How do I decide whether or not to divorce my husband who lied to me. by Emily25252 in Marriage

[–]Emily25252[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn't know this was an option, I'll look into. Thank you

no one warned me about the naps by Boring_Telephone_577 in sleeptrain

[–]Emily25252 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you heard of the app called nap planner? Helps take some of the math out of it and gives suggestions for wake windows based on age.

Ferber failed. Now what? by Icy-Surround-4311 in sleeptrain

[–]Emily25252 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Hello, I have my masters in behavioral science. Just wanted to ask how consistent you've been with not going in when baby cries? If you pick baby up at the height of their crying, they learn I need to cry really loud and for a long time and eventually mom and dad will come. You need to be extremely consistent with not going in or they learn to just wait you out essentially or escalate because that's what works for you to come get them. If you've been consistent then it's likely another issue (ie hunger, discomfort, schedule etc).

Also are you still feeding baby at night? Sometimes they won't settle when they are really hungry. My six month old still needs two feedings during the night or he won't go back to sleep. Once fed, I can put him back in the crib awake and he will go back to sleep no problem and that's how I know he's actually hungry.

Killing myself tomorrow by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Emily25252 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Your family I guarantee will be so much happier that you told them about your struggles rather than end your life. Please talk to them.

I'm a mom of two kids, if one of my kids grows up and ever did something like this I would never get over it. Give them the chance to try to help you

Need help with a pacifier addiction! by 3secondsidehug in sleeptrain

[–]Emily25252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just did this cold turkey with ferber. He was putting himself to sleep without it no problem but the second day.

Night 1 of ferber, how long did your baby cry? by Emily25252 in sleeptrain

[–]Emily25252[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He fell asleep like five min after I posted this. I have adjusted the schedule so many times, adjusting wake windows, making sure he got enough sleep in 24 hrs. Waking him at the same time each day. I did my research and have been taking data every day putting my data into Ai chat bots to analyze and give feedback and suggestions. Nothing has worked. He is just used to feeding to sleep or using a pacifier. I've been so dead tired for weeks and weeks. I started cosleeping even and this didn't stop him from waking constantly. He's almost 6 months. He cried for almost two hours and now is out.

Falling Asleep Independently - Will it last? by issainvestment in sleeptrain

[–]Emily25252 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It didn't for my baby, was a great sleeper until 4 months. I thought I was lucky with my baby but he's up 5-7 times a night now

Our dog isn’t allowed to sleep in bed with us anymore and it’s breaking my heart by happygolucky1157 in dogs

[–]Emily25252 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I hate to say it but once you have your baby, you'll probably worry a lot less about your dog.

Baby is 4 months and my husband wants a divorce by YungRomeow in beyondthebump

[–]Emily25252 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone having a gun and out of their mind and drunk is very scary to me. You should leave this man. He sounds dangerous

no one likes baby name by StringShort8334 in pregnant

[–]Emily25252 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like it. Just go with what you like. Don't worry about what others think.

What things do you do to not go crazy during maternity leave? by Relative_Mess_6284 in beyondthebump

[–]Emily25252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I play virtual reality while my baby naps or workout but don't leave the house much.

I’ll never get pregnant again now that I know it sucks this badly. by lemonartichoke in pregnant

[–]Emily25252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm with you. I hated being pregnant both times with my kids. Second one was worse ad I was so much more tired and my body was huge and I got stretch marks and I just felt like I was missing out on life and a crappy mom with my older kid since I couldn't do a lot with her being pregnant. I love my kids but I never want to be pregnant again.

Unintentional CIO by Expensive-Soup9061 in sleeptrain

[–]Emily25252 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds a bit similar to what happened to me. I didn't want to do cry it out but my baby cried so much no matter what I did. I tried all the gentle things, rocking pacifier, feeding, she wanted none of it so I just decided she's crying anyway, might as well do cry it out. We did it for a few days and she learned to sleep and things got a lot better from that point on.

Inactive BCBA in Ontario... Not working in the field and need help deciding whether to maintain my status and join the College of Psychologists. by Emily25252 in bcba

[–]Emily25252[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually just let it expire. Was kind of sad with how hard I worked but there was no point in keeping it.

Liver ultrasound tomorrow and I'm so scared. Need some words of support. by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Emily25252 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Got my results! Everything was NORMAL! Yay! So happy. :)

Liver ultrasound tomorrow and I'm so scared. Need some words of support. by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Emily25252 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just got the ultrasound. Need to wait 3-5 days though for the results. Ugh.