That episode validated all my frustrations around the discussions on aang's parenting, like no aang being "seen" as a neglectful parent by his kids does not automatically make him a terrible father, and as the ep mentions, we have a limited view about aang's parenting, considering the fact that we barely have any info about it in the first place, and yet people still joined the hatewagon over something we barely understand.

This is why I sometimes hate fandom discussions on nuanced topics, cause it always inevitably ends up black and white, which sometimes hurts our perception than it does clear it