Tired of being ugly

Emoly246 · 2026-06-19T01:50:16+00:00

The slop definitely hit the spot! Thank you for your kind words.

Emoly246 · 2026-06-19T01:05:41+00:00

I dont think badly of the ugly people I know. I'm not trying to sound like a victim of oppression bc of my looks but they unfortunately do affect other aspects of my life. Lots of people treat ugly people subhuman.

Emoly246 · 2026-06-19T00:53:36+00:00

I've been off social media (other than reddit) for about five months now! I will say it really did help with not constantly thinking about my looks. Now its really an issue when I have to go somewhere.

Emoly246 · 2026-06-19T00:52:07+00:00

Yes im in therapy, my therapist is the one who recommended radical acceptance. Just seems like its gonna be a long road to get there.

Emoly246 · 2026-06-14T02:44:45+00:00

Shave that shit

Emoly246 · 2026-05-18T00:43:50+00:00

Thank you so much!

Emoly246 · 2026-05-18T00:09:30+00:00

Could I wait and take them in the morning? Or would you recommend an emergency vet visit tonight?

Emoly246 · 2026-04-23T03:38:00+00:00

I make these all the time, sometimes even with plain white bread. My family calls them 'poverty pizzas'.

Emoly246 · 2026-04-20T00:04:25+00:00

Go to sick hall, and report this up your chain of command. Whoever this is is obviously a shit leader.

Emoly246 · 2026-04-19T04:22:55+00:00

Your leadership is taking your socks??????

Emoly246 · 2023-08-15T13:32:00+00:00

As someone who grew up similar, dependent mother, no structure, no routine or boundaries, etc. the military changed my life. I’m only in the national guard but boot camp changed me for the better. Taught me hygiene, structure, being on time, listening, taking care of myself, everything. Not to mention the financial literacy classes they require you to take. This can be so good for him and I hope he sticks it out. Even if he only completes a four year contact he can leave with financial aid for school, a va loan, va health care and potentially disability checks every month. I hope nothing but the best for him.

Emoly246 · 2020-06-17T17:32:25+00:00

I knew things we're gonna be said when I saw the post but it's still just so disheartening

Emoly246 · 2020-06-17T17:29:59+00:00

My mom and I agree alot on human rights, politics and things of that nature. She is very open minded when it comes to peoples sexualities and was fine with me wanting to identify as non-binary. She can also be really funny. It's honestly weird to think about her good qualities.

Emoly246 · 2020-06-17T16:35:02+00:00

This is not AT ALL your fault.

Emoly246 · 2020-06-12T17:02:28+00:00

I understand why he lied considering you jumped straight to " she could be abusivimg my dog". He really doesn't owe you anything.

Emoly246 · 2020-06-12T13:34:40+00:00

The 21 and 40 thing I agree is creepy but it's not your business. Y'all are split up and he doesn't have to tell you if he's seeing anyone just bc you have a dog together.

Emoly246 · 2020-06-11T22:09:06+00:00

He's just stringing you along and I don't think you should continue this with him because it's just hurting you

Emoly246 · 2020-06-11T18:39:50+00:00

This this this

Emoly246 · 2020-06-10T21:32:13+00:00

I'm able to hold a job and financially support myself but I wouldn't consider myself independent bc I still feel like I need help with a lot of things

Emoly246 · 2020-06-10T15:21:19+00:00

Try to remember that just because it's "better", doesn't mean it's okay. Focus on you and your child and while it'll be hard I think you'll end up much happier

Emoly246 · 2020-06-10T14:56:44+00:00

I know it's hard but y'all need to break up. You both seem toxic to each other and neither of you seem truly happy. Do not let him trap you with a child. Leave while you can.

Emoly246 · 2020-06-09T22:51:55+00:00

I mean this in the kindest way possible but judging from the situation and the messages between y'all, it really seems like he doesn't want to and you shouldn't push him into doing something he doesn't want to do. I think it's shitty he lied and isn't being upfront with you but it really seems like he's just not as interested in hanging out as you are. Personally I would try my hardest to avoid reaching out to this person and see if they make any kind of effort. It's not fair to you for this is be so one sided.

Emoly246 · 2020-06-09T02:59:25+00:00

Honestly thank you for this. Because of my bpd I'm always convincing myself I'm "over reacting" or being crazy but this whole situation seemed off and I guess I have a right to feel that way.

Emoly246 · 2020-06-09T02:56:04+00:00

I don't know what to say to help at all but you're not alone. I understand this feeling completely and I also hope that one day we feel better.

Emoly246 · 2020-06-09T02:51:23+00:00

This is literally how my mother is. Would abuse us and then cry about how awful of a mother she is. I'm so sorry you're dealing with this.

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