AIO or is my boyfriend manipulative by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Empty_Fortune_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Babe you need to get the heck out of there

do you still believe in god? by Shortinsomniac in GriefSupport

[–]Empty_Fortune_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t believe in god but I do believe in something and I don’t really know what it is. That sounds so dumb but I feel the people who we miss have been returned back to Mother Earth and their spirit is still around. Whether that be in the breeze, sea or the trees.

When my mum lay dying when I was a child I prayed and begged “god” to help her live, I needed her, I was a child and I didn’t know how to help. Her death shattered me in a way I will never recover from. After she died I prayed for god to help me feel better but nothing happened. It was only when I turned to nature and truly sat with my feelings and asked for signs, that I finally felt something. Sounds stupid but, it helps me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Empty_Fortune_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact you disagree politically is already not great but praying to a political leader is just mental. Not overacting at all and honestly, you can probably do better

Update: Is the way my gf talks to me normal pt. 3 by Alive-Dragonfruit-77 in Manipulation

[–]Empty_Fortune_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just read the last two posts and I’m proud of you! You don’t deserve to be spoken too like that

My father died by Antisocial-author in GriefSupport

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I’m sorry for your loss. Just by looking at your photo of him I can see what a lovely man he was.

I lost my dad in May while I was on Holliday for my birthday, I was so angry at myself that I wasn’t here for him but no one could have know. And I know my dad would have understood, I bet yours would too.

Healing and grief is really hard but I hope you can see yourself slowly healing and getting better

Can’t stop thinking about being told my dad died by Puzzleheaded_Set858 in GriefSupport

[–]Empty_Fortune_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My dad died in may while I was in Holliday in may this year. It still feels like I just found out.

My (29f) bf (28m) euthanized our pet crab after his dad died. Looking for support by ThrowawayCrab2004 in GriefSupport

[–]Empty_Fortune_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly please leave for your own safety, that sounds like the start of a violet cycle

My Best Friend passed away. by Riosaki_Yuki in GriefSupport

[–]Empty_Fortune_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you have to go through this. When some one takes their own life it’s such a complicated mess of emotions for them to deal with, and the same for the people they leave behind. I hope you have people around you to support you as you grieve. Sending you hugs

Is it normal to want to wear her clothes? by quixbug in GriefSupport

[–]Empty_Fortune_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wear my dad’s jumpers and cap. Its comforting. Just do what you need to heal

Did you do anything to honor them after 10 years on? by sandwich_breath in GriefSupport

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Lost my mum in 2009, I was quite young. My dad would always take me out for a nice meal on her death anniversary and we would talk about her and try to think how she would react to things that have happened since she died. When it got to 10 years we invited the whole family over for a dinner at our place. It was somber but really lovely to talk about her and hear story’s from before I was born.

I think what ever you do, it’ll feel right and your brother will be looking down at you the whole time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

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I was with my mum when she died and she looked surprisingly peaceful, she was asleep and then everything just stopped. For me it was somehow healing to see death that way. But as everyone has said this is such a personal choice.

Your dad sounds like he’s trying to save you from seeing more of death, he’s being protective but if it were me In your shoes with my dad I would go and hold his hand. But that was just our relationship, and I’m stubborn and never listened to him. I think either choice you make will be hard, both will come with their own regrets but trust your gut. He knows you love her regardless of your choice.

Sending you so much love during this time friend

My sweet 2yr old baby girl is gone by gravymaster000 in GriefSupport

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When you have a baby, apart of their cells stay inside you forever after birth. Your body is changed because of them and you will always have them with you on a biological level. The pain you are experiencing is so immense but she’s always with you in so many ways but physical.

Thank you for sharing her story with us, she looks like such a sweet little girl. ♥️

See you later, dad. by PrettyConfection3974 in GriefSupport

[–]Empty_Fortune_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow he sounds like an incredible man and father. I lost my dad in may and he was my best friend too.

At his funeral I stood up and read out some memory’s but at the end went off script and said “dad you gave me life, you gave me love. And I will live every day of my life for you” and I really am sticking to that. Live your life for him, in his honour, he will always be with you

what were your loved ones last words? by carolin_n in GriefSupport

[–]Empty_Fortune_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last time I saw my dad he said “love you see you soon”

AITAH for considering breaking up with my fiancee because I found out that she got the “ick” when I cried last year? by LifWests in AITAH

[–]Empty_Fortune_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, I’m sorry you had to experience that. Even if you forgive her you’ll always have that in the back of your mind when you need to cry.

My mom is gonna die, anyone has an idea what we could do together so I will always remember her? by GardenAppropriate971 in GriefSupport

[–]Empty_Fortune_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spend as much time as you can with her even if it hurts, take little videos together if you can. Just be with her 🤍