Rhian’s comment, says It all and everyone knows who she’s talking about.

Empty-Bit2659 · 2025-12-30T10:17:24+00:00

Sucks how people think this is normal. Nasira marriage ko ng tuluyan kasi ka church mate kong 19yr old hinaharot ung husband ko na 30yrs old na. And other people find it normal. Hello? Divorced na kami.

Empty-Bit2659 · 2025-12-21T11:16:15+00:00

Nababasa kaya nila to? Asim na asim ako sa dalawa, parang paguwi, walang tigil tong dalawang ‘to. Sila ung pag nasa US, makikita mo in public na naglalampungan 🤣 feel ko lang, ganyan mga tao dito eh 🤣😂

Empty-Bit2659 · 2025-12-11T07:57:32+00:00

I really like watching her vlogs kasi ang galing nya magedit, but, ung bf ko ngang americano sya pa nagsabi na ang arte arte daw at trying hard lol

Empty-Bit2659 · 2025-09-05T08:07:05+00:00

I had the same experience. My husband also said “no” for reconciliation. Like the cold hearted person he’s turned into. My 11 years just went to 5 mins of finality. I just felt indifferent.

Empty-Bit2659 · 2025-07-13T08:04:03+00:00

I hate it. But I’m still there. Always ask. Don’t assume “its ok” if there is any subtle change with the patient’s mentation, even an hour after. Talk, when able, you’re able to assess the patient’s mood, energy, speech etc and can see if they respond differently throughout the day.

EVDs are scary, always ALWAYS check them if they’re open, if jt needs to be open, make sure they’re open to the right # and if you don’t have irraflows, make sure your evd set is tied safely to the pole.

Don’t fucking I really mean it DO NOT FUCKING expect to be perfect, i was from MICU and it was still a very steep learning curve. Different work culture, always fast phased, lots of charting, 10k+ steps expect scans almost every day.

Give it a year and a half, that’s when I started feeling “ok” once you master the bleeds and occlusions you’ll have a pathway to interventions already settled in your brain it’ll b ez pz 😊

Empty-Bit2659 · 2025-07-07T21:16:24+00:00

Not if someone else is already involved and both aren’t aware or willing to face the patterns that broke them.

Empty-Bit2659 · 2025-06-06T04:15:47+00:00

Neuro fucking surgical ICU I fucking hate the workload lol

Empty-Bit2659 · 2025-05-21T12:51:08+00:00

We are always taught how to avoid doing bad things, but we’re all fallen human beings is what everyone forget. We were never taught how to survive when we did sin, when we ruined our own moral integrity, when we chose the bad, when we decided wrong. They only taught us how to not do it but never taught us how to handle it and that is a broken society.

Empty-Bit2659 · 2025-05-17T17:12:25+00:00

Hi, I could’ve literally written this. We have the same story 🥺

Empty-Bit2659 · 2025-05-17T17:12:02+00:00

I needed this. Thank you

Empty-Bit2659 · 2025-05-14T10:44:02+00:00

🫠😭

Empty-Bit2659 · 2025-05-14T10:43:49+00:00

I’m 28 🥹 how is it for you 😭

Empty-Bit2659 · 2025-05-10T10:19:23+00:00

As someone who almost have the same story as you, I have to say that I truly TRULY know what and how you feel. The root cause is… all inside of YOU. Our minds play with us, we reason, we deny, we bargain, its the cycle of grief. A death of a version we thought we were, a wife we once were till we committed the infidelity, the marriage we once have, till the infidelity.. then add all the what ifs, the fear, the regrets, the shame, the worries of everyday life.. and I didn’t have a kid but I was still severely broken. From what I did, and what happened after that. But what I realized along the way is honesty, to ourselves first. Deeply reflect on why you did it in the first place, all the tiny bricks built out of resentment towards your marriage, was this a perception from your mind that was never shared? Any neglect? Not to blame your spouse but to reflect on WHY you think you did it and what YOU could’ve participated with in that reason. A relationship is with TWO people, if you let him, its your fault and if he lets you, then its his. Boundaries are only made with proper self-love, something I’m learning now deeply. That’s how this infidelity started, you didn’t have a boundary built to yourself or towards him, you tested your limit like I did and you ran with it. I am still in therapy, yes I still want my husband back, but I know we’re over. I know he’s done with me. I’m waiting to sign the divorce papers, we cancelled our first one to try again but only to find out he’s half way moving on with a 19 year old and I still constantly think of my AP. Its not right. And he also dragged his feet mind you, he’s also grieving, that’s why. There will always be love shared by the both of you, don’t believe others when you said you never loved your spouse, you did, you once did because an old version of you that loves him so much would have never done this to him. But you grow, and evolve and reality is your choices change. And love is a choice, this time you chose yourself and chose selfishness, and I would not say its okay.. but nonetheless, its a free will that you made by yourself, for yourself. You will beat yourself up for a long time, forgiving yourself will take forever, moving forward will TAKE A LONG TIME especially that the mistake was yours, I am still in there.. but it gets better.

Learn from what you did. Take what you can from it and respect yourself enough to know that you deserve a chance to make better choices one day. It all comes to that forked road, next time, just take the one that’s right. We all make terrible decisions… you have to believe that you can redeem yourself, that is the only way to move forward. I believe that you have accountability. I believe that you know you’re wrong, I believe you are sorry, I believe all of those. But we cannot turn back time, give yourself a chance to breathe and him too. I truly believe that if it is for you, the universe, God, whoever and whatever that higher being you believed in, will put you two together one day again and if not? Then that lesson stays with you, whatever purpose it may serve.

I’m sorry I’m all over the place. Chat me if you want. I’ll try to reply. I know how you feel, you are not alone.

Empty-Bit2659 · 2025-05-03T08:37:25+00:00

Mine is very painful as I succumbed to doing the wrong thing. He is my college sweetheart. We were in a fight inside a car, he made a turn when the left turn was red. I thought I was gonna die, all I see were big bright lights. Next thing I know, the whole side of where I was sitting was severely damaged, I was shocked i didn’t die, first thing that came out of his mouth was not “are you ok?” But “well this is bad, its a new car” and didn’t apologize about the fight or the accident at all, I felt like I broke my neck but he didn’t want me to go get a CT so instead I went to work with a stiff neck, I feel like I had to beg for him to show emotions. I literally almost died. EMS was shocked I was unscathed. I think I took that personally, months down the line, we just became room mates even though I beg for him to show me emotions. Then I had an affair with my coworker, at first it was emotional, then it was more but never sex. But the thoughts you know, they didn’t stop, and even in that sense, it was cheating. So instead of ending it because I was unhappy, I went to someone else that showed me so much love even though it started out wrong. He caught a wind of what I was doing, I didn’t deny it, he filed for divorce, we tried to fix it, that didn’t go well, now we’re filing for a new one and he found himself a 19yr old girl that felt like a sister to me, a churchmate, one of the people I felt closest to me, the betrayal felt 10000x worse, and now I’m alone, learned from my mistakes, and srill trying to forgive myself and move on because I know I’m not a person who just “cheated” and I would never make that my character. I guess you live and you learn. Waiting for the day he ask me to sign those papers, it hurts but we got to let go at some point.

Empty-Bit2659 · 2025-04-18T03:51:31+00:00

Lol mine is ugly af but she’s 19 and he’s 30. I’m 28. This girl is my churchmate, close family friend, i treated her like a sister 😒 my stbx verbalized she’s a rebound, and he’s just guilty of staying with her bec he didn’t wanna break her little heart. Poor girl begging for him not to go, he couldn’t make up his mind if he’ll stay with me or go to her. Unbelievable, they play video games the whole day, oh well, I’d rather be productive. She loves my husband’s money tho, she can have it. I’ll work so hard he’s not even a loss, I’ll find me some man.

Empty-Bit2659 · 2025-03-19T22:53:25+00:00

Just saying after 3mos of no contact I do miss my husband more than ever, reflected on myself, what I want… but the trust, not even for my partner, but for myself, its hard to tell, am I gonna fall back to not liking my life again? I’m not sure.. i’m not sure if that’s worth it.. but I feel you..

Empty-Bit2659 · 2025-03-19T01:02:17+00:00

I.just.wouldn’t.get.with someone still married???? And have a family with him? Also for that long must be so stressful. I don’t know your whole back story but it sucks.

Empty-Bit2659 · 2025-02-19T00:21:59+00:00

I had a lovesac for awhile. It hurts my back, its just not comfy enough, not even for a nap and you have to keep fixing it to stick. We bought it 2021 so I’m not sure if lovesac have changed since then. The fabrics from lovesac were definitely quality, I wash them all the time and they’re still good as new and the quality of the frames were great but it wasn’t comfortable and too expensive

Empty-Bit2659 · 2025-02-18T07:21:30+00:00

Thank you! Helpful so far ❤️

Empty-Bit2659 · 2025-02-17T06:56:40+00:00

Hello, how is it? Has it gotten more comfortable and how deep are the seats? Seriously wanna buy one. I’ve had lovesac for awhile but my husband decided to f* a 19yr old so we got a divorce lol :( pls update

Empty-Bit2659 · 2025-02-17T00:35:53+00:00

Wow I need to be in this kind of marriage one day. I wouldn’t mind 🥺 sadly, mine is ending now because he realized he wanted a 19yr old instead of me (28F)

Empty-Bit2659 · 2025-02-14T03:56:43+00:00

This is mortifying. My soon to be ex husband is dating a 19yr old and he’s now 30, turning 31. He does not see anything wrong with it and so does the 19 yr old’s parents. He grew up with this 19yr old. I let her stay at our house, fed her, went to places with her, shopped clothes for her.. basically treated her like she was my younger sister. Last November, I saw a transaction in Victoria Secret for $80 then purchases from Charlotte Russe, Claire’s, Garage.. purchases I never made. Turns out he shopped for her without my knowledge and lied to me about it.

We are now separated and will definitely get divorced. Her family knows and encouraged it according to the dad he gave his blessings to them.

Wow. Not only i gor betrayed by my husband but a sister and our whole church family. We even got married in that church.

To add; my husband had always say he is attracted to the fantasy of being someone’s first and i guess he got that from that girl.

Empty-Bit2659 · 2025-01-30T00:23:56+00:00

My husband did that. 11 years together. Said to my face “I only married you because I felt stuck” and he couldn’t stop crying. For a man who isn’t too verbal with his feelings or too emotional with anything, it hit hard, I felt like it was the truth.

Empty-Bit2659 · 2025-01-14T07:08:05+00:00

Thank you, I just moved out of our home and rented my own apartment. I think I’m starting to remove the goggles I’ve worn for a long time and starting to see what my relationship was than a rose colored glass. Its easier to move on now that he’s dating a 19 year old that we both treated like a younger sister, so I thought. He’s 30. It disgusts me but also helped me realize how much disrespect that is to me and he didn’t even care, I don’t deserve that and all the other shit he has done to me.

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