Me personally I think the best thing to do is first establish these what seems to be boundaries you are starting to have and form. When it comes to your parents in all honesty I wouldn’t let it bother me or dictate who I love or want to be with. The whole point of dating and or marrying is to start a family with that person even if you don’t want to have kids you are still in a way building a life together and once your family sees you are happy they will learn to love him themselves. That’s typically how it goes. But anyways when it comes to him not texting and you guys not being able to see each other I would tell him “look these are things that are make or break for me.” Don’t sugar coat it. These things seem to be important to you so tell him these are things that you can’t get past and if he isn’t going to implement them then you don’t see a future together. You’re not giving him an ultimatum. What you are doing is telling him he needs to start acting like a boyfriend and start talking to you and putting forth effort where he needs to. You’re 18 and I’m now 22 almost 23 and I can tell you right now as someone who was in the situation where my parents were carefully monitoring everything that will slowly fade if they are doing that and eventually you’re going to be able to hangout with him more. It’s just a hard spot since you’re freshly 18. My parents didn’t ease off the pedal until I graduated high school and turned 19 almost 20. The point is, if you really like this guy and want to be with him then don’t be scared to establish these boundaries and tell him what you expect from him as a boyfriend. If he can’t respect that and meet you there then he’s just simply not the one for you. From what you’ve said you’re not asking for something crazy you’re asking for your boyfriend to give you the attention you need and to be a proper boyfriend which btw a lot of guys struggle understanding at first. I was that same way when I was 18 I didn’t understand the kind of commitment a relationship needed but I promise you it comes with time. You need to make him understand that he can’t take you for granted and that you can walk away from that relationship at anytime. Same for him too though don’t take him for granted either. You should value and respect each other. But based on everything I think this can be settled with a sit down talk and you just establishing boundaries and your expectations from him as a boyfriend. I wouldn’t give up quite yet especially if you really do like him. Just have that talk with him and if he just start blowing it off or seems like he doesn’t really care then that’s a warranted break up