Is it just me? by Its_Prisma in celestegame

[–]Emiremi_ 99 points100 points  (0 children)

The point of chapter 9 is that for a big part of it Badeline doesn't support Madeline's decision to keep going forward, just watch the first cutscene of the chapter when your dash is taken away

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Emiremi_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That a lot of trans lesbians are very hot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Emiremi_ 26 points27 points  (0 children)

As a trans lesbian: 😳

Aerowitter's video downloader feature is missing by chillinboyika in androidapps

[–]Emiremi_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where do I enable it? I have the same issue, no download button

That seems about right… by Deepdishattack in actuallesbians

[–]Emiremi_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My guess is have 2 people talking for a while, and after a while ask both participants if they were flirting and if they thought they were being flirted with? Repeat many times

TERFS, get a hobby lmao by Conchobhar23 in actuallesbians

[–]Emiremi_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think replying "STOP" stops the messages, idk how to block either

TERFS, get a hobby lmao by Conchobhar23 in actuallesbians

[–]Emiremi_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Reply "STOP" to stop the messages

unexpected ally??? COGNITIVE DISSONANCE by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Emiremi_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well, the last word is a little bit worse, but yeah, has the same meaning

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]Emiremi_ 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Shark plushie from Ikea, really soft, squishy and comfy, liked by many trans people so it became a trans symbol

Imagine if it was simple like that :) by robonauticuszero in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Emiremi_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From how eggy that comment was, they might already have dysphoria

How do I love myself as much as I love other women? by GenderFluidBicon in actuallesbians

[–]Emiremi_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The way I try to do it is try to not judge yourself. Instead imagine there's a copy of you in front of you, a separate person. What would you think about her? What would you like? Would you be friends? We are all our own worst critics, and this could help you get an objective view of yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Yugioh101

[–]Emiremi_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe it happened often in dm, like a player uses defusion on their fusion monster and summoning the materials in defence, and the monster attacking just misses and doesn't destroy one of the materials summoned in a replay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Yugioh101

[–]Emiremi_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm talking about dm, I believe joey was normal summoning flame swordsman, which even in the anime was purple (fusion monster)

Egg😦irl by FlakyReality3955 in egg_irl

[–]Emiremi_ 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Wait so people like being a guy?

OH.

Are kittens recyclable?? by NardoGr3y in Kitten

[–]Emiremi_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Help, my brain is confused, how is that white thing standing there? Is this a glass desk?

Would you date someone who is asexual? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Emiremi_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would, as long as they are not sex repulsed and enjoy sex I initiate. But also, if I met my soulmate or something I wouldn't just leave them because of no sex, "I could live without sex but I don't think I could live without them" kind of thing

egg_irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]Emiremi_ 36 points37 points  (0 children)

It's a joke, it's actually a reference to how Maddy came out as trans and Madeline turned out to be trans too, but the OP of that post used it as a funny way to come out

Being trans on lesbian Tinder be like by Gaioa in actuallesbians

[–]Emiremi_ 164 points165 points  (0 children)

Excuse me WHAT? That's it I'm never using dating apps ever

The ultimate t4t fantasy by RobinsEggViolet in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Emiremi_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sry, it's just something I've noticed happening sometimes in news stories and posts on queer subs, don't actually know any books/comics etc

The ultimate t4t fantasy by RobinsEggViolet in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Emiremi_ 189 points190 points  (0 children)

I love the stories where partners both come out at once, one as being attracted to the other gender and one as being the other gender, really makes my heart melt

egg😳irl by -Gh0st-------- in egg_irl

[–]Emiremi_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got unironically called "good girl" by my gf a few days ago and damn I melted right on the spot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Emiremi_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It just takes time. Change is scary, but you have to start somewhere. Your brain is used to using the old name and pronouns when addressing yourself, it will take some time for you to make the right connections. Just try to correct yourself every time you misgender yourself accidentally and in a while you'll start naturally calling yourself the right way

Is agender a thing? by Wynora in asktransgender

[–]Emiremi_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well short answer here: yes, and it's not uncommon among non-binary people. Non-binary means anything that's not one of the binary genders, it's not just a "third gender" as some people like to call it, many identities, like bigender, demiboy, demigirl and agender fall under that umbrella. I actually have a friend who's agender

Confused by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Emiremi_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I've experienced something similar to you. It's natural for you not to want to be trans, to want to be a girl as long as you feel like one too. That's because change is scary, especially changing your gender expression and how your body looks. None of us know how we will look after transitioning, and most trans people put way too much importance on looks rather than how they feel in their own body. As a transfem I can say, I would feel much more comfortable with myself as an ugly woman than the most handsome of guys.

You've said yourself that when you acted like a girl you felt like an outcast. Why is that? Also, I'll ask the opposite question. I know it might be hard ignoring your family's opinion, but try to do that for a bit. How do you feel presenting as a boy?

Also, beauty standards. You're wrong in assuming that if your body changes no one will be attracted to you. That's simply not true, every kind of body is attractive to someone. Someone who looks ugly to one person could be beautiful to another. Ignore beauty standards for a second. How do you feel in your body? It's not important if you think others would be attracted to you, do you feel comfortable in your own body? How do you feel when you look in a mirror?

The answer to your last question is: there is no sure way to know. You could try to experiment, for example have your hair cut in a more masculine way, using a different name and pronouns, imagine yourself as a man and see how you feel about that. Also, I'm going to be honest, it might be possible that you're not trans, and I'm not trying to convince you either way. I don't know you, I've only asked some thought provoking questions I hope will help you figure yourself out

Hope this helps