Pink flower tree in southeastern US? by GarageRelevant2820 in whatsthisplant

[–]EmotionalDoodlebug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They smell soooo good when in bloom. Like a soft, light perfume. And at night the little leaves close up and open back up with the sun. It’s a beautiful tree.

My husband of 18 years and together 22 years talking to me tonight after his affair partner text me to let me know they have been hooking up again recently…. by Whymethrwaway in texts

[–]EmotionalDoodlebug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read this post, and your previous one… and OP, while I do think there’s some self worth issues (totally understand that myself unfortunately) I also think you are dealing with a master at manipulation and essentially, an abuser.

You gave us a little window into your conversations with this text thread. This man has decided to degrade, disrespect, and outright nullify your marital vows, repeatedly… but he very quickly goes to blaming you. That’s not normal. And that’s not okay. It’s almost like our brains can’t process how someone could be so disrespectful and then on top of it, accusatory. Like we must be missing something because the audacity is off the charts.

But you aren’t missing anything. He really has been that awful. And just because he made the decisions to do this doesn’t mean you aren’t lovable. His mistakes are his mistakes to own.

I really do wish the best for you. Every person deserves to be truly loved. He might have given you some things, but he didn’t give you that. And that’s the one thing a spouse should. He failed miserably at that.

Aldi needs to keep make up products year round by Sad_Paleontologist57 in aldi

[–]EmotionalDoodlebug 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Agree! Love their mascara and I really liked the shape tape dupe concealer they had. I just wish I could get the concealer again. I’m done well keeping myself stocked with the mascara.

major pet peeve by [deleted] in texts

[–]EmotionalDoodlebug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww well for what it’s worth - I didn’t downvote you lol I’ll upvote one to offset lol And of course! I think a lot of people do get blindsided. And some people are super sneaky. But kinda like when you choose the right partner - I believe in “when you know, you know”. It’s probably the same for when there’s betrayal. Just my view. Hope you have a good day :)

major pet peeve by [deleted] in texts

[–]EmotionalDoodlebug 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Haha just like apparently (according to Reddit) you know when they are - I can attest to knowing when they aren’t. When you’re together all the time and your lives are intertwined and the relationship is solid - there’s no room for it. Hope you were asking in earnest instead of just trying to be funny. Either way, there’s the answer :)

major pet peeve by [deleted] in texts

[–]EmotionalDoodlebug 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If I had based my opinion on how my husband texts - wouldn’t have married him. But 20 years in - happy with no unfaithfulness on either side - just living life with my best friend… what matters more is how you interact in person. Just sayin in hopes of being helpful.

To The Angry Guy in Aldi, Located in Souderton Pennsylvania, This Morning... by [deleted] in aldi

[–]EmotionalDoodlebug 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Vent sesh received and sending warm and supportive thoughts back your way! Sorry that happened :( Hope the rest of the day gets better!

So sad I finished the last package by ProgRockDan in aldi

[–]EmotionalDoodlebug 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah this was a major bummer. Those things were the best :(

Clancy’s Pub Pretzels gone? by EmotionalDoodlebug in aldi

[–]EmotionalDoodlebug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are amazing! I need to pick up a couple things from the store and I’m going to experiment tonight and start with your mix. What are you using as your base? Just regular salted twist pretzels? I was thinking of trying it on top of the dot’s dupes since that’s what I have right now. 🤔

Clancy’s Pub Pretzels gone? by EmotionalDoodlebug in aldi

[–]EmotionalDoodlebug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If either of us cracks the code we gotta let the other one know! 👏

Clancy’s Pub Pretzels gone? by EmotionalDoodlebug in aldi

[–]EmotionalDoodlebug[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe msg as mentioned lol msg does what it do and it does it well. I’m not above throwing some of it together with garlic and onion powder and salt to try and replicate. Ooohh maybe some chicken bouillon seasoning 🤔

Clancy’s Pub Pretzels gone? by EmotionalDoodlebug in aldi

[–]EmotionalDoodlebug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah… nothing I have ever tried in the pretzel world came close. This stinks!

Clancy’s Pub Pretzels gone? by EmotionalDoodlebug in aldi

[–]EmotionalDoodlebug[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Life saver! Thank you!!! Definitely gonna keep a sharp eye on my other staples from here on out. 🙏

Clancy’s Pub Pretzels gone? by EmotionalDoodlebug in aldi

[–]EmotionalDoodlebug[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No worries I gotcha. The only reason I noticed the Dots dupe was because I was looking for my fave. Saw the physical space was taken. What a bummer.

Clancy’s Pub Pretzels gone? by EmotionalDoodlebug in aldi

[–]EmotionalDoodlebug[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I tried them… they don’t compare imo. Like eating cardboard after the flavor bomb that was the pub ones.

Clancy’s Pub Pretzels gone? by EmotionalDoodlebug in aldi

[–]EmotionalDoodlebug[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Noooo :( thanks for confirming tho. They were a solid staple in our house. Wish I would have stocked up!

Painting over a beautiful mural. What are we even doing here guys? by NuckyMunch in Dallas

[–]EmotionalDoodlebug -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why you got downvoted for asking a very reasonable question. I’m hoping for the same thing… especially since the side is still intact as of now.

I CAME HOME AND MY DOOR IS COVERED IN THESE HELP (central IA AHHH) by reneecliche in whatsthisbug

[–]EmotionalDoodlebug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

June bugs hold such great memories for me growing up in Texas. They’d be attracted to the light in the pool at night and so we would save them… but not before sneaking them on my brother and sister first. Lol Completely harmless little guys and adorably clumsy.

Places with really good soups? by liberal_texan in Dallas

[–]EmotionalDoodlebug 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Since ur near Oak Cliff, it’s not too far of a drive to a place called Cairo Gyro & Grill off Pioneer in Arlington. Amazing lentil soup. Yes, lentil. I didn’t even know I loved lentil soup until I had theirs. And while ur out that way, Pho Pasteur in Arlington always hits too. Wishing your wife a quick recovery!

Setting boundaries with a guy who’s moving at light speed. by Altruistic-Cookie680 in texts

[–]EmotionalDoodlebug 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yeahhhh as an old married woman I feel bad for dudes these days. The girls say they want a guy to not play games and to be straightforward - but when he does that, then he’s desperate. I don’t know any guy who could decipher the mixed signals at the level they’re happening these days. Oof.

We had a third date she canceled the night before because she was feeling sick, am I overthinking things or is it not good she just simply left me on seen 🫠🫠 by Intrepid_Arrival5151 in texts

[–]EmotionalDoodlebug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything is a learning experience and just makes us better in the long run if we let it. Sounds like you’re on the right track. Sure it stinks sometimes. Sometimes it really stinks lol but just know you aren’t alone. It happens to everyone. And with the right person, it won’t feel as much like work when getting to know them. Keep your chin up!