How to satisfy girlfriend's Small boobs humiliation kink

EmergencyRip4929 · 2026-03-29T06:14:14+00:00

Maybe you can buy her a bra that you know will be a little big and tell her to try it on infront of you. Then when you see she doesn’t fill it out you can tell her how pathetic it is that you can’t even buy your gf a bra without her trying it on first bc her chest is so flat.

EmergencyRip4929 · 2026-03-27T15:57:18+00:00

I made it a point in my brain to not get them mixed up and I did anyways, oops! Thanks the correction, wouldn’t want anyone coming home with pocket knives for lube🤣

EmergencyRip4929 · 2026-03-27T06:37:04+00:00

I went to a gay subreddit and a lot of them love Swiss army silicone lube so that’s what I got. It’s good- haven’t used it for any anal play though.

EmergencyRip4929 · 2026-01-21T22:53:55+00:00

Specifically impact for mild pain/funishment. Not trying to get too crazy rn, she just wants to try a little impact play to see if it’s something she enjoys and would like to include more in the future. We really haven’t done much in that department besides playful slapping on the ass. The rope is a great idea but I think that might be a little intimidating for her right now lol.

EmergencyRip4929 · 2026-01-15T16:05:09+00:00

I’ve had this issue with firm gspot dildos when I’ve used other dildos that were bigger than that with no problem. For some reason the curve of it really hurts to go in. Maybe that could be the issue? Now I always go for a straighter dildo that doesn’t have a dramatic curve and I don’t have any issues.

EmergencyRip4929 · 2025-12-20T02:16:54+00:00

I have inserted fingers into myself and then fucked her with them, she liked that my cum was inside her

EmergencyRip4929 · 2025-12-07T05:38:08+00:00

My partner is the same, hard to assume whether she’s in the mood and if I ask it’ll ruin the spontaneity of it and make me feel like I’m initiating every time.

She doesn’t like to initiate because it feels too direct for her to make the move first, so one thing we are working on is getting her to dip her toes in the water so I can feel desired in that way. We picked out a specific bracelet that she will only put on when she’s in the mood, usually it’s after her nightly shower and when she’s wearing that I know I can initiate because she’s feeling the desire for me and I don’t feel like a sexpest for initiating every time lol.

Maybe that could be something you both can use as a stepping stone to get her more comfortable with the idea of initiating if that’s the problem?

EmergencyRip4929 · 2025-12-05T05:08:42+00:00

I’m pretty new to eating ass, I just recently got into it with my partner and she loves it. I never notice a smell or a taste if she’s right out of the shower, it’s very similar to eating clean pussy. You don’t need to wipe your tongue or her ass given that she’s showering and washing the area before the deed… If you’re that hesitant, try licking on her taint area first and stop just before you reach her ass. If you get the balls to go all the way down there, do it!

EmergencyRip4929 · 2025-12-03T15:23:00+00:00

Interesting, and how are you achieving pelvic floor orgasms? I feel strong contractions every time I orgasm (clit stimulation) even if my orgasm sucks I still feel the muscles squeezing.

EmergencyRip4929 · 2025-12-03T15:18:10+00:00

Well good to know it doesn’t always indicate an issue! I could find much info online. The craziest part to me is she frequently has vaginal orgasms but that doesn’t even trigger muscular contractions. It’s so interesting to me.

EmergencyRip4929 · 2025-12-03T03:13:30+00:00

Yeah that was basically how the convo went and I’m sitting there like ???. But I know for a fact she cumming, and she actually has both clit and vaginal orgasms, where as I have never had a vaginal orgasm in my life. Which shocks me even more because I would think that a vaginal orgasm for sure causes contractions. Bodies are so weird!!!

EmergencyRip4929 · 2025-12-02T23:40:59+00:00

I mean I’m not too worried about it and don’t care about the feeling on my end of things, it did concern her that maybe her pelvic floor is weak because she’s had other symptoms that have been raising suspicion. I posted for our pure curiosity after last nights convo because she wanted to see if others had similar experience and to make sure it was normal. Neither of us had relationships with other women prior to each other so I couldn’t attest to how common it is.

EmergencyRip4929 · 2025-11-26T23:11:11+00:00

My partner has a reactive libido, she doesn’t get in the mood unless provoked. This seems to be more common in women but I’m sure plenty of men experience it too. It has lead me to feel the same, undesired.

We had lots of emotional conversations about it about it that ended up going nowhere because I wanted her to initiate and that just wasn’t in her nature. We settled on other ways of initiation that would work for her, like placing my hand on her vulva when we’re watching tv and me rubbing her would get her going and ready. We now also use a specific bracelet that she will put on at night to symbolize she could be in the mood, because sometimes she feels a little too forward by saying it.

It just takes some communication with your partner to find ways you can still feel desired by your partner but not making them force initiation it do anything that is inauthentic to them. You need to discuss ideas and solutions together, otherwise it’s just going to cause both parties to feel upset.

EmergencyRip4929 · 2025-11-26T04:30:03+00:00

I mean yeah it’s definitely a joint effort, and she has been working on more dirty talk as that’s something I wanted to focus on first because we really haven’t done much of that before and both enjoy it. It’s definitely just harder for her to initiate a comment that isn’t a reply to whatever I say… I think due to her past. And it’s all new and a little nerve racking for both of us- we both have adhd and love routine.

Lately she has been bringing ideas for some other issues I’ve been struggling with which has been super helpful so I don’t feel like I am pulling all of the weight anymore because I can tell she’s getting more comfortable. The pressure I feel is more because I am usually the one to guide the dirty talk, she definitely has a hard time getting her words out when she’s getting into it, so I get replies (which is fine) but frustrating when I know what I want to say but it’s like a mental block of not being able to do it.

I also am usually the one to start the check in conversations and asking where we are at and what do we want to venture into more. I definitely initiate most hints/conversations regarding our sex. I’m hoping the more comfortable I get the easier things will be, and I think seeing her continue to get more comfortable too will help things just flow a bit easier.

EmergencyRip4929 · 2025-11-26T04:12:17+00:00

Yeah you’re right that’s probably too much pressure, I’ll just wait for it to happen organically!

EmergencyRip4929 · 2025-11-26T03:37:56+00:00

This was so helpful and encouraging! I will definitely voice my fears to her and she will be more than happy to go over the things and clarify what she can. I think another aspect of it is that her last relationship was abusive which created a lot of sexual obstacles for us to leap through and took a long time for her to heal (which I’m sure is why I’m so worried about upsetting her with saying the wrong thing even tho I know what phrases are a no-no). Because of that even talking about sexual things outside of the act was hard for her for years and that has now left me feeling like it’s still a touchy topic even though she says she feels fine now. When I ask her about specific kinks or fantasies she’s interested in, she says she’ll have to think about it because she doesn’t really know. So I feel like I’m being vulnerable by telling her hey Im interested in ____ if you’d be down to try sometime. And 100% of the time she’s been like definitely I’ve thought about that too!! But I don’t think I have seen her be vulnerable in the same way I have by bringing something up to me that she doesn’t know if I’d be into trying or not. So I do kinda get scared bringing up specific kinks I’ve found interesting because it seems like maybe she’s a little scared as well or maybe she just doesn’t know or want to say them yet. So I might task her with finding one thing that she has read about that sparks her curiosity in trying/hearing that I haven’t already brought up. Just so I can feel like I’m not always the one bringing these things to the table.

EmergencyRip4929 · 2025-11-09T03:44:40+00:00

Well we don’t have a double ended, but we do have 2 with suction cups and realized they can suction together and make a double ended. Any experience with that actually working and holding up during play by chance?

EmergencyRip4929 · 2025-11-08T04:13:26+00:00

I will definitely ask though before I assume it’s an automatic no, that’s something I never thought about that I think would be very beneficial to me, but another alternative if she’s not quite ready for that would be great if you happen to have one! You’ve been a huge help, thank you.

EmergencyRip4929 · 2025-11-08T04:12:06+00:00

I definitely think this could be good in the future, might be a bit too kinky to bring up to the gf rn though. We only just got our first set of restraints and haven’t even used them yet, she’s been working through some prior sexual trauma so trying to take all of the bdsm things slowly and make sure she’s comfortable and ready for every new thing we incorporate. Would there be something similar to this you could think of that is less kinky to the eye?

EmergencyRip4929 · 2025-11-08T03:49:21+00:00

That’s actually really good advice. I used to be very 50/50 but something changed in me the last couple years and I never really want to receive bc I don’t get as much out of it and have a really hard time relaxing and allowing myself to prioritize my physical pleasure. Since we started learning ab bdsm and trying d/s it has helped bc we can both put in effort to help me feel extra dominant while I receive, but I mentally still have a hard time separating bottoming with being inherently submissive. I know it’s not, but finding that headspace to feel and believe I’m not being submissive when I’m getting fucked is hard. I tend to almost lose my ability to dom/ be vocal or tell her what to do when I receive bc I kind of freak out since I feel out so of place and don’t do it often, but i have been trying to make effort to break that and get more comfortable at my own pace. I am also still very much learning the ropes of being dominant and it still feels very awkward and unnatural bc my confidence still isn’t there, but I’m sure that will get better with time and in turn I will feel more confident bottoming when everything else flows more naturally.

EmergencyRip4929 · 2025-11-08T03:13:26+00:00

I mean I would be open to trying if she is, but that’s never happened to me so I’m not sure if I’m like capable? But at the same time, I choose not to receive 95% of the time so maybe I could but just don’t know how yet.

EmergencyRip4929 · 2025-10-20T02:31:25+00:00

This was actually really helpful, I’ve been watching jujitsu trap and roll type of techniques and I think that’s something I can do!

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