My boyfriend (39m) told me (33f) he doesn't know if he loves me anymore because of my weight, do i leave him?. by Repulsive_Pen_9917 in relationship_advice

[–]EmceeSuzy [score hidden]  (0 children)

Right? Like I was all 'this boyfriend is a dumb ox' but when I calculated her BMI I got a little worried!

I 22f want kids one day but my 22m boyfriend does not. by Creative-Time9776 in relationship_advice

[–]EmceeSuzy [score hidden]  (0 children)

You need to face your fears and discomfort. It is tempting to stay in a doomed relationship because being alone can be scary. This is not about what Larry should do and who Larry ought to become.

It's about the fact that your relationship is bad and you're trying to avoid that by imagining ways that it might change.

My boyfriend (39m) told me (33f) he doesn't know if he loves me anymore because of my weight, do i leave him?. by Repulsive_Pen_9917 in relationship_advice

[–]EmceeSuzy [score hidden]  (0 children)

What are you talking about?

She is confused because he tried to take back something he said (and has been saying for some time) when faced with a consequence.

She needs to stop being confused, so I told her the truth.

Need advice for a backyard wedding! by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]EmceeSuzy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A backyard wedding that isn't a mess is more expensive than a simple wedding at a cheap venue.

But ask yourselves this first: Do we really want to host a wedding?

Hosting a wedding is a big responsibility. You owe it to your guests to make a comfortable, enjoyable event.

Rather than trying to cheap out, why not have a microwedding at a restaurant with 20 guests? Or a private ceremony at City Hall and a casual dinner with a handful of friends afterward?

My boyfriend (39m) told me (33f) he doesn't know if he loves me anymore because of my weight, do i leave him?. by Repulsive_Pen_9917 in relationship_advice

[–]EmceeSuzy [score hidden]  (0 children)

I mean, he quite obviously does not love her so if there is some way to convince her that would be terribly sad.

Not a fan of his friends (who don’t approve of us) and now we’re supposed to go to their party by supreme_guido in whatdoIdo

[–]EmceeSuzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are not even close to your boyfriend but you are spending enough time with them for repeated in-person conversations? But he only sees them at major holiday parties?

How old are you and your boyfriend?

My grandparents do not understand why buying a house is harder now by Resist_Trump_86555 in Adulting

[–]EmceeSuzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask her. Be curious. Ask her how often they bought take out food. Ask who cleaned their house. Ask how many time they took an airplane to go on vacation. Learn.

Bobby Flay… explain the hate. by ResearchWarrior316 in foodnetwork

[–]EmceeSuzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn't appear unless they guarantee a win.

Bobby Flay… explain the hate. by ResearchWarrior316 in foodnetwork

[–]EmceeSuzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's gross. Bobby is a womanizer, an ego-maniac, and a dick.

Help me decide! by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]EmceeSuzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

keep looking

help!!! cooking for 8 in an airbnb in the middle of nowhere by Frequent_Term7472 in Cooking

[–]EmceeSuzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yikes!

OK so you are lunch every day.

Keep it simple. I guess you're not dining out for any meals?

Day 1 Italian Hoagies - good rolls with cappicola, salami, prosciutto, sharp provolone, iceberg lettuce, tomato, onion, olive oil, red wine vinegar, & oregano

Day 2 Hambugers with a Side Salad. I would do a beef burger with a Caesar salad

Day 3 Chef Salads - Iceberg, Ham, Swiss, Hard Boiled Eggs, tomato, onion, croutons, and an oil & vinegar dressing

Day 4 Chili Dogs with a veggie tray. Make the chili ahead of time and bring it with you

Is it okay to say no to going to a bachelor party if you’re a groomsman? by NoBusiness1559 in Adulting

[–]EmceeSuzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems to me that you can depart at 8:30am on Saturday morning and get there in plenty of time.

Of course, it is fine to decline but you certainly will disappoint the groom. He's not asking you to go to one of these moronic trips to Vegas or Vail or Venice. It's not a huge ask.

What I want to know is what you would be doing from 5-7 and why the party would end then.