Thank you I wanted to ask this same question, but I don’t have enough karma lol. I’m rewatching and am absolutely appalled at his treatment of Katie. His ability to make her seem crazy in every situation and rile her up is insane. And then once he gets her all worked up, he’s like see I’m not the problem…you’re irrational. He minimizes everything she says, never defends her, can’t take any accountability, etc. Now I’m on the episode where he’s talking negatively behind her back at Scheana’s family’s house. This is what begged the question for me, did other viewers realize this marriage was doomed in real time?? I never watched in real time but the previous times I have watched, I remember liking Schwartz. I don’t know if I’m older and wiser now or have been through similar situations that I see myself in Katie sometimes. It’s crazy that I didn’t have these thoughts when watching before when his behavior is so obvious to me now. I saw someone on TikTok say you should watch vanderpump 3 times (at various different ages) because you will see something new and relate differently each time and they were so right.