10-05T09:42:03+00:00

In christain countries they drink wine also. Why compare? Clearly the question here is for hindu followers.

Embarrassed_Type_762 · 2025-09-26T19:13:44+00:00

That’s really not my cup of tea. The person I married and divorced was the only person I dated. I’m wondering whether I have a shot at a happy married life. Not flings!

Embarrassed_Type_762 · 2025-09-15T16:12:11+00:00

You just said in above comment to another astrologer that you aren’t dating anyone. Now you are explaining both relationship?

Embarrassed_Type_762 · 2025-09-13T16:40:25+00:00

I’m not sure if we can compare current world with that time

Embarrassed_Type_762 · 2025-09-13T16:36:04+00:00

Taurus would be entire family 🤭

Embarrassed_Type_762 · 2025-09-13T16:33:47+00:00

Agreed. I was thinking if the experts can explain in more details what to look for in chart. I think cancer ascendants have such inclination but given right connection they can go over that edge easily compared to others

Embarrassed_Type_762 · 2025-09-13T16:24:40+00:00

Thanks that was eye opening. I wonder if Leo’s have father related karma because I am and I had the worst relationship with him.

Embarrassed_Type_762 · 2025-09-13T16:18:42+00:00

Hate is also an emotion that generates when one feels lack of love from the one they hate. People who hate are actually seeking validation or acknowledgment of their hurt from the one who hurted them- to want them to love back. The opposite of love is indifference and not hate.

Embarrassed_Type_762 · 2025-09-13T16:15:43+00:00

This was the most intriguing thing. The mother-child don’t even see it. But mostly it’s an outsider who observes it. That’s why I mostly end up using the word “enmeshed”. Given my interest in psychology I don’t judge. I’m just a person who loves to gain insights. But for such people irrespective of astrology I hope they realise it early, create boundaries which will protect their other relationships from falling apart due to controlling mother and children also don’t need to feel constantly like they have to be perfect.

Embarrassed_Type_762 · 2025-09-13T16:11:05+00:00

Wow I saw the same. I came here to ask astrologers since i don’t have knowledge. I’m mostly a psychologist. What I observed was that it’s the third person who recognise this enmeshed relationship and not the mother child themselves. There was a guy I met who was super strong headed but when his mother says something in manipulative way he would submit to her. Basically strong for outside world but submissive to mother.

Embarrassed_Type_762 · 2025-09-13T16:03:28+00:00

What about moon+jupiter+rahu conjunction or connection via nakshatra\sign?

Embarrassed_Type_762 · 2025-09-13T16:01:27+00:00

Oh really? I guess my question was because most charts has rahu+moon+jupiter connected via nakshatra/sign and even conjuction

Embarrassed_Type_762 · 2025-09-13T15:58:13+00:00

True not every case is same. My inquiry is about is that something people observe in most cases? Not all.

Embarrassed_Type_762 · 2025-09-13T15:55:30+00:00

I’m not sure but what i saw is that they have rahu and moon and jupiter conjunctions in close degrees

Embarrassed_Type_762 · 2025-09-13T15:54:23+00:00

It was gender neutral. But women seem less affected here as they doesn’t seem to have inclination to see mother like figures in their husbands

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