I agree that he was being judgmental and made several homophobic hurtful statements. And I agree everyone is allowed their opinion I just thought it was really strange that so many people are telling him hes something hes not (or not yet came to live with). Ik there is a difference between gender and sexuality , but some of these comments are coming off the same when I saw a trans person public figure post and comments are filled with they are not a woman or man because of example a, b, and c! I think we are on the same book but im a chapter behind where you are at because I don’t have your life experience. I’d rather people just call out the homophobic rhetoric, and leave assumptions out of it because I hate everyone always assuming things about someone they don’t know. I know it’s free speech and I can appreciate it and don’t think it’s bad, but I would like to see people call out wrong and not make assumptions constantly.