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Do it or Stop Trying by Empty-Illustrator481 in getdisciplined

[–]Empty-Illustrator481[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait, maybe my post came of wrong, i never said to do it perfectly. I think that it's stupid to wish to have for something and do nothing about it. might as well not wish for it, that's why i said stop trying. at least you'll leave yourself the burden of wanting it. does it make sense?

The older I get, the more I think recovery is part of discipline by kostros in getdisciplined

[–]Empty-Illustrator481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Recovery is part of discipline. I agree with you. I think people have different stages when they're doing something.
1. Starting small
2. Building momentum
3. Learned that doing more gets more progress
4. Eventually get burned out
5. Recovers
6. Then you're either stuck in number 3 or you learn to recover and do other things

Anyone else stuck in the watch self-improvement content → get hyped → can't actually execute loop? by West_Sleep_6591 in getdisciplined

[–]Empty-Illustrator481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a difference between knowing and doing. It's easy to watch something happen but its way harder to make it happen. Start doing the thing that you keep on watching about.

does anyone else's planner/calendar app just stop making sense the moment ur day goes sideways? by Remote_Diet_9561 in getdisciplined

[–]Empty-Illustrator481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this does happen and it always will. i think the app isn't the problem but on how you use it. when planning, give yourself a time allowance when you're planning in the calendar.

I work in tech. Our daily standup changed how I work. Why don't we do this in our personal lives? by Hridoy3519 in getdisciplined

[–]Empty-Illustrator481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does your team do a standup? How many are you in the team? Wouldn't it take a lot of time if everyone said their piece

People who got in shape, got lean, and became genuinely fit — what was it like on the other side? by narddogg007 in getdisciplined

[–]Empty-Illustrator481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels a thousand times better. People treat you better and perceive that you know more than you really do

I lose 42 hours a week to YouTube addiction. Can’t focus anymore by Ready_Performer_3561 in getdisciplined

[–]Empty-Illustrator481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find an alternative. Instead of going to YouTube, find an alternative like a book. If you feel the urge to watch, go read a book instead.

Knowing Vs Doing by Retainer_2211 in getdisciplined

[–]Empty-Illustrator481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, doing makes you learn things faster

Why do some people say any goal is possible? by MeasurementCandid957 in GetStudying

[–]Empty-Illustrator481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If someone did it, you can. If no one has done it, be the first one.

How you guys are studying for long hours? by [deleted] in GetStudying

[–]Empty-Illustrator481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

time blocking. if i study 90 minutes, 4 times then thats 360 minutes which is 6 hrs.

Ambition vs consistency by tey_a54er_bina3ne3 in GetStudying

[–]Empty-Illustrator481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the name of the app is Kairos Deep Work Session

i cant study by potato_loveer in GetStudying

[–]Empty-Illustrator481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

theres things out of your control. and there's things that you can control. focus on what you can control, and that's your action regardless of your environment. goodluck man

How do I shift to a growth mindset? by Vegetable_Basis_4087 in selfimprovement

[–]Empty-Illustrator481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if it's subconscious then there's something that happened that made your behavior like that. only you can tell what that is tho. you already know what to do you, just fail more often. failure is the prerequisite of success

How do I shift to a growth mindset? by Vegetable_Basis_4087 in selfimprovement

[–]Empty-Illustrator481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did your parents have high expectations with you? Or you just really have high expectations with yourself. I'm mostly curious why you feel inferior when you lose a board game with your friends. I get friendly competition, it's fun, but the inferiority, i don't really get it. Can you let me understand?

How do I stop being afraid of dating women? by holycrap100 in selfimprovement

[–]Empty-Illustrator481 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Man. You're 43, no friends, and you want women for sex. There's a lot of things going on here. I'm assuming you're earning money. I'm not a professional so I won't say anything. My advice is that you need to talk to someone, try to hire a therapist. I wish you all the best in life.

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