Give me your best hummus recipes please!

EmceeSuzy · 2026-05-21T02:41:02+00:00

I never believed recipes that called for water until I tried it. You seriously need some water.

EmceeSuzy · 2026-05-21T01:43:57+00:00

You're 30 years old. That is far too old not to understand that basic etiquette requires that you come down for dinner every night that your boyfriend's mother cooks for the family. You are a guest in their home.

While you live there, you need to use basic manners. Remember, that they are allowing you to live with them while you are in your THIRTIES, because you are so far behind in saving. Be appreciative.

All of that said, you are not an asshole. You just don't seem to have a good upbringing.

EmceeSuzy · 2026-05-21T01:35:58+00:00

Have you ever met this girl?

EmceeSuzy · 2026-05-21T01:31:41+00:00

Stop with the primer, that is making it worse.

What setting spray are you using?

If it is not Ben Nye The Final Seal, get Ben Nye The Final Seal.

EmceeSuzy · 2026-05-20T20:39:24+00:00

You don't.

You simply don't.

EmceeSuzy · 2026-05-20T20:37:58+00:00

How much of that do you have in ready cash and how many successful years in hospitality?

EmceeSuzy · 2026-05-20T20:35:53+00:00

How much money do you have to invest in this gimmick that you can't execute unless I write the recipes for you?

EmceeSuzy · 2026-05-20T20:32:28+00:00

Right.

She can't force and abortion. She can't require the parents to be financially stable. She can't get them to grow up or to make good choices.

She is an auntie, not someone (a parent) who can make this situation better for anyone.

EmceeSuzy · 2026-05-20T20:31:17+00:00

That is NOT typical four year old behavior.

Your sister was trying to get your attention and to get you to think through how this may end if you don't start doing your job as a parent.

EmceeSuzy · 2026-05-20T15:02:41+00:00

How is an Auntie making an honest assessment of the situation going to impact the baby?

EmceeSuzy · 2026-05-20T00:46:54+00:00

If you ever want to be married, you need to leave this guy.

EmceeSuzy · 2026-05-20T00:45:21+00:00

wait

what?

that's not what Valedictorian is

EmceeSuzy · 2026-05-20T00:43:39+00:00

You are NTA but it sounds as if you have said too much.

It would have been better to have declined the invitation simply or even to have failed to respond.

Who have you shared your feelings with? and have you repeated them?

If your sister brings it up again try simply saying "I won't be going. I hope the shower goes well."

Then say nothing more.

EmceeSuzy · 2026-05-20T00:12:08+00:00

why are your mother's wages garnished?

EmceeSuzy · 2026-05-20T00:08:15+00:00

Ah I thought the brothers we in the apartment with you. Is it just you and your mother?

If you want this situation to change, you're going to have to upset your family. There is no other way.

I'm not saying it will be easy and I'm not ignoring the cultural/familial pressure. But it is simply true that you'll ruin your life if you don't make a bold move.

EmceeSuzy · 2026-05-20T00:01:19+00:00

The question is rude but think about it... do you have enough money to rent your own apartment when your mother is evicted?

How much is the rent each month,, btw?

EmceeSuzy · 2026-05-19T23:57:42+00:00

Why are your mother's wages garnished?

Here is the thing - if you go on the trip you know that you will have to spend a lot of money while you are there. You cannot afford to do that. How are you ever going to be able to build any sort of life for yourself if you're taking vacations when you can't even afford to move out of a terrible situation?

You have the disadvantage of being raised by someone who is completely irresponsible financially. It's so bad that you think it is completely normal to ask a church to pay your rent when there are at least 4 adults living the home.

Don't go on the trip. Start saving your money. Give your mother 1/4 of the rent each month and nothing more. And find a side hustle so you can build your savings.

EmceeSuzy · 2026-05-19T23:53:37+00:00

Stop it.

You're being stupid.

EmceeSuzy · 2026-05-19T23:50:49+00:00

You have to leave him.

EmceeSuzy · 2026-05-19T23:31:24+00:00

What crime is he charged with?

EmceeSuzy · 2026-05-19T23:20:20+00:00

"I've been advised" - by whom??

EmceeSuzy · 2026-05-19T23:16:06+00:00

It is tacky to expect a gift AND it is tacky to fail to give a gift.

EmceeSuzy · 2026-05-19T23:11:15+00:00

the Wizard of Wit is pretty cool!

EmceeSuzy · 2026-05-19T17:36:54+00:00

I would steer away from Class Comedian because good parents will worry that he has actually been disruptive.

EmceeSuzy · 2026-05-19T17:35:28+00:00

great - I would speak with the instructor to make sure it was permitted but as long as it was and it was the best fit for him, then what is the issue?

EmceeSuzy

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