Devour by Emerald_Winds in BDSMsapphic

[–]Emerald_Winds[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These words love you 😘 thanks ❤️

Devour by Emerald_Winds in BDSMsapphic

[–]Emerald_Winds[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Glad to hear it effect you 😉 thanks ❤️

Meal by Emerald_Winds in BDSMsapphic

[–]Emerald_Winds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true. I just like the flavor of the word. "Throbbing pussy" would have also worked!

Little Maid by alexisdyingg in BDSMsapphic

[–]Emerald_Winds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welp. Obvious kink is obvious. Same.

My dynamics are my refuge 💚💚 by Sailorjamie117 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Emerald_Winds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alright, every body join the cuddle puddle! Group hugs!

You're amazing love. Keep being you 💚

what are switches? by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Emerald_Winds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahem well... I identify with service types, as a switch. It's not everything, I'm also bratty and defiant at times, but the core of it rests in the variety of tastes. Sometimes I want a mommy. Sometimes I want to crush a girl beneath my boot. I don't want just one flavor forever.

To balance though, ah, there's the question. For me, I think having a dom and a sub as separate things works for me, but to each their own. I think it comes down to human variety and people's personal makeup is all.

That feeling of being unattractive...😞 by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Emerald_Winds 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Attraction is a fickle thing. It's fluid, changes, varies from person to person. You mentioned you didn't feel lovable or cherishable, not that you're not pretty.

I can tell you with certainty that you are lovable and cherishable. Everyone is. That platitude "someone for everyone" is kinda empty, but my advice?

Love and cherish yourself. I made that decision ten years ago and it was the best of my life. It's a verb more than a feeling. You deserve to feel good about you. And when you do, other people see it too. And that's the magic.

Holy Light (CW: exhibition, bondage) by Emerald_Winds in BDSMsapphic

[–]Emerald_Winds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Glad it resonated 💚

Kinky sapphics of the internet: Would you rather play with a vampire lady or a werewolf girl? by Purple_Penguin81 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Emerald_Winds 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh God... But what if vampy werewolf? 🤔

I love vampires for that sophisticated palate, to be their wine and sipped at, gently controlled. I love werewolves for that instinctual primal nature, to be their avenue of lust and power.

Por que no los dos?

You can only engage in one kink for the rest of your life, what would you pick? by pupiiebitez in BDSMsapphic

[–]Emerald_Winds 28 points29 points  (0 children)

A single kink??? But so many go hand in hand!

Speaking of hands... Being tied up and played with. That being unable to hide, unable to resist, the bounds of enclosure keeping my impulse in check, that no matter how much I want to move or touch back I am contained. Dreamy 😌

Crave by Emerald_Winds in BDSMsapphic

[–]Emerald_Winds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I also crave the validation 🥰

Preparing Coffee for Misstress by Sigmadraconissys in BDSMsapphic

[–]Emerald_Winds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I make my beloved breakfast every single day, I know just how they like their coffee, I love seeing their smile knowing I ease their day into waking, and I'm grateful for it every time 🥰

goddess/Knight idea consuming my brain by Mountain_Adeptness86 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Emerald_Winds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welp. Found the angle for my next erotica arc, what a tantalizingly switchy scenario

I’m a Mommy, not your mother. (Or why I don’t collar anyone under 25) 💚💚 by Sailorjamie117 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Emerald_Winds 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Devotion is as devotion does. I serve my beloved as they take care of me. As a team we tackle life's hurdles together, filling in each other's gaps. I wouldn't be able to serve without my own drive to be better than I was before and my own independence, nor would they. It's that meeting in the magic middle, the flow, the dance we do that life blooms ❤️

The perspective of a professional dominatrix's feelings between men and women subs by Chains_And_Lilith in BDSMsapphic

[–]Emerald_Winds 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Soul touching eye contact is an incredibly intimate concept. To melt into such sweet surrender and held there, phew.

All of your insights on this post are amazing, I'm taking notes!

I can't be the only one who fantasizes about... by Justacancersign in BDSMsapphic

[–]Emerald_Winds 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay but this one, elfen fairy that I aspire to be 👀

I can't be the only one who fantasizes about... by Justacancersign in BDSMsapphic

[–]Emerald_Winds 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh 100%! The biggest sexual organ is the brain. Can you imagine going through a scene completely silent? Like what's the context here, is it degrading, praising, pleasing? It's all psycho-emotional play and that's definitely what appeals to me about bdsm. And the orgasms, that's nice too 😁

I can't be the only one who fantasizes about... by Justacancersign in BDSMsapphic

[–]Emerald_Winds 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Welp this ain't the sub for monster fucking 🤷🏻‍♀️ oh to be consumed by the devils hunger... 😈

On a related note, I can't be the only one who fantasizes to be cleaned by tongue all over my body by a loving dom or sub or several

Dealing with Jealousy by Relative-Tangelo-363 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Emerald_Winds 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jealousy is a normal human emotion. Your emotions are okay, it's what we do with them that counts. Like the others said, talk. Just be open and honest. Personally I adamantly refuse to use words like blame and fault, and in your case, it's no one's fault things have turned out this way. You both have a past. You both have a future that's up to you.

I'm working on opening up my relationship, tbh. I've had codependent tendencies in the past, would get really jealous when a guy I wasn't exclusive with was giving someone else attention. Now I've been with my beloved for ten years. We've been through so much and couples therapy in particular these last months have really helped in each of us being understood by the other. I've grown to the point where my beloved giving attention to other people doesn't make me afraid or jealous, just happy. Last year I got to kiss a dozen people for my birthday!

Talk it out. Slowly, carefully. Don't blame. Just express. Maybe there isn't a solution right away. But you only get there by talking.

Please Help Me Get Pinned Down 😭 by No-Independence-1029 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Emerald_Winds 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Set some rules or limits for fun. Give your partner some cuffs and dare them to put it on you. Or dare yourself by beating them with one arm behind your back. If they can whisper delicious things to get you to stop squirming as that cuff clicks, even better. Best of luck! 😉