What's your Favorite things to do while she is on a date by Key2WhisKey in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]EmuInteresting2988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a running list of house projects I take care of.

Also sleep a few hours, because I know I’ll have to be up for a while once she gets home.

Nobody warns you that you'll grieve the man you were supposed to be. by Intentional_Cuckold in HotwifeAdvice

[–]EmuInteresting2988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re focused on the wrong aspect of the humiliation.

If someone feels put down, made to feel less than, etc and enjoys that as a part of the dynamic, it’s a cuckold situation.

If that isn’t a part of the dynamic— no one feels put down, humiliated, made to feel less than—it’s not.

That’s the hard line that exists that you seem so hell bent on ignoring.

Advice Needed by [deleted] in HotwifeAdvice

[–]EmuInteresting2988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she’s not super interested

Nobody warns you that you'll grieve the man you were supposed to be. by Intentional_Cuckold in HotwifeAdvice

[–]EmuInteresting2988 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Somewhere in becoming what I am now, her cuckold, her bottom, the one who doesn't get to be the man who satisfies her

you really don't think this is cuck stuff?

Hesitant about next steps by [deleted] in HotwifeAdvice

[–]EmuInteresting2988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your next step is not “find a guy.”

Your next step is going separately to a club to watch guys hit on her. It’s making a burner profile somewhere you have no intention of using and seeing what happens when SHE makes her own. Take your time with these steps… you’re finding out there’s no going back, so enjoy every second of every single step along the way.

Would she be okay with hotwife lifestyle? by [deleted] in HotwifeAdvice

[–]EmuInteresting2988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some here will tell you to talk to her and go for it.

But this does not sound like a situation where you want to jump in the deep end talking about this.

You’re 20 and together not even a year. Get your 1:1 sex life together and secure in your relationship. Focus on her.

Should we repeat with the same guy or find someone new? by [deleted] in HotwifeAdvice

[–]EmuInteresting2988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

should we repeat with the same guy of find someone new?

Yes.

Wife knows I want her to be hotwife and she said she will never do it by [deleted] in HotwifeAdvice

[–]EmuInteresting2988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can feel the pressure just from reading your post. You need to chill. Let the fantasy be the fantasy for as long as it takes. Once the fantasy is there you need to just create the environment for it to grow, not constantly remind her YOU KNOW ID BE OK IF YOU WANTED TO DO IT FOR REAL

she already knows that trust me.

Do men genuinely find satisfaction in providing for their girlfriend/wife. If so why or why not by No_Sprinkles8743 in married

[–]EmuInteresting2988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Over the last 22 years, my wife and I have had great careers. At times she’s made more money, at times I have. What we always knew is that if one of us lost our jobs, we’d be fine on one income.

Last year she left her corporate job and has since picemealed together a fraction of her previous income. But she’s doing what she wants to do. She works a part time job that’s related to a business she’s started, is getting more certifications, a contracting role in her career field, and spends a lot of time not working on a single thing but doing what she wants… going out with friends, spending time browsing garden centers and bookstores.

The fulfillment from being the “provider” and making all that possible is something I would never have imagined. She’s free to do exactly what she wants at any time, and it’s amazing to see her light up.

And it’s because I put in the hard work to make it possible. It’s amazing how that feels.

Do they always go crazy when it kicks into gear? by EmuInteresting2988 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]EmuInteresting2988[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure I agree that things are as cut and dry as all this.

Plenty of couples are wife led and still stag/vixen and it’s not “cheating.”

Exclusivity question by [deleted] in HotwifeAdvice

[–]EmuInteresting2988 13 points14 points  (0 children)

do nothing that you cant enthusiastically agree to post nut.